FabSwingers.com forum: What is wrong with me ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Elusiveness

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Gutter language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment it's people that are asking for meets, our block list is massive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single word replies after quite a while of chatting. Once that happens the conversation is over

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gutter language."

Yes !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the moment it's people that are asking for meets, our block list is massive. "

Crazy isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single word replies after quite a while of chatting. Once that happens the conversation is over "

Yes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single word replies after quite a while of chatting. Once that happens the conversation is over

Yes !! "

I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single word replies after quite a while of chatting. Once that happens the conversation is over

Yes !!

I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles.. "

Well

Some like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clunge !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

Armpit hair

Overgrown pubes

Smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics.

Hey

Hows ya day

How you doing

I want to .. .....

I love mature older...

The list is endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me I don’t message to look for a meet, and I get easily put off by a variety of things when I get messages. I suppose the main things are a lack of basic manners / communication skills, dramatic types or attention seekers etc, and those often masquerading as something they aren’t. If it’s not simple, funny or fun, then it doesn’t appeal, and shouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s fuck now

Are you free

What you wareing

Feel like I expect to be sitting ready like some free escort to jump when they say

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Lots puts me off.

Spelling and grammar, over familiarity too soon, being too demanding and not giving back in return.

Game playing and trying to coerce you into doing things you've said you're not into.

Things either click and works or it doesn't and you can't always quantify why.

Covid and not being able to make plans and things fizzling out because you can't take things to the next place is a bummer and isn't helping anyones mojo lately and you can see its getting to everyone on here.

Sad times

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Assumption.... I hate it people assume

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

Armpit hair

Overgrown pubes

Smoking"

Obligatory thumbs up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single word replies after quite a while of chatting. Once that happens the conversation is over

Yes !!

I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

Well

Some like that "

Indeed..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cock pics.

Hey

Hows ya day

How you doing

I want to .. .....

I love mature older...

The list is endless"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think for me I don’t message to look for a meet, and I get easily put off by a variety of things when I get messages. I suppose the main things are a lack of basic manners / communication skills, dramatic types or attention seekers etc, and those often masquerading as something they aren’t. If it’s not simple, funny or fun, then it doesn’t appeal, and shouldn’t

Preach !

It’s a cool saying - so I’ve heard

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

Yes! spelling

Explicit photos sent in messages when they have not been requested.

Crude talk and people that call my breasts - Tits . Lol probably a few more but I can’t remember . I’m easily put off .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let’s fuck now

Are you free

What you wareing

Feel like I expect to be sitting ready like some free escort to jump when they say

Same old same old isn’t it

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By *alerieCouple
over a year ago

Close by

The word “ naughty “ as in : anyone fancies some naughty fun ? Or looking for naughty ladies ...

Are we back in kindergarten?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Dry conversation with no energy whatsoever. You might have a pretty face but being able to hold a convo is equally important to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots puts me off.

Spelling and grammar, over familiarity too soon, being too demanding and not giving back in return.

Game playing and trying to coerce you into doing things you've said you're not into.

Things either click and works or it doesn't and you can't always quantify why.

Sad times

Definitely the trying to coerce - had one recently

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Life’s to short to have issues with little things .Besides the obvious like hygiene it’s people that are arrogant and have a bad attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

Yes! spelling

Explicit photos sent in messages when they have not been requested.

Crude talk and people that call my breasts - Tits . Lol probably a few more but I can’t remember . I’m easily put off .

Ass for me ... why oh why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assumption.... I hate it people assume "

Makes an ass out of u + me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Oh! And some of the bloody truly awful pics on profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The word “ naughty “ as in : anyone fancies some naughty fun ? Or looking for naughty ladies ...

Are we back in kindergarten?

