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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I’ve never been to one and have always found clubs really interesting. I just wondered if anyone had any stories of their first time going and how the experience was and if they were surprised with what they found. Let me know

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs"

What made you hate your first time going?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I went on a quiet night with a friend. I was terrified but was well looked after. Not my favourite club, not the best atmosphere, but it worked well, and I surprised myself - and him - by wanting to play in the orgy room. I kind of knew I was an exhibitionist but assumed I'd have to build the courage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I’ve never been to one and have always found clubs really interesting. I just wondered if anyone had any stories of their first time going and how the experience was and if they were surprised with what they found. Let me know "
your same as me I never been to 1 cant drive to 1 cos of my eye sight

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs

What made you hate your first time going? "
atmisphere. Many years later i went back to the first club and hated it again

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My first club experience was 4 years ago having joined fab initially. I was working in the north west at the time and went to Infusions on my own out of curiosity. Quiet night though I did chat to a few people there and one couple in particular. Didn't play but it wet my appetite for future, more productive outings

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Went for the first time a year ago... absolutely love it and it’s the only reason I use fab really now! Love a club weekend now! Gutted I waited so long

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I remember parking right outside the front door, counting to three, then jumping out of the car and ringing the doorbell before I talked myself out of going in! My excitement from reading all the stories in the forums here, mixed with the nervousness of being on my own, in one of these places, not knowing anyone, it was a heady mix. It was a quiet night inside, not many people in, and I did manage to draw some conversation from one couple. Overall, I still liken the experience to that of being in a working men’s club on a Sunday afternoon, rather than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers’ club might be. A genuine anticlimax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to partners for my first club I had no idea what they really were but whatever image I had was wrong. I loved every minute and never looked back tried them allover uk travel and stay over making it something to look forward to. Oh how

I miss them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I remember parking right outside the front door, counting to three, then jumping out of the car and ringing the doorbell before I talked myself out of going in! My excitement from reading all the stories in the forums here, mixed with the nervousness of being on my own, in one of these places, not knowing anyone, it was a heady mix. It was a quiet night inside, not many people in, and I did manage to draw some conversation from one couple. Overall, I still liken the experience to that of being in a working men’s club on a Sunday afternoon, rather than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers’ club might be. A genuine anticlimax "

It's definitely variable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs

What made you hate your first time going? atmisphere. Many years later i went back to the first club and hated it again"

I really think your experience has a lot to do with the company you go with, I was lucky my first time was with a good friend who made sure I had the best safe experience and

Looked after me I can see how it could have been very different t, I have had one or two unpleasant experiences but not u til later. Clubs just aren’t for some ppl x each to their own xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually went to a swingers club before i had even heard of fab. I had always wanted to go to one and was so excited. I went with a female friend and although it was quiet i met some amazing people and had alot of fun.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember it's name, that one in Leeds near the car wash place, I thought it was an absolute hovel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs

What made you hate your first time going? atmisphere. Many years later i went back to the first club and hated it again

I really think your experience has a lot to do with the company you go with, I was lucky my first time was with a good friend who made sure I had the best safe experience and

Looked after me I can see how it could have been very different t, I have had one or two unpleasant experiences but not u til later. Clubs just aren’t for some ppl x each to their own xx "

There are some clubs I'll go to alone, some I won't. (Some I wouldn't go to again if you paid me) Lots of variables. For me this bit is about a sense of safety.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I went with my Fwb at the time who was familiar with the scene. I was incredibly apprehensive, expected to be way out of my comfort zone and out within an hour

I was impressed by the calibre of people attending, was welcomed into a group of regulars and.... addicted from there on!

Liberty Elite is a great club and I will be back to Mature Mischief night when it restarts. Hopefully with a new wingman to enjoy the experience

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I hated my first experience so much so i vowed never to go again.

