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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it's them?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "
Im sure they will spot you soon enough with your many face pics & if they want to get in touch they will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to go with a cold hard no on that one.

You’ve said it yourself that they are very private, I can’t imagine it would go down well if you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "

Depends on if you would like anything to happen with them and are fine with them knowing you are on here.

If you’re interested in them then be completely open about who you are and that you value discretion, also be respectful. Then take your cue from what response you get (remember that no response is still a response!)

If you’re not interested then simply ignore their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to go with a cold hard no on that one.

You’ve said it yourself that they are very private, I can’t imagine it would go down well if you did. "

Echo this!! 100%

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t like you say they’re private ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...leave them alone.

If they're local, they'll see you and get in touch if they're interested.

You'll just look like a creepy stalker type if you do.

Lu

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Leave well alone if I was you, if you cross paths on the forums or something and they approach you to say hi then take it from there but otherwise leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to go with a cold hard no on that one.

You’ve said it yourself that they are very private, I can’t imagine it would go down well if you did. "

I agree with this

Her x

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We have found quite a few people we know on here, was a shock with some of them . We said hi and it's now like a sexy secret club we are all part of even though we haven't played with any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "

If they have public face pics then say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be subtle about it

Message them a nice message

If you get no reply

Post a penis picture through there letterbox x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd respect their privacy. They'll contact you if they're interested.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’d steer clear unless they reached out to you.

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

If you have viewed their profile they will find out that way as your viewing will be flagged up on their profile

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Anyone that recognises me , it’s happened a few times , I block instantly if they mail me .

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham


"If you have viewed their profile they will find out that way as your viewing will be flagged up on their profile "

so I would leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

I have nothing else to say

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If you do decide to contact them amd they don't have any face pics then you could play it that you had no idea it was them but do keep in mind that it could be seen as deceitful and it may well explode in your face.

Your call OP but it does appear that the majority would see it as a bad thing.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If as a result of sending a message you get blocked OP then you will have your answer. However is that going to help. ? Better to let them find you by posting updates that pop up on their Updates tab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. I actually saw them in RL last night.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Nah...leave them alone.

If they're local, they'll see you and get in touch if they're interested.

You'll just look like a creepy stalker type if you do.

Lu "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Thanks for all the replies. I actually saw them in RL last night. "

Stop hanging around outside their house, thats creepy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I happened to be at a friends and they came round too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I happened to be at a friends and they came round too "

LAWBREAKER!!

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