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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have ever pulled up outside to your agreed location and felt like you've been set up or something?

This is something i have always been weary about since it happened to a friend.

What are some of the scariest experiences you've had or most shaking?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Always meet in a pre-arranged, public place on 1st meeting. One of you should have the sense to pick a decent location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety"

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully none, just some weird ones

My male friend had an awfully scary one though, and it made him leave the scene after 25 years

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc."

I’d disagree! Men are just as much at risk.... it only takes one to accuse you of the R word and you’re stuffed! Even more so if it includes alcohol during said meeting ...

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I'd have to say ordering British beef after 2001, it's always scary,

You sitting there at the restaurant thinking after I eat this will I go mad and die a slow miserable death,,

:ó ohhh no wait

You said meet not Meat,,

My bad sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met up for a meet with another bi guy when i was a single on here. Got to his house and three other guys were there. As he had not mentioned any other guys being part of it i got the hell out of there. Not worth the risk. John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc.

I’d disagree! Men are just as much at risk.... it only takes one to accuse you of the R word and you’re stuffed! Even more so if it includes alcohol during said meeting ... "

Very true. John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc.

I’d disagree! Men are just as much at risk.... it only takes one to accuse you of the R word and you’re stuffed! Even more so if it includes alcohol during said meeting ... "

Well that’s true, hadn’t thought of that. I was thinking more of being attacked etc.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc.

I’d disagree! Men are just as much at risk.... it only takes one to accuse you of the R word and you’re stuffed! Even more so if it includes alcohol during said meeting ...

Well that’s true, hadn’t thought of that. I was thinking more of being attacked etc."

Ask me about the consequences of the above and I’ll tell you about how it ended tragically for a work colleague!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanfully none. Its odd but we always talk about womens safety but i rarely see a thread on mens safety

It’s not really though of. Men probably aren’t at quite as much risk as ladies but it should always be a consideration before a meet. Especially if no one knows where you’re going etc.

I’d disagree! Men are just as much at risk.... it only takes one to accuse you of the R word and you’re stuffed! Even more so if it includes alcohol during said meeting ...

Well that’s true, hadn’t thought of that. I was thinking more of being attacked etc."

My male friend was attacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully not here but once from tinder... Local area meet... Open area 3 guys out of a van accusing me of chatting up his wife... It got tasty I won't lie an I wasn't to much the better off but yeh things can be rather scetchy even for guys.

Not an off put for me as ohh well it happened but things could have ended badly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is bi sexual and i used to worry about every meet he had especially with him being older. Thankfully he never had a bad meet

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

In a past life I spent time as an escort (not the Ford type unfortunately).

The R word was the biggest fear. Especially if the preference was to be rougher or using restraints that left marks.

I had a few friends who had really bad experiences with that. So always be careful and build up the trust before anything heavy happens (I believe you should do that anyway). Good post OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a past life I spent time as an escort (not the Ford type unfortunately).

The R word was the biggest fear. Especially if the preference was to be rougher or using restraints that left marks.

I had a few friends who had really bad experiences with that. So always be careful and build up the trust before anything heavy happens (I believe you should do that anyway). Good post OP.

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Years ago actually I had a couple message me on here. Well I say couple, it was the guy. He was arranging his wife’s R fantasy (apparently) he wanted me to break into their house, tie them both and then do as I wish. He wasn’t going to tell her as it would make it better!

As you can imagine that’s one message I backed right away from!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"In a past life I spent time as an escort (not the Ford type unfortunately).

The R word was the biggest fear. Especially if the preference was to be rougher or using restraints that left marks.

I had a few friends who had really bad experiences with that. So always be careful and build up the trust before anything heavy happens (I believe you should do that anyway). Good post OP.

Years ago actually I had a couple message me on here. Well I say couple, it was the guy. He was arranging his wife’s R fantasy (apparently) he wanted me to break into their house, tie them both and then do as I wish. He wasn’t going to tell her as it would make it better!

As you can imagine that’s one message I backed right away from! "

Danger signs .... crikey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a past life I spent time as an escort (not the Ford type unfortunately).

The R word was the biggest fear. Especially if the preference was to be rougher or using restraints that left marks.

I had a few friends who had really bad experiences with that. So always be careful and build up the trust before anything heavy happens (I believe you should do that anyway). Good post OP.

Years ago actually I had a couple message me on here. Well I say couple, it was the guy. He was arranging his wife’s R fantasy (apparently) he wanted me to break into their house, tie them both and then do as I wish. He wasn’t going to tell her as it would make it better!

As you can imagine that’s one message I backed right away from!

Danger signs .... crikey "

Yes. He was probably just a fantasist and would never have gone through with it. But so many red flags to avoid there either way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow didn't realise you guys were posting away in here. Some of the stories I'm reading are very similar to what a friend if mine went through.

The woman he was meeting was someone he had been speaking to for a while and had a few socials with. He said he was going to meet in private for the first time. She was aware that we was married and had an expensive ring.

Wheb he arrived outside he text her and she told him the door was unlocked, to let him self in. Before he made it through the porch, he said he was dragged inside by a huge man and two more came out of a room and started searching his pockets, took his ting and whatever else they could find. He wasn't hurt through this but even for me was very traumatic. He now has no ring to resemble his marriage luckily he wasn't cheating as his wife was aware.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow didn't realise you guys were posting away in here. Some of the stories I'm reading are very similar to what a friend if mine went through.

The woman he was meeting was someone he had been speaking to for a while and had a few socials with. He said he was going to meet in private for the first time. She was aware that we was married and had an expensive ring.

Wheb he arrived outside he text her and she told him the door was unlocked, to let him self in. Before he made it through the porch, he said he was dragged inside by a huge man and two more came out of a room and started searching his pockets, took his ting and whatever else they could find. He wasn't hurt through this but even for me was very traumatic. He now has no ring to resemble his marriage luckily he wasn't cheating as his wife was aware. "

A few typos: we - he***

Ting - ring***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing scary, just odd. Arranged to meet a ‘couple’ for a social and only the male turned up, stuff like that.

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