I love you ... I have a huge dislike for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Assumption.... I hate it people assume

Makes an ass out of u + me"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s fuck now

Are you free

What you wareing

Feel like I expect to be sitting ready like some free escort to jump when they say

Same old same old isn’t it "

Yes it really tests me sometimes to not just lose my stuff that’s how when a normal convo pops up I am so happy because I so long just for a nice normal get to know each other chat with a bit off like mind light hearted flirting thrown in to the mix

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

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bad filthy language,pics of women sucking coxx,pics of women with cum on their face and body

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth like a burnt fence does it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

bad filthy language,pics of women sucking coxx,pics of women with cum on their face and body"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!! "

Face photos are a huge thing for me .. I have to find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Teeth like a burnt fence does it for me

I get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insincerity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Insincerity

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Teeth like a burnt fence does it for me

I get you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so fussy so it could be small things like that Mmmmmmmmm thing they do.Or getting too naughty to quick.Or that I'm wanking over your pics.Or just trivial random comments.Or they upload a pic I dont like.

Then boom i go off them and dont even want to chat anymore.

That's so nasty and idiotic of me as I'm not perfect so I dont know why but certain things flick my off switch instantly

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!!

Face photos are a huge thing for me .. I have to find them attractive "

Me too....face pics mean everything and to a degree the body doesn't matter a fuck. I have to like their face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm so fussy so it could be small things like that Mmmmmmmmm thing they do.Or getting too naughty to quick.Or that I'm wanking over your pics.Or just trivial random comments.Or they upload a pic I dont like.

Then boom i go off them and dont even want to chat anymore.

That's so nasty and idiotic of me as I'm not perfect so I dont know why but certain things flick my off switch instantly

x "

You don’t have to be ‘perfect’ to have your own standards x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!!

Face photos are a huge thing for me .. I have to find them attractive

Me too....face pics mean everything and to a degree the body doesn't matter a fuck. I have to like their face."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then boom i go off them and dont even want to chat anymore.

That's so nasty and idiotic of me as I'm not perfect so I dont know why but certain things flick my off switch instantly

You don’t have to be ‘perfect’ to have your own standards x"

I just feel nasty though and I'm not a nasty person.

I've liked someone before and he gave me a certain look and it just put me off him and instantly stopped seeing him as a friend.We didn't have sex or anything but still he was a nice person and I kind of hurt his feelings and I hate myself for that.

I guess we all have our faults and mine is I'm too fussy and picky

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!!

Face photos are a huge thing for me .. I have to find them attractive "

Me too! And it doesn’t happen often

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Face pics...... I get so disappointed. Then I might see them in person and think blimey!!!

Face photos are a huge thing for me .. I have to find them attractive

Me too....face pics mean everything and to a degree the body doesn't matter a fuck. I have to like their face."

Exactly

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me"

See what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single profiles where all the photos are them with someone else and you can’t actually see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you OP, intentional bad spelling, or just very bad spelling in general, a few mispelt don't bother me.

Nothing is wrong with you, it can be good to be choosey, I have been single over a year now because I can be so fussy but I don't regret it.

Also, pushiness and impatience is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at their posting history using the green arrow. Probably a bit too much, but regular posting on the virus forum and the use of block capitals is an instant no.

Does anyone else use forum posts as a filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

You seem to be doing ok judging by your verification summary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

See what you did there "

Oh yes

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By *hatever works for USCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield/Sunderland

“You okay”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crudeness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

You seem to be doing ok judging by your verification summary "

I presume you have assumed that I have fucked every person I’ve met ?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

See what you did there

Oh yes

Are we sailing off into the sunset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off easily too. For example, in your profile I think you sound too charismatic and I was put off by the fact you are funnier than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

You seem to be doing ok judging by your verification summary

I presume you have assumed that I have fucked every person I’ve met ? "

This is funny and been said to me before.

Alot of mine are from friends from clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

You seem to be doing ok judging by your verification summary

I presume you have assumed that I have fucked every person I’ve met ? "

No, I don’t remember say that ?

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By *he RizzlerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

One word response for me, won't even bother to try and get the conversation going if its a one word reply haha! I spend time to read a profile and break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am finding I am put off way easier than not, these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

See what you did there

Oh yes

Are we sailing off into the sunset?"

Maybe, sunrise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I’m not the only one

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Veris from someone I don’t find attractive

and single guys profile who has lots of women’s nudes on it... like what’s the need we know you’ve probably had sex and half the women probably don’t even know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of you send the first message? Do you tend to just wait for people to start a conversation on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shock and horror. The other day o was winked at and messaged by a local lady. After a few messages I asked if she had a photo as her profile was photo less.

