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Naughty Ladbrokes Girl or am I a dirty old man.

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By *os19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the latter OP.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Getting carried away probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops stop.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id of died a death if youd said that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, if you've got crossed wires I'm sure there will be a William Hill or Paddy Power nearby....

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

The sucking comment was inappropriate

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"When the fun stops stop."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the fun stops stop."

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

7/4 against you.

3/1 on a lifetime ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She said blush, not wet OP... Conversation, even ones about sex, don't mean you're in!

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I'd be mortified if someone said that too me in my work place

Her

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."
go in next time shes at work,and find out where the others are,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say she was drying up faster than the gobi desert, but trying not to offend.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The answer is to ask, you can do it in a non sexual way.

If the answer is negative, apologies would be in order.

If she responds positive, explore options.

Don’t let people’s projection of themselves stop an exploration of what could be a stunning, fun relationship.

Nay, nay and thrice nay never won a heart... or other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say to ask her if she liked them sucked whilst she was at work was just gross behaviour.

It was innapropriate and you put her on the spot, she had 2 choices, to tell you to leave then have the embarrassment of re-running the conversation to her boss or to giggle/blush and respond the best she could whilst dying inside.

As someone who was raised in pubs and managed on, I know the type of customer you appear to be and hitting on her will not bag you a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say to ask her if she liked them sucked whilst she was at work was just gross behaviour.

It was innapropriate and you put her on the spot, she had 2 choices, to tell you to leave then have the embarrassment of re-running the conversation to her boss or to giggle/blush and respond the best she could whilst dying inside.

As someone who was raised in pubs and managed on, I know the type of customer you appear to be and hitting on her will not bag you a date"

This was the point I was trying to make in a bloke way

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"The answer is to ask, you can do it in a non sexual way.

If the answer is negative, apologies would be in order.

If she responds positive, explore options.

Don’t let people’s projection of themselves stop an exploration of what could be a stunning, fun relationship.

Nay, nay and thrice nay never won a heart... or other things. "

Hear hear.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Under starters orders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you £1 it’s fake story. Unless you are hypo notist she would never mentioned or talk about her nipples in a betting shop, unless she lost a bet ????

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."

Up to the point where you mentioned sucking it could have just been banter.

The sucking comment was inappropriate and crossed the line into pervy old man territory.

In my opinion.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Who fucking says that to someone they don’t know, at work!!!!!

Yeah it’s pervy.... it’s also bang out of order, disrespectful and quite toe curlingly revolting.

Just my opinion.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the face slap emoji lol.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

She said she had piercings and you pushed for the rest.

She said she was blushing ( which means embarrassed not hot for you )

Is it okay in a bookies or a pub to harass the staff sexually ? You'd be barred elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

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By *os19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot! "

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

You are a grown up man or not?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants "

You a grown up man or not?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

Go in and say , 'Sorry for asking about sucking your tits. How fat is your labia though ?'

£1 each way please......... Ooooooo I said each way ...... ahahahahahahahaha im so naughty.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

Go in, apologise for overstepping the mark, don't take a card.

She's working in a job where she's required to be nice to the punters don't make it more difficult for her.

If she is interested in you she will make that clear when you apologise.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot! "

Barry Chuckle?!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.

A) you'd not be welcome back in again

B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.

Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.

For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.

Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.

You overstepped the mark big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants

You a grown up man or not? "

Oh sorry, you should have come earlier! That one was for you but then again you prob don’t wear pants

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.

A) you'd not be welcome back in again

B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.

Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.

For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.

Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.

You overstepped the mark big time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants "

Thank fuck it's not my real name then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week.

I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on "

Exactly this

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Bravo Costa mou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants

Thank fuck it's not my real name then.....

"

It’s a good game thought

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

So creepy creepy creepy creepy creepy.

I’m cringing for the poor ‘young’ woman.

Wholly inappropriate.

Not gentlemanly.

Treating her like she’s a piece of meat.

My advice is change bookies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!

Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants

You a grown up man or not?

Oh sorry, you should have come earlier! That one was for you but then again you prob don’t wear pants "

Don't hijack the thread please

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

Doesn’t matter if you thought you “got on” with her, it’s never ok to speak like that to a woman you hardly know, and it’s never ok to hit on or otherwise be inappropriate to someone when they’re at work and cam’t get away/have to be polite. Don’t go and bother her again, she most likely doesn’t want to have to deal with you again.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Creepy I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."

Dont go in at all

Ladbrokes has enough money

Donate to charity instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week.

I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on "

Dont put her through more embarrassment by mentioning it again

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Who fucking says that to someone they don’t know, at work!!!!!

Yeah it’s pervy.... it’s also bang out of order, disrespectful and quite toe curlingly revolting.

