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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Absolutely Bricking it, tomorrow I'm coming out for the first time to my sister dressed as me, any advice xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Amazing! I hope it goes well and she excepts you for you.

No advice really just massive virtual hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh good luck!! I hope all goes well for you

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be confident. Best of luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it goes well but have you talked to her about the real you already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wishing you the very best of luck and here’s hoping your family accept who you are.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op and such bravery good on you well done please keep us updated how it gose and I am shour we all have or fingers crossed for you xxx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Does she know you dress and has she seen any pictures of you dressed?

Just springing it on her if she knows nothing about it at all then prepare her first by talking a lot and letting her know that this is who you really are and why you've hidden it for so long and why you want to come out to her.

I wish you the very best of luck with it as its a huge step and if it comes off well, very freeing and liberating for you as well as could bring you both closer with a better understanding of each other

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, she's just never met me before xx

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks hun xx

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Good luck

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Good luck.

Only advice I have is to be yourself x

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Good luck.

Only advice I have is to be yourself x "
I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bless you, big day for you.

I still remember my first days in front of friends and family and it very scary indeed but just remember that she’s already accepting of you else she wouldn’t want to see you, that’s 90% of the battle, the rest is all down to nerves and that will pass.

Best of luck and can’t wait to hear all about it

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks hun she has known since a d*unk phone call after years ago, she probs suspected for a lot longer. Its taken a while for her to get to the stage where she's able to meet me. Hopefully the first step in moving forward for myself, Been waiting for 2 years for a GIC appointment which I hope transpires next year xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Good luck

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hope it goes well for you. Just be prepared for whatever reaction she’ll have. When my previous partners in the past, have seen me dressed for the first time, it did get a few different reactions. From laughing (but quickly saying it was the shock) to crying (also the shock) but after the first time, it was never an issue after that.

Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I hope it goes well. There's lots of good advice on here.

I showed my sister a few pics of me in glam mode and then we had a night out in Leeds, which went well. Although I did have to dead arm her a few times for using the wrong name. We had loads of fun. I convinced a load of lads that she was a porn star who specialised in double anal and we had one lad chatting to us whom we couldn't work out who he fancied, me or her

Let us all know how it goes x

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for the support, been though about every outfit I own to find something towards, going for subtle and age appropriate, not overly glam managed to narrow the choice. Xxx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Big big day, I hope it goes great!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Good luck. I hope it goes really well for you.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Oh, best of luck, OP.

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Best of luck , but be prepared for shock !

Prepare for lots of questions .

It may take time .

Maybe tell her you like to dress and once she’s digested that ask her if she’d like to see either a pic or real life x

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *inky_katrina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Best of luck , but be prepared for shock !

Prepare for lots of questions .

It may take time .

Maybe tell her you like to dress and once she’s digested that ask her if she’d like to see either a pic or real life x"

Told her that I think I was trans a few years ago, tomorrow is the first time she gets to meet me as me. Got a couple of bottles of wine hopefully she can get comfortable with her new sister xx

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