She then started saying why would I want a photo!! I never implied or asked for anything “risqué”.

So in answer someone’s attitude puts me off despite knowing a message can be misinterpreted as the way it is written can’t be heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shock and horror. The other day o was winked at and messaged by a local lady. After a few messages I asked if she had a photo as her profile was photo less.

She then started saying why would I want a photo!! I never implied or asked for anything “risqué”.

So in answer someone’s attitude puts me off despite knowing a message can be misinterpreted as the way it is written can’t be heard "

* I was winked

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

See what you did there

Oh yes

Are we sailing off into the sunset?

Maybe, sunrise "

Ships Ahoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insincerity

In what way?"

When your lied too, we've all chatted to those type of people on here at some point...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Elusiveness

Funny

Fucker

Funny thing is... it is actually the truth

Marry me

See what you did there

Oh yes

Are we sailing off into the sunset?

Maybe, sunrise

Ships Ahoy"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Insincerity

In what way?

When your lied too, we've all chatted to those type of people on here at some point..."

Ahhh ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women in their pictures. All cock pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women in their pictures. All cock pictures."

There’s a lot of penis

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Lack of spelling and/or punctuation is a big no for me. See also, blank or limited profile, text speak, one or two word messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of spelling and/or punctuation is a big no for me. See also, blank or limited profile, text speak, one or two word messages "

Spelling police ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate that fab has put me off touching sky remotes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab has put off lots of things

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

For us it's disrespect. 3 messages in it turns to " I can't wait to fuck your wife" or " she looks like a filthy bitch" . That's a definite way to ensure you will never get to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has put off lots of things

Me too

Like my food when the poo eater man contacted me earlier

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Fab has put off lots of things

Me too

Like my food when the poo eater man contacted me earlier

x "

Jesus im glad I dont like men...ive seen the shit they come out with (pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has put off lots of things

Me too

Like my food when the poo eater man contacted me earlier

x "

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Fab has put off lots of things

Me too

Like my food when the poo eater man contacted me earlier

x "

Umm... what the actual....

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Biggest turn off:

When they assume you're a bloke, desperate & make silly demands

'Book a hotel & order x2 bottle of Moet'lol Who am I meeting? HRH William & Kate? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest turn off:

When they assume you're a bloke, desperate & make silly demands

'Book a hotel & order x2 bottle of Moet'lol Who am I meeting? HRH William & Kate? haha

Two bottles of Moet?

Klassy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Biggest turn off:

When they assume you're a bloke, desperate & make silly demands

'Book a hotel & order x2 bottle of Moet'lol Who am I meeting? HRH William & Kate? haha

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Biggest turn off:

When they assume you're a bloke, desperate & make silly demands

'Book a hotel & order x2 bottle of Moet'lol Who am I meeting? HRH William & Kate? haha

Two bottles of Moet?

Klassy"

I was impressed!! I asked if they fancied caviar & oysters aswell to go with that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest turn off:

When they assume you're a bloke, desperate & make silly demands

'Book a hotel & order x2 bottle of Moet'lol Who am I meeting? HRH William & Kate? haha

Two bottles of Moet?

Klassy

I was impressed!! I asked if they fancied caviar & oysters aswell to go with that haha

Give them the address so they turn up to a premier inn with a can of Sprite and a pot noodle x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had someone meet me with a can of Diet Coke and a bag of monster munch once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had someone meet me with a can of Diet Coke and a bag of monster munch once"

Monster munch

That's me sold

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Carrying conversations - At least make some effort instead of single word or one line answers.

Intolerant people. You might not like something, but there is little to be gained by trying to demonise others that do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had someone meet me with a can of Diet Coke and a bag of monster munch once

Monster munch

That's me sold

x "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Carrying conversations - At least make some effort instead of single word or one line answers.

Intolerant people. You might not like something, but there is little to be gained by trying to demonise others that do.

Agreed ... have an opinion, but leave it at that without being disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Just cheese??

