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Dick Pics... what's the deal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't send a dick pic with my messages, unless it's asked for. I always lead with the face.. and no it doesn't seem to work either in 99% of cases! Nor does a well written message..

But with the amount of profiles I read (which is most even if I don't message) a massive proportion state NO DICK PICS...

I am curious... people still send them clearly, on mass...implying they may work at least in some instances... do they actually work ever? LADIES AND THOSE INTERESTED IN MEN BE HONEST have you met through a convo stated with a pic of D???

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I barely reply to anyone that doesn’t have a face and dick pic! Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have but if ur going to send a d pic first it better be 12 inches long and 4 inches wide

The old saying once you seen one you seen them all kind off comes to mind or in less ur categories out side the norm ie 12 inches hung

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I barely reply to anyone that doesn’t have a face and dick pic! Love it! "

And thus you've just contradicted what a large number of other women on here say

I assume that like anything, some people like receiving dick pics and some don't

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I don't send a dick pic with my messages, unless it's asked for. I always lead with the face.. and no it doesn't seem to work either in 99% of cases! Nor does a well written message..

But with the amount of profiles I read (which is most even if I don't message) a massive proportion state NO DICK PICS...

I am curious... people still send them clearly, on mass...implying they may work at least in some instances... do they actually work ever? LADIES AND THOSE INTERESTED IN MEN BE HONEST have you met through a convo stated with a pic of D??? "

Although I’m rather fond of dick pics , a face photo is essential . And to be honest I prefer nude body shots rather than endless close up cock shots

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I barely reply to anyone that doesn’t have a face and dick pic! Love it!

And thus you've just contradicted what a large number of other women on here say

I assume that like anything, some people like receiving dick pics and some don't "

Yup, always the contradiction lol!

I like a pretty face and to know what I’m fucking.. not here for endless chat and 100’s of nudes lol! Doesn’t do anything for me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never thought about it like that! Yes I guess unusual D's may warrant a look! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes sense, I am uninterested in a close up labia without context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep love a cock pic as long as its with a face pic ..yes ive turned down meets not only because of face pics but also cock pics so on that note if the face pic is nice and the cock pic too then ill talk and get a feeling of who that person is before i arrange anything or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read my thread entitled “you’re welcome”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yep love a cock pic as long as its with a face pic ..yes ive turned down meets not only because of face pics but also cock pics so on that note if the face pic is nice and the cock pic too then ill talk and get a feeling of who that person is before i arrange anything or not"

Thats fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read my thread entitled “you’re welcome”"

Why do D pics work for you? You have it out on your profile pic... what % of people reply back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics can also be so misleading...unless you have a tape measure around it and another for its length hard to judge size accurately..we dont all have sky remotes or the exact make and size of aftershave your photographing along side it..also depends on a man's body/hand size if trying to use that as a reference and the angle taken from..we all know most men measure from the tip to there ass to get the size they dream they have..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the forums are a very very small part of fab let alone swinging those that dont use the forums are here for one thing and one thing only... face to face fun (not covid times) not all mind some of us can use the forums and still want face to face fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I’ll never get is when you read comments where people state there are a huge number of pics of the same cock on a profile - I fail to see the value in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dick pics can also be so misleading...unless you have a tape measure around it and another for its length hard to judge size accurately..we dont all have sky remotes or the exact make and size of aftershave your photographing along side it..also depends on a man's body/hand size if trying to use that as a reference and the angle taken from..we all know most men measure from the tip to there ass to get the size they dream they have.. "

this is also very true some claim to be hung but in truth its as hung as a worm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your profile pic is that of your dick, what does it say about you? Personally if I want just a cock I’d use my toys to scratch that itch. Surely there’s more to a man than his cock?! Body shots, pics of strong arms, face etc are much more attractive to me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best profiles pics are the ones with a good mixture but as i said pics are just the first hurdle the messaging is where most fail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dick pics can also be so misleading...unless you have a tape measure around it and another for its length hard to judge size accurately..we dont all have sky remotes or the exact make and size of aftershave your photographing along side it..also depends on a man's body/hand size if trying to use that as a reference and the angle taken from..we all know most men measure from the tip to there ass to get the size they dream they have.. "

I measure it from the tip to 10 inch behind my arse... so I've got a 10.5inch member;) Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the forums are a very very small part of fab let alone swinging those that dont use the forums are here for one thing and one thing only... face to face fun (not covid times) not all mind some of us can use the forums and still want face to face fun "

Gosh I miss face to face fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my thread entitled “you’re welcome”

Why do D pics work for you? You have it out on your profile pic... what % of people reply back?"

Have a read of it. Far far far far more then when I had my body / suit pic up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your profile pic is that of your dick, what does it say about you? Personally if I want just a cock I’d use my toys to scratch that itch. Surely there’s more to a man than his cock?! Body shots, pics of strong arms, face etc are much more attractive to me personally "

I can see your point but is a toy as equally pleasant as a penis of the exact same dimensions... assuming it can go at it for a decent length of time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read my thread entitled “you’re welcome”

Why do D pics work for you? You have it out on your profile pic... what % of people reply back?