About a year later someone persuaded me to go to a different club and i loved it and didnt look back. Although i no longer go to clubs

What made you hate your first time going? atmisphere. Many years later i went back to the first club and hated it again

I really think your experience has a lot to do with the company you go with, I was lucky my first time was with a good friend who made sure I had the best safe experience and

Looked after me I can see how it could have been very different t, I have had one or two unpleasant experiences but not u til later. Clubs just aren’t for some ppl x each to their own xx "
the guy i went with was a good friend and he introduced me to other people he was lovely and confident but i hated the vibe. Second club i went to i felt like i had come home and carried on going to that club for nearly 15 years

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I remember parking right outside the front door, counting to three, then jumping out of the car and ringing the doorbell before I talked myself out of going in! My excitement from reading all the stories in the forums here, mixed with the nervousness of being on my own, in one of these places, not knowing anyone, it was a heady mix. It was a quiet night inside, not many people in, and I did manage to draw some conversation from one couple. Overall, I still liken the experience to that of being in a working men’s club on a Sunday afternoon, rather than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers’ club might be. A genuine anticlimax

It's definitely variable!"

They’re all basically the same, it depends who is in on the night, but most people stick in their established groups, and as a solo guy it can be particularly difficult to get chatting

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I was a touch nervous about how they'd react to a Tgirl. I didn't imagine that the pitch forks would come out, but I did wonder if I'd be a pariah, but instead everyone was very welcoming. Even those not into Tgirls were friendly and polite.

I wasn't particularly nervous, because it was far enough away from home not to worry about seeing anyone and also, with all this make up on, I'm pretty much in disguise

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I first went to a club night when I was 20. The first one was a fetish market afterparty and there was no genital nudity allowed so it was just kink play. It was a nice, easy introduction and we went pretty spur of the moment as I went to the market with my partner at the time and a friend and we decided last minute to stay for the afterparty. A few weeks later I went to my first proper club and I've never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your stories! Looks like I’m going to have to find someone to guide me through my first club trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first trip to a swingers club was about 20 years ago. I'd been swinging as part of a married couple but only to private parties and private meets. I'd gotten divorced and decided to try a swingers club so went to a small one in Northampton about 50 or so miles away from where I lived at the time. Got on really well with the people there, played with a couple and ended up going twice a month for just over a year and made a lot of good friends there.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I hated it...the club was a dive, the clientele really weren't my cup of tea, it just generally wasn't a pleasant experience. I've been to other clubs since that I enjoyed more, but if I'm honest I don't think I'll ever be a club fan...the main thing that puts me off is d*unk women. Every club I've ever been to has loud, d*unk women, who just get d*unker and louder as the night goes on. If there was a club that didn't allow alcohol then it would be top of my list to visit.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I hated it...the club was a dive, the clientele really weren't my cup of tea, it just generally wasn't a pleasant experience. I've been to other clubs since that I enjoyed more, but if I'm honest I don't think I'll ever be a club fan...the main thing that puts me off is d*unk women. Every club I've ever been to has loud, d*unk women, who just get d*unker and louder as the night goes on. If there was a club that didn't allow alcohol then it would be top of my list to visit. "

Not sure if it suits your tastes but kinksters don't drink much for safety reasons.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"I hated it...the club was a dive, the clientele really weren't my cup of tea, it just generally wasn't a pleasant experience. I've been to other clubs since that I enjoyed more, but if I'm honest I don't think I'll ever be a club fan...the main thing that puts me off is d*unk women. Every club I've ever been to has loud, d*unk women, who just get d*unker and louder as the night goes on. If there was a club that didn't allow alcohol then it would be top of my list to visit.

Not sure if it suits your tastes but kinksters don't drink much for safety reasons. "

Yeah, I was planning my first trip to a kink club when lockdown happened Fingers crossed it survives so I can visit when we're allowed to make more than eye contact again

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I hated it...the club was a dive, the clientele really weren't my cup of tea, it just generally wasn't a pleasant experience. I've been to other clubs since that I enjoyed more, but if I'm honest I don't think I'll ever be a club fan...the main thing that puts me off is d*unk women. Every club I've ever been to has loud, d*unk women, who just get d*unker and louder as the night goes on. If there was a club that didn't allow alcohol then it would be top of my list to visit.

Not sure if it suits your tastes but kinksters don't drink much for safety reasons.

Yeah, I was planning my first trip to a kink club when lockdown happened Fingers crossed it survives so I can visit when we're allowed to make more than eye contact again "

Oh damn. Hope you enjoy it when you manage to make it to one

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