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Just cheese?? "

Yep...classy craft cheese slices at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Just cheese??

Yep...classy craft cheese slices at that

Hahahahaha Jesus

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Just cheese?? "

I had a Burger King on my way home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Just cheese??

I had a Burger King on my way home

I don’t blame you - what a cockwomble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Last time I offer you a bite of my sandwich.

Some people are so ungrateful

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

So many things really. But particularly don’t like it when men get over keen. I prefer a man to be laidback and nonchalant about the sex thing really. Banging on about sex like it’s your raison d’etre I find a bit desperate.

I mean we all (or most of us) get horny. Just keep some perspective.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I met someone once through tinder for a social in a country park. They said they would bring a picnic as I was doing all the travelling (70miles each way).

They brought one cheese sandwich so you can imagine how that went down as it showed how much effort they put in.

I brought drinks as well (non alcoholic)

Last time I offer you a bite of my sandwich.

Some people are so ungrateful

Hahahaa I think we managed better than this....it was TGI Fridays

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many things really. But particularly don’t like it when men get over keen. I prefer a man to be laidback and nonchalant about the sex thing really. Banging on about sex like it’s your raison d’etre I find a bit desperate.

I mean we all (or most of us) get horny. Just keep some perspective."

Absolutely !!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Very short messages of just a few words. You just know it's not going to go anywhere .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very short messages of just a few words. You just know it's not going to go anywhere . "

Yes

I’m not into replying to those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the single ladies and couples who message you first, but must have to pay by the word. Why message if you are unable to put more than three words in a line?

"Hi"

"Hey there, thanks for dropping me a message. You both look great on your profile pictures and I hope you are both well and enjoying fab life"

"We're good, u?"

"Yes im great thanks, enjoying chatting on the forums and building some friendships for the future. So I see that you joined fairly recently, are you looking forward to when we can finally socalize in person and meet other like minded people?"

"Yes"

Sam reaches for the block button

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its the single ladies and couples who message you first, but must have to pay by the word. Why message if you are unable to put more than three words in a line?

"Hi"

"Hey there, thanks for dropping me a message. You both look great on your profile pictures and I hope you are both well and enjoying fab life"

"We're good, u?"

"Yes"

Sam reaches for the block button

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that can't encourage you enough to:

Fab their pics

send a wink

I/We don't bite etc

Message us and let's have some fun, blardy blardy blar

You do one or all of the above and, yep zilch. That's my top dislike. I ignore pages like this now.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm like you OP, so picky probably too much for my own good. It could be something small like shit wallpaper in a pic or them saying 'mmmmmmm' in a message. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm like you OP, so picky probably too much for my own good. It could be something small like shit wallpaper in a pic or them saying 'mmmmmmm' in a message. Lol"

I hate that ‘mmmmmmm’

I have to ask if their fingers got stuck on to the ‘m’

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Someone who drinks too much.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I'm like you OP, so picky probably too much for my own good. It could be something small like shit wallpaper in a pic or them saying 'mmmmmmm' in a message. Lol

I hate that ‘mmmmmmm’

I have to ask if their fingers got stuck on to the ‘m’"

And why are their fingers sticky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm like you OP, so picky probably too much for my own good. It could be something small like shit wallpaper in a pic or them saying 'mmmmmmm' in a message. Lol

I hate that ‘mmmmmmm’

I have to ask if their fingers got stuck on to the ‘m’

And why are their fingers sticky

Mind boggles my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its better to say what you do like ??your list might not be as long

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe its better to say what you do like ??your list might not be as long "

Oooo I could mix things up

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Long lists of necessary characteristics that are so prescriptive that they are unlikely to ever be met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Long lists of necessary characteristics that are so prescriptive that they are unlikely to ever be met. "

Like mine ... I know I know

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By *inky_katrinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

First contact cock pic xx

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"Long lists of necessary characteristics that are so prescriptive that they are unlikely to ever be met.

Like mine ... I know I know

Yours is a breeze compared to many!

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Unsolicited cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First contact cock pic xx"

No one needs an erection

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Long lists of necessary characteristics that are so prescriptive that they are unlikely to ever be met.