Have a read of it. Far far far far more then when I had my body / suit pic up "

Just have! Its very counter intuitive... you go through reckoning respect os required and being a human counts... would appear not so much if what you are saying is a guide... tempted to try it!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've had conversations and made friends with people who have started off with sending a dick pic.

But I've also deleted messages with dick pics. Depends how I'm feeling as to my reaction really

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Can't say we're put off by dick pics, as long as that's not the only pics in there and there's some other pics in there too. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had conversations and made friends with people who have started off with sending a dick pic.

But I've also deleted messages with dick pics. Depends how I'm feeling as to my reaction really"

So its random maybe... not a lot so far is saying dick pics are a bad strategy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't say we're put off by dick pics, as long as that's not the only pics in there and there's some other pics in there too. X"

Haha I'll have to send one then:p

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I've had conversations and made friends with people who have started off with sending a dick pic.

But I've also deleted messages with dick pics. Depends how I'm feeling as to my reaction really

So its random maybe... not a lot so far is saying dick pics are a bad strategy "

Completely random. Doesn't help really. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had conversations and made friends with people who have started off with sending a dick pic.

But I've also deleted messages with dick pics. Depends how I'm feeling as to my reaction really

So its random maybe... not a lot so far is saying dick pics are a bad strategy

Completely random. Doesn't help really. Sorry"

It kinda does I appreciate your feed back x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think it's the dick pic per se that is the problem, more the way it is presented (and I'm not just talking about the quality of the picture itself) - there are plenty of guys who seem to get meets despite having a dick pic visible after all.

Thing is there is no single "right" way to Fab, although there are plenty of wrong ones, and what one person may find a turn off, another will find a turn on - so the best and only way is "your" way that you find works for you - if that happens to be a gallery of dick pics then so be it - it just comes down to acceptance that it's impossible to appeal to everyone, nor them to you.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If someone wanted to meet me purely based on a dick pic, I would not be interested in them.

There is a reason I have no dick pics posted on our profile and that is because I refuse to allow one part of me to be viewed as all I am or have to offer.

Besides who likes looking at tiny penises!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your profile pic is that of your dick, what does it say about you? Personally if I want just a cock I’d use my toys to scratch that itch. Surely there’s more to a man than his cock?! Body shots, pics of strong arms, face etc are much more attractive to me personally

I can see your point but is a toy as equally pleasant as a penis of the exact same dimensions... assuming it can go at it for a decent length of time? "

You missed my point completely but to answer your question a toy can feel better (there’s a vast array of sizes and materials for every occasion), and absolutely can last way way longer than most men, well until I’ve had enough so yeah I’d rather meet someone who has more to offer than just his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone wanted to meet me purely based on a dick pic, I would not be interested in them.

There is a reason I have no dick pics posted on our profile and that is because I refuse to allow one part of me to be viewed as all I am or have to offer.

Besides who likes looking at tiny penises!?! "

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your profile pic is that of your dick, what does it say about you? Personally if I want just a cock I’d use my toys to scratch that itch. Surely there’s more to a man than his cock?! Body shots, pics of strong arms, face etc are much more attractive to me personally

I can see your point but is a toy as equally pleasant as a penis of the exact same dimensions... assuming it can go at it for a decent length of time?

You missed my point completely but to answer your question a toy can feel better (there’s a vast array of sizes and materials for every occasion), and absolutely can last way way longer than most men, well until I’ve had enough so yeah I’d rather meet someone who has more to offer than just his cock "

Apologies I hadn't missed your point but I had neglected to highlight I was asking an additional question as to whether a toy is a viable substitute long term, having never used one/ no need for them but you have answered it thoroughly so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't mind looking at dick pics before fab.Now they bore me and scream no imagination x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't mind looking at dick pics before fab.Now they bore me and scream no imagination x "

Shit! I just change my profile pic! Now I'm confused:p Hahaha x

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By *nDnRnRCouple
over a year ago

Belfast, Dublin, London, Gran Canaria

We usually just block people's profiles if they are mostly just filled with dick pics.

They may as well have a blank profile...which we also often block lol

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By *nDnRnRCouple
over a year ago

Belfast, Dublin, London, Gran Canaria


"I didn't mind looking at dick pics before fab.Now they bore me and scream no imagination x

Shit! I just change my profile pic! Now I'm confused:p Hahaha x"

...Well at least you got a face pic to go along with your (nice) cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't mind looking at dick pics before fab.Now they bore me and scream no imagination x

Shit! I just change my profile pic! Now I'm confused:p Hahaha x

...Well at least you got a face pic to go along with your (nice) cock"

Hehe thank you very much x

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