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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I thought winks were you show someone was interested in you.

I've had quite a few winks were l have sent back a really polite message thanking them for their interest and that I have read their profile and would love to have a chat ,only either to get ignored or funnier still be blocked.

The older I get the more I realise I really don't understand how people think

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s the fab equivalent of a wolf whistle.

If they were THAT interested they’d more than likely message. But for the moment they’re saying “oi you! I like what I see!”

Don’t message them if you keep getting nowhere, let them take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the fab equivalent of a wolf whistle.

If they were THAT interested they’d more than likely message. But for the moment they’re saying “oi you! I like what I see!”

Don’t message them if you keep getting nowhere, let them take it further."

this or just wink back

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I use the wink system as an initial gauge of interest. If I get a wink back, I tend to send a message afterwards.

Maybe this isn't how it's generally used though :/

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Winks!

I’ve given up and now just wink people back instead of messaging them. When I ask them why they winked a lot cannot give an answer, and still too many wink based on photos and don’t read the profile so beat a hasty retreat when they actually do speak to us.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

People like to tease

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I always message a "Thanks for the wink" etc....if I get a message back...all good if not... then nothing lost really...

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

There are no hard fast rules, as far as winking goes.

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