Just my opinion.

V x "

Ask her for a beer if a pub is open and go from there ... lol... you will soon find out ... simples

If she turns up

If not ... u got ur answer

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Who fucking says that to someone they don’t know, at work!!!!!

Yeah it’s pervy.... it’s also bang out of order, disrespectful and quite toe curlingly revolting.

Just my opinion.

V x

Ask her for a beer if a pub is open and go from there ... lol... you will soon find out ... simples

If she turns up

If not ... u got ur answer"

No. Don't. It's utterly inappropriate already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her Mr Bants wants to pump her then slip her my phone number!

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......"

I think OP embarrassed her enough. She will probably have had a laugh about him being a right dirty old perverted man to her colleague when he left. However I think she was also inappropriate discussing such a topic. If my Assistant did that with a client I would take a very dim view.

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Write your number on a betting slip and hand it to her...if she bins it you know answer. If she messages you have a chance.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Tier 3 op?

Are bookies still open..

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Tier 3 op?

Are bookies still open.."

They are open but restrictions apply.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Your boundaries are blurred

Things you'd say in a swinging environment are not suitable for the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The results of the stewards enquiry are in.....

Your comments were inappropriate.

7day ban and a full apology required.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.

A) you'd not be welcome back in again

B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.

Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.

For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.

Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.

You overstepped the mark big time."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."

I think your using the term "dirty old man" in a jokey way but that lady was at work and maybe be scared of what you said to her...dont think you were a dirty old man I actually think what you did was bang out of order

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I wouldn’t bring it up again, and I certainly wouldn’t take her a Christmas card. I’d keep it purely professional from now on and let the lady do her job in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the worst can happen?

She says no

It's no big deal if she does,life goes on.

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By *ANCLAD1993Man
over a year ago

Fallowfield

Just because she told you she has nipple piercings doesn’t mean she’s telling you something she shouldn’t. Maybe she’s loud and proud about them and doesn’t care who knows? Doesn’t mean it was an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say dont go back there, find another bookies, next time she might call the police, extreme but she could

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The very fact that you are questioning yourself tells me that you already know the answer.

Ed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest op i think youve got some balls to go back there id be to embarressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably does it to most punters do they get distracted and careless and put it all on Red Rum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think you are creepy.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Why do you think that chancing your arm and being a dirty old man are mutually exclusive? Maybe you are both.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......"

Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......

Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone. "

She did say the feeling was sensational when being sucked. I’m now thinking she was winding OP up and he wasn’t acting like a gentleman, talk of chancing him arm because of her reply. I think OP is far too used to talking sex on here and forgets about the outside works where diplomacy should be practised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because she told you she has nipple piercings doesn’t mean she’s telling you something she shouldn’t. Maybe she’s loud and proud about them and doesn’t care who knows? Doesn’t mean it was an invite"

I find most people with nipple rings are very open about it but still I think she was just playing with you....no harm no foul

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"you're making me blush", in a situation where I can't be direct, is something I might say when what I mean is "I'm incredibly uncomfortable and wish you would stop"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......

Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone. "

Perhaps she looks quite innocent, but during their chat he guessed she was much more naughty underneath, and as she responded (seemingly) positively, being the sorted, confident, single and despicably filthy gent the OP is, he went with the flow.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cringey at best.

Frankly I'd be disgusted if some random bloke spoke to me like that in any situation, let alone whilst I'm working.

Please don't do that again OP!

Sexual harassment is never ok.

Lu

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.

Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......

Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone.

She did say the feeling was sensational when being sucked. I’m now thinking she was winding OP up and he wasn’t acting like a gentleman, talk of chancing him arm because of her reply. I think OP is far too used to talking sex on here and forgets about the outside works where diplomacy should be practised. "

Just read back my comment and I apologise to anyone who has taken it wrong. The written word is hard to be made understood. Diplomacy should be also practised on Fab, we are all human adults and deserve some respect.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.

For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.

OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.

For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.

OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better."

Reading the OPs own comments it’s confirmed my perception of bookies. They are full of dirty old men and young women encouraging them! So unprofessional! My father always warned me how bad these places are. OP thank you for proving him right.

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Wow you’re so rude!!!! If I was you I wouldn’t even show my face in there again! That poor girl!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.

For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.

OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better.

Reading the OPs own comments it’s confirmed my perception of bookies. They are full of dirty old men and young women encouraging them! So unprofessional! My father always warned me how bad these places are. OP thank you for proving him right. "

Not going to disagree with you there I only go in them once a year on Grand National day and they always strike me as depressing places.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"7/4 against you.

3/1 on a lifetime ban"

Double carpet 33/1 on you getting a BJ

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By *osheaMan
over a year ago

manchester

OP lives in London

London tier 2

Don't believe bookies are even open?