Like mine ... I know I know

Yours is a breeze compared to many!

Haha cheers

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

"
but what if they are Dyslexic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just refusing show face pics even though i sent one just know who taking too

oh and lady ask me i let her poo on me this year that put me right off lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

but what if they are Dyslexic

Its usually pretty easy to see the difference between dyslexia and being too lazy to type properly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

but what if they are Dyslexic

I’m not talking about the spelling mistakes due to dyslexia or just not being able to spell.

I’m talking those who can spell well, then reply with ‘nawty, fanks ...

I’ll clock this up though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

but what if they are Dyslexic

Its usually pretty easy to see the difference between dyslexia and being too lazy to type properly."

I could’ve replied like you !! I’m too quick to get angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, erm, you mean that'd stop me being interested in a woman off Fab, er, can I get back to you on that!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles.. "

I was idly musing this the other day. Plenty of guys get called out for having exclusively, or almost exclusively, dick pics on their profile as it supposedly betrays a lack of imagination and personality.

I tend to think the same is true of women who just have a dozen pictures of their tits on their profile. Or go out to a pub / club with them practically falling out of their top. Once I've picked my tongue up off the floor I just feel slightly sad for them, as I tend to think that they're clearly as thick as mince and/or got no personality, and that's the only way they can get attention

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"The word “ naughty “ as in : anyone fancies some naughty fun ? Or looking for naughty ladies ...

Are we back in kindergarten?

I love you ... I have a huge dislike for that"

In a similar vein i dislike the words “play” when you’re talking about sex, and “meet” used as a noun. Not sure it would put me off someone I liked though.

V x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Entitled, married men who think they are something special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

Almost everything!

Its called being selective and I think its great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unsolicited cock pics "
what about unsolicited boob pics?? has a guy ever said in the history of man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The word “ naughty “ as in : anyone fancies some naughty fun ? Or looking for naughty ladies ...

Are we back in kindergarten?

I love you ... I have a huge dislike for that

In a similar vein i dislike the words “play” when you’re talking about sex, and “meet” used as a noun. Not sure it would put me off someone I liked though.

V x "

I love you too !!!

Yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and assumption, making demands or thinly veiled orders. Instant turn off for me.

Men that message and tell me what they are going to do to me (no, you’re not).

Lazy messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all

Well ... not all, but most of you

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Arrogance and assumption, making demands or thinly veiled orders. Instant turn off for me.

Men that message and tell me what they are going to do to me (no, you’re not).

Lazy messages. "

Ohhhh the things I'm going to do to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arrogance and assumption, making demands or thinly veiled orders. Instant turn off for me.

Men that message and tell me what they are going to do to me (no, you’re not).

Lazy messages. "

Yes !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arrogance and assumption, making demands or thinly veiled orders. Instant turn off for me.

Men that message and tell me what they are going to do to me (no, you’re not).

Lazy messages.

Ohhhh the things I'm going to do to you

oh the things I’d do to you

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Thanks all

Well ... not all, but most of you

How rude!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak, smoking, or an "up themselves" attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks all

Well ... not all, but most of you

How rude!

I’d call it truthful ...

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles.. "

Damn!!! That’s where I have been going wrong!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Arrogance and assumption, making demands or thinly veiled orders. Instant turn off for me.

Men that message and tell me what they are going to do to me (no, you’re not).

Lazy messages.

Ohhhh the things I'm going to do to you

oh the things I’d do to you

As long as I get to do them back im game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called babe darling sweetheart

Men think it’s their right to meet because we are on site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time. "

Looking for a good time ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Text speak, smoking, or an "up themselves" attitude

Text speak ... when they leave the vowels out

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time.

Looking for a good time ?

You know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time.

Looking for a good time ?

You know what I mean!

Sounded like someone driving the road , leaning out the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women in their pictures. All cock pictures."

I told one guy I assumed his profile was incorrect and that he needed to get it changed to female before he got chatting with anyone too much... Every pic was a different woman with maybe an inch or 2, at most, of his cock or his hand in, the pic or her.

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By *nna WulfWoman
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Then boom i go off them and dont even want to chat anymore.

