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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know these 'rate the person above' posts are supposed to be fun and generally good natured but turn this site into just another place where people on the internet objectify each other. I believe many people on here want more than that.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's only natural that where sex is involved, it's fairly easy to objectify others. I don't have an issue with it and think it's only a problem as far as context is concerned. It's a far cry from rating someone's attractiveness / appeal in a thread intended for that to messaging someone and addressing them as a sex object rather than as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the only people that take those posts serous are the ones that get there feelings hurt or ego dented by taking the posts seriously serous lol

They are just a game and if you realise that it's just fun then people won't get seriously serious hurt ITS JUST FUNNNNNNNNN lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess the only people that take those posts serous are the ones that get there feelings hurt or ego dented by taking the posts seriously serous lol

They are just a game and if you realise that it's just fun then people won't get seriously serious hurt ITS JUST FUNNNNNNNNN lol "

I would give you such a hard rating :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit clean looking guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fit clean looking guy "

Who?

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

It is supposed to be fun, though yes some people are more fragile than others, i dont see the harm in telling fibs and rating people high, hey you may be cheering someone up.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I know these 'rate the person above' posts are supposed to be fun and generally good natured but turn this site into just another place where people on the internet objectify each other. I believe many people on here want more than that."

I see what you’re saying. Now I know probably 50% of people here won’t like us as a couple or one of us individually. That’s just the lifestyle. I think you’ve got to avoid things that will upset you. Join in on the other stuff. There’s lots of forum games.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!"

It's a double edged sword. For some it can be an ego boost and for others the opposite happens. I don't think it's something someone should participate in if they don't take criticism well or have low self esteem.

If people don't like these threads, avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!"

Expecting a high rating is just stupidity and stupidly stupid and egotistical.

What if the person rating you likes you BUT 3 years ago you told them that you didn't like there socks and have held a grudge ever since.

And what if a lot of the stuff said on a sex site is just to try and get sex but you seriously believe the lies and think every word is the truth and they seriously mean every word and non of it is just said to reel you in for there own gain.Im just saying those that take these posts or anything said on the internet serous seriously need to stop being seriously serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said it's all about a bit of FUUUNNNN.

God knows with the shit year this one has been we all need a bit of fun, this is one way of having a bit of fun.

I respect OP and others points of view, everyone is entitled to them.

Anyway, let the fun continue and hopefully not upset folks too much. After all it nearly time for those sexxxy Christmas threads and pictures - jingle balls jangle balls and tits bouncing all the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!

Expecting a high rating is just stupidity and stupidly stupid and egotistical.

What if the person rating you likes you BUT 3 years ago you told them that you didn't like there socks and have held a grudge ever since.

And what if a lot of the stuff said on a sex site is just to try and get sex but you seriously believe the lies and think every word is the truth and they seriously mean every word and non of it is just said to reel you in for there own gain.Im just saying those that take these posts or anything said on the internet serous seriously need to stop being seriously serious "

I thought you liked my socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!

Expecting a high rating is just stupidity and stupidly stupid and egotistical.

What if the person rating you likes you BUT 3 years ago you told them that you didn't like there socks and have held a grudge ever since.

And what if a lot of the stuff said on a sex site is just to try and get sex but you seriously believe the lies and think every word is the truth and they seriously mean every word and non of it is just said to reel you in for there own gain.Im just saying those that take these posts or anything said on the internet serous seriously need to stop being seriously serious

I thought you liked my socks "

Nope they offended my left nostrils ego as my screen is scratch and sniff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As has been said it's all about a bit of FUUUNNNN.

God knows with the shit year this one has been we all need a bit of fun, this is one way of having a bit of fun.

I respect OP and others points of view, everyone is entitled to them.

Anyway, let the fun continue and hopefully not upset folks too much. After all it nearly time for those sexxxy Christmas threads and pictures - jingle balls jangle balls and tits bouncing all the way "

This

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I understand what OP means but i found fun the threads rating someone's profile. I myself get good ranting other times less good rating and other times they jump my profile what is even worst because feels almost ignored . But of course none o this really is to be taken to seriously as we all do or have done the same at some point , we all have diferent views , diferent tastes in what is atractive or not to us and in the end is what make the forum the threads a nice place to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you rate me or roast me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I do worry some people don't realise this and then get hurt because they think they will get a high rating and dont!

Expecting a high rating is just stupidity and stupidly stupid and egotistical.

What if the person rating you likes you BUT 3 years ago you told them that you didn't like there socks and have held a grudge ever since.

And what if a lot of the stuff said on a sex site is just to try and get sex but you seriously believe the lies and think every word is the truth and they seriously mean every word and non of it is just said to reel you in for there own gain.Im just saying those that take these posts or anything said on the internet serous seriously need to stop being seriously serious

I thought you liked my socks

Nope they offended my left nostrils ego as my screen is scratch and sniff

"

If ONLY my screen was scratch and sniff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

6 but I’d still give you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know these 'rate the person above' posts are supposed to be fun and generally good natured but turn this site into just another place where people on the internet objectify each other. I believe many people on here want more than that."

The whole site is about objectifying people and rating their suitability for sex. Meat.

If people want more than that they can avoid the type of people who like being rated and objectified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know these 'rate the person above' posts are supposed to be fun and generally good natured but turn this site into just another place where people on the internet objectify each other. I believe many people on here want more than that.

The whole site is about objectifying people and rating their suitability for sex. Meat.

If people want more than that they can avoid the type of people who like being rated and objectified. "

Profile is hidden so can’t rate

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