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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance. "

Stop overthinking. Once sent, forget about it, two things will happen; you will get a reply or you won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't mean a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your sent messages and don't give it another thought.

If they reply, great, if not, oh well.

Lu

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By *aucy sausageMan
over a year ago

Gentleshaw

If I send a mail, I delete it in sent items. Stops all the apprehension if im going to get a reply or not..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I send a mail, I delete it in sent items. Stops all the apprehension if im going to get a reply or not.. "

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance.

Stop overthinking. Once sent, forget about it, two things will happen; you will get a reply or you won't."

D.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It doesn't mean a thing "

If you ain't got that swing

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance. "

If I've read but not deleted , it's one of 2 things .

- I'm on the go with no time to reply .

- I'm somewhat interested but want to think about it, there's usually a sore point i.e.: distance or can't accommodate.

But as others mentioned , delete your sent messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your sent messages and don't give it another thought.

If they reply, great, if not, oh well.

Lu "

Cheers Lu. Just read your page and I'm still uncertain regarding your position on penis pics. I'm leaning towards not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never don’t chase it’s that simple if I message someone or messaging them and they don’t reply that’s pretty much the end off the conversation and it’s there loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance.

If I've read but not deleted , it's one of 2 things .

- I'm on the go with no time to reply .

- I'm somewhat interested but want to think about it, there's usually a sore point i.e.: distance or can't accommodate.

But as others mentioned , delete your sent messages "

Thanks, a send and forget approach is the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never don’t chase it’s that simple if I message someone or messaging them and they don’t reply that’s pretty much the end off the conversation and it’s there loss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your sent messages and don't give it another thought.

If they reply, great, if not, oh well.

Lu

Cheers Lu. Just read your page and I'm still uncertain regarding your position on penis pics. I'm leaning towards not. "

Unfortunately it needs to be said even more...we still get bombarded with dick pics

Seems you have at least a semi-functional brain tho

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It doesn't mean a thing

If you ain't got that swing"

You rang?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It doesn't mean a thing

If you ain't got that swing

You rang? "

Here she is xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unless or until you get a reply, it means "not yes". Wait and/or move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many women state if they don't reply it's because they're not interested. I like to respect this & abide to their wishes!

As I don't memorise the names I don't delete & keep sent ones as a record of who I've previously contacted!

If I do message twice to a rejected, deleted or non-reply-er it's rare & usually by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a message sent to you that proves your profile has been read properly, is unreplied by you, but not deleted. How should the man consider that. Is it simply that you're yet to delete the message, or liked it and plan to reply when you can, due to the sheer volume of messages you get daily?

At what time ie 2-3 days, should I accept, although not deleted, I'm never receiving a reply. Thank you in advance. "

You're better off deleting messages straight after sending, you're definitely overthinking things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My appreciation for everybodies input so far. Its given me some ideas to tweak my page and adapt my approach.

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