Apologise if wrong or repeating someone (not read the whole thread)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think this belongs in the fantasy thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4/11 she’s doing her job 11/10-you got the horn 2/1 you’ll get banned

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What would Prince Andrew do in this situation? "

That’s very inappropriate.

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By *os19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

After reading the various comments I decided this morning that I would go back to the Ladbrokes and place my bet as normal.I went over just after 11.00 we had a quick chat and she mentioned she was working to 8.30 pm but off tomorrow.I went back just before 1.00 to grab a weekend football coupon and we got chatting as normal she mentioned one of her female colleagues and how her colleague batted for the other side which I already knew but I said nothing this time.I then mentioned to her about what she had said yesterday and what I had said back and offered a apology I was then somewhat surprised when she said I had not upset or offended her and as far as she was concerned there was nothing to apologise for. I mentioned to her that at work I won a small bottle of wine and she could have it if she wanted since I couldn’t take her out for a drink by way of a proper apology.She mentioned she is very family oriented and didn’t go out much.As she is not upset or offended I think I wait until Covid19 clears up and we get some sort of normality and I ask her if she fancy that drink.For for the record betting shops in London are open but not showing the racing but have radio commentary and this is not a fantasy as one or two seem to think it is.I appreciate that I didn’t come out of it very well nor did expect too but I didn’t think it would be this brutal.Thank you to everyone that has contributed.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"What would Prince Andrew do in this situation?

That’s very inappropriate. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP lives in London

London tier 2

Don't believe bookies are even open?

Apologise if wrong or repeating someone (not read the whole thread)"

Bookies are open in tier 3

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario. "

Hear here! Fair play to you Cos

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"What would Prince Andrew do in this situation?

"

As she is old enough to work in a bookies he'd probably ask if she had a younger sister.

Why are people giving the OP a hard time? If she hadn't wanted him to ask where thye tatts/piercings were she wouldn't have mentioned them.

Let's get a grip here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha the amount of people in here stanning for a woman who brings up her nipples in a work conversation.

If she didn't want to talk about her nipples, she wouldn't have brought it up.

It's amazing how if men actually listened to the advice women gave them on how to garner female interest there would be a lot of lonely women out there.

As for you OP, hard to say how far you can take this one but definitely worth a punt if you pardon the pun. Engage her in more similar conversations and see where it goes, seems likely to me you have probably passed her physical tests but whether you can pass the charm test is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading the various comments I decided this morning that I would go back to the Ladbrokes and place my bet as normal.I went over just after 11.00 we had a quick chat and she mentioned she was working to 8.30 pm but off tomorrow.I went back just before 1.00 to grab a weekend football coupon and we got chatting as normal she mentioned one of her female colleagues and how her colleague batted for the other side which I already knew but I said nothing this time.I then mentioned to her about what she had said yesterday and what I had said back and offered a apology I was then somewhat surprised when she said I had not upset or offended her and as far as she was concerned there was nothing to apologise for. I mentioned to her that at work I won a small bottle of wine and she could have it if she wanted since I couldn’t take her out for a drink by way of a proper apology.She mentioned she is very family oriented and didn’t go out much.As she is not upset or offended I think I wait until Covid19 clears up and we get some sort of normality and I ask her if she fancy that drink.For for the record betting shops in London are open but not showing the racing but have radio commentary and this is not a fantasy as one or two seem to think it is.I appreciate that I didn’t come out of it very well nor did expect too but I didn’t think it would be this brutal.Thank you to everyone that has contributed."

Your call bud, but no way Covid is going to be over before the heat goes out of this and she forgets you exist.

It's soon or never, that's how these things work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can You still Bet in Play

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This is so amusing.

One thing I will point out OP, you did yourself no favours by giving the presupposition of “dirty old man”.

That and how some project what a betting shop is and its clientele.

Nothing better than oil to fire up some people’s opinions.

Have fun OP.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Stalker alert

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario. "

Not from me it wouldn’t, creeping on someone who’s at work is inappropriate whatever the genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha the amount of people in here stanning for a woman who brings up her nipples in a work conversation.

If she didn't want to talk about her nipples, she wouldn't have brought it up.

It's amazing how if men actually listened to the advice women gave them on how to garner female interest there would be a lot of lonely women out there.

As for you OP, hard to say how far you can take this one but definitely worth a punt if you pardon the pun. Engage her in more similar conversations and see where it goes, seems likely to me you have probably passed her physical tests but whether you can pass the charm test is up to you. "

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own racehorses and many a pleasure to meet the hired in ladbrokes girls! Never been in a betting shop so no idea who is behind the counter

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