That's so nasty and idiotic of me as I'm not perfect so I dont know why but certain things flick my off switch instantly

x "

I think you are describing 'the ick'

It's not nasty or idiotic in my opinion. I find it fascinating... you never know when it will strike but once it has... there is no going back.

Do men experience 'the ick' I wonder?

any man who says/types 'mmmmmmmmmmmm' fills me with absolute repulsion. It's the mix of creepy, patronising.. with extra creepiness thrown in plus a general disregard for the concept of mutual attraction.

I hate it.

I also loathe 'omg' - why are you trying to sound like a teenage girl?

'wow' - patronising and over the top. Calm down.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Pretty much everything mentioned on this thread and the phrases what are you up to? Doing anything exciting? Had any fun lately?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Then boom i go off them and dont even want to chat anymore.

That's so nasty and idiotic of me as I'm not perfect so I dont know why but certain things flick my off switch instantly

I think you are describing 'the ick'

It's not nasty or idiotic in my opinion. I find it fascinating... you never know when it will strike but once it has... there is no going back.

Do men experience 'the ick' I wonder?

I hate it.

I also loathe 'omg' - why are you trying to sound like a teenage girl?

'wow' - patronising and over the top. Calm down.

The ick

Yes !!!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time.

Looking for a good time ?

You know what I mean!

Sounded like someone driving the road , leaning out the window

Lol! Kerb crawling isn’t my style.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I get put off so easily ...

Could be a misspelt word, but it’s to try to make them look ‘cool’

Showing me their penis after exchanging pleasantries

I have a list

What puts you off easily?

but what if they are Dyslexic

I’m not talking about the spelling mistakes due to dyslexia or just not being able to spell.

I’m talking those who can spell well, then reply with ‘nawty, fanks ...

I’ll clock this up though "
ohh yes that is head melting,

And I don't get half of them é D up searching urban dictionary, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they put the milk in 1st while making tea. Deal breaker right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they put the milk in 1st while making tea. Deal breaker right there

"
some one who speaks the truth

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham

"Like you OP, intentional bad spelling, or just very bad spelling in general, a few mispelt don't bother me.

Nothing is wrong with you, it can be good to be choosey, I have been single over a year now because I can be so fussy but I don't regret it.

Also, pushiness and impatience is a turn off"
Is the misspelt intentional

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t like bitchiness or unkindness.

I like genuine people that are just looking for a good time.

Looking for a good time ?

You know what I mean!

Sounded like someone driving the road , leaning out the window

Lol! Kerb crawling isn’t my style. "

Hahaha I know

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham

"If they put the milk in 1st while making tea. Deal breaker right there

"
What about in a coffee

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it."

I love the view of your cleavage

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it."

It does look very impressive

And there's a huge difference between dressing provocatively and dressing desperately

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it.

I love the view of your cleavage "

Why thank you.

It's spent most of this year hidden as on Zoom/Teams I appear to be all cleavage.

Yours is also quite splendid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to write a list of things that don't put me off

The Internet doesn't work for me - I'm always shocked when I meet people in person.

Good and bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it.

I love the view of your cleavage

Why thank you.

It's spent most of this year hidden as on Zoom/Teams I appear to be all cleavage.

Yours is also quite splendid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's easier to write a list of things that don't put me off

The Internet doesn't work for me - I'm always shocked when I meet people in person.

Good and bad."

Haha do true

I prefer people in person - they can’t easily hide their real persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get put off by a woman who just has her clunge on show from various angles..

I'm trying to pretend that I'm a bit more classy these days, but I'm only really kidding myself

I assume that I can also put others off me by writing really long posts and messages....

I love the view I have of my cleavage and as I'm so short that's what they get. If that makes me sad and thick as mince then so be it.

I love the view of your cleavage

Why thank you.

It's spent most of this year hidden as on Zoom/Teams I appear to be all cleavage.

Yours is also quite splendid.

As far as women showing boobs v mens cock pics go its a woman's perogative to present her sexuality how ever she sees fit, its down to the guy to show he's worthy of her attentions... some guys do themselves no favours.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

FAF OP?

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