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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?"

No, but I don't get enough for it to be an issue.

Thankfully, for those who get loads it's never going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

You do know it’s a myth to get hundreds of messages - right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?"

Or if that happened they could just change their message filters to reduce the number that they get.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?"

No I'd just up all my filters so no one could message me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?

No I'd just up all my filters so no one could message me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but id have to quit my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would take years to do haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but id have to quit my job "

Hahahaha

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?"

Yes ..... it would take all my ‘fab time’ so pointless being on here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it was made mandatory for ladies to reply to all messages would it be made mandatory for men to only send polite and courteous ones?

And what would couples have to do? Reply AND be courteous?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?

No I'd just up all my filters so no one could message me."

Doh ... or this

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"If it was made mandatory for ladies to reply to all messages would it be made mandatory for men to only send polite and courteous ones?

And what would couples have to do? Reply AND be courteous? "

Or men if it was made mandatory NOT to send a cock picture would you leave?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?

No I'd just up all my filters so no one could message me.

Doh ... or this "

It's my pandemic solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have answered 98% of my messages to be honest but make excellent use of the filters and hide my profile when I'm not on here, not got the time and/or the inclination so never had a problem ... now I'm absolutely not interested lol so mainly hidden!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If it was made mandatory for ladies to reply to all messages would it be made mandatory for men to only send polite and courteous ones?

And what would couples have to do? Reply AND be courteous?

Or men if it was made mandatory NOT to send a cock picture would you leave? "

Never have so no

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’d reply like this:

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Then block.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"No but id have to quit my job "

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"If it was made mandatory for ladies to reply to all messages would it be made mandatory for men to only send polite and courteous ones?

And what would couples have to do? Reply AND be courteous?

Or men if it was made mandatory NOT to send a cock picture would you leave? "

That made me smile lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd either block all messages or go.

Fuck that.

Actually I'd just get banned from replying anyway coz I'd just reply "fuck off cuntspangle" to 98%

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

No I try to reply to most anyway, even if its a simple no thanks. I find that it significantly reduces the abuse I receive.

Sometimes ill even get a response that starts a chat off anyway. Nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would either have my filters or just block anyone that i didn't want to reply to.

It's not the quantity of messages it's the quality of messages and I don't see why I should reply to "hi" or "how dirty are you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it then stop the replies of abuse back when u have said 'no sorry ur not 4 us'

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Could it then stop the replies of abuse back when u have said 'no sorry ur not 4 us'"

Yeah. If I could be guaranteed no abuse or attempted negotiation when I said no, I'd reply to a lot more messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it then stop the replies of abuse back when u have said 'no sorry ur not 4 us'

Yeah. If I could be guaranteed no abuse or attempted negotiation when I said no, I'd reply to a lot more messages."

Agreed.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I'd either block all messages or go.

Fuck that.

Actually I'd just get banned from replying anyway coz I'd just reply "fuck off cuntspangle" to 98% "

Cuntspangle. That is a glorious word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I try to reply to most anyway, even if its a simple no thanks. I find that it significantly reduces the abuse I receive.

Sometimes ill even get a response that starts a chat off anyway. Nice to be nice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but i’d certainly have to tighten up my filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies if it was made mandatory to reply to all messages that you receive, would you leave fab?

Or if that happened they could just change their message filters to reduce the number that they get. "

This

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