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"LMAO a real Cliffhanger with this song. They never quite give you a direct answer.. I want a zigga I want a zigga zagga zow.. What kind of answer is that LOL " Reply and quote | |||
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"Tell u what I want! What i really really want! now that song is in my head! X" What song???? | |||
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"Tell u what I want! What i really really want! now that song is in my head! X What song????" Spice girls | |||
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"I wanted respect. It’s all I ever wanted. Unfortunately I never got it so my profile is hidden. " Understand why as it has changed so much on here since i was a single fem in here. So many self entitled people who think because they are on a swinging site they are guaranteed a fuck. Also the way they treat us women on here is disgusting, we are treated like non charging prozzies. | |||
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"Fair enough only because who doesn't like a challenge!?" I don't like a challenge. I want everything to be easy and straightforward. | |||
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"Sorry girls You all deserve respect But dont become a victim and hide Use the "block" option And be strong" There comes a time when we have no choice but to ‘hide’ but I’m certainly no ‘victim’ and I’m a very strong woman. Your comments are not appreciated by me. I answered OPs question. | |||
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"Thank you for your contribution yeah. It's a confident one it's a proud one and notes should be taken. it is greatly appreciated" Asking what do women want is really quite diverse. Some want, like me, respect but some don’t know what respect is. Me thinks you are wanting women indirectly to help you attract other women. Be yourself OP I’m sure there is a woman out there for you. | |||
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"Shorter Paragraphs...thats what i want right now " Yes me too. I’ve a very busy life. Fab is now just a way of amusement for me. Reading lengthy forum posts also makes me happy that I’m ‘hiding’..... | |||
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"After coming here a second time I have come to find that things are a little preliminary here and I can't blame anybody when you know what you like and you know what you want. However for the sake of understanding and education amongst man and networking better and understanding that education is needed to better any system .. I wanted to ask the question what do women want in general or according to yourself particularly? And I feel like some things speak for themselves.. such as sending and soliciting women for nudes; clearly not warranted but reading is lol. there are those who want somethings but do not want other things. how do we was a man or even women best navigate this mine field full of A variation of different wants and needs without setting off the wrong triggers almost initially. I don't know about other men but I want to know. please educate us. All answers are welcome" A very good question and one which requires an intelligent question. I guess Fab is a release, a chance for people who would normally be quite reserved a chance to show a wilder side Fab has certainly given me confidence not only sexually but personally too. I have explored experiences I would not have otherwise considered and pushed my own boundaries. As for what I want, it has evolved and grown with me through the age. I no longer want that quick fix, but something solidified on a deeper understanding, mutually beneficial. I want a guy to deliver what he says he can...actually don't even tell me: show me what you can do. Not saying I want the next best love story but fwb founded on friendship. I have met some amazing people through Fab, people who have given me that and more and remained in my life as people I value and who value me. That sets a high barr but one I refuse to deviate from | |||
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"After coming here a second time I have come to find that things are a little preliminary here and I can't blame anybody when you know what you like and you know what you want. However for the sake of understanding and education amongst man and networking better and understanding that education is needed to better any system .. I wanted to ask the question what do women want in general or according to yourself particularly? And I feel like some things speak for themselves.. such as sending and soliciting women for nudes; clearly not warranted but reading is lol. there are those who want somethings but do not want other things. how do we was a man or even women best navigate this mine field full of A variation of different wants and needs without setting off the wrong triggers almost initially. I don't know about other men but I want to know. please educate us. All answers are welcome A very good question and one which requires an intelligent question*. I guess Fab is a release, a chance for people who would normally be quite reserved a chance to show a wilder side Fab has certainly given me confidence not only sexually but personally too. I have explored experiences I would not have otherwise considered and pushed my own boundaries. As for what I want, it has evolved and grown with me through the age. I no longer want that quick fix, but something solidified on a deeper understanding, mutually beneficial. I want a guy to deliver what he says he can...actually don't even tell me: show me what you can do. Not saying I want the next best love story but fwb founded on friendship. I have met some amazing people through Fab, people who have given me that and more and remained in my life as people I value and who value me. That sets a high barr but one I refuse to deviate from" *Answer not question | |||
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"The irony of women moaning about long opening posts and then complaining when men don’t read profiles is really something. " I think they reserve the right to change their minds at any time. | |||
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"Ok so in answer to the OP, as a woman on fab, I want: 1. Honesty. Lies are extremely toxic and liars always get caught out eventually. 1. Respect as a fellow human being. Opening messages like "Can I piss on your tits" or "I wanna ram your arse with my massive monster and breed you like a pig" are not respectful. 1. Guys to read my profile. Its all there, everything you need to know 1. Guys not to take my clearly stated 'DO NOT WANTs as a personal challenge to change my mind. 1. Humour, intellect, and the ability to string a sentence together. 1. Theres probably more but its early and ive not had a coffee" This in a nutshell xxx | |||
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"Most women want men to realise that they are human beings, just like they are. Why is this myth perpetuated that women are somehow impossible for men to understand?" Unfortunately my experiences on Fab have made me feel I’ve not been treated as a human being hence why I’m only here for the forums. | |||
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"Most women want men to realise that they are human beings, just like they are. Why is this myth perpetuated that women are somehow impossible for men to understand? Unfortunately my experiences on Fab have made me feel I’ve not been treated as a human being hence why I’m only here for the forums." You've probably just proved my point then. I've seen a lot of men claim that they just don't understand women and a lot of women agree with them that it's impossible to. I really despair when I read things like that and wonder how grown adults can genuinely not know that to understand an individual all you need to do is talk to them. | |||
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"Trouble is telling you what we want sort of preprogrammes the men to tell us what we want to hear and not you being the real you. Then that sort of gives a false impression of who you really are. Just be yourself, be honest and no lies. Jen" Well said | |||
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"I should add that if after chatting you find yourself unable to understand someone it means you're not compatible or they're playing games with you." Being straightforward doesn't seem to be something that's all that common on here | |||
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"Most women want men to realise that they are human beings, just like they are. Why is this myth perpetuated that women are somehow impossible for men to understand? Unfortunately my experiences on Fab have made me feel I’ve not been treated as a human being hence why I’m only here for the forums. You've probably just proved my point then. I've seen a lot of men claim that they just don't understand women and a lot of women agree with them that it's impossible to. I really despair when I read things like that and wonder how grown adults can genuinely not know that to understand an individual all you need to do is talk to them." Another poster got it right saying if we are treated on here as we would be face to face then men really can’t go far wrong, however the nature of how men understand Fab is the problem. | |||
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"I should add that if after chatting you find yourself unable to understand someone it means you're not compatible or they're playing games with you. Being straightforward doesn't seem to be something that's all that common on here " Or in life. | |||
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"LMAO a real Cliffhanger with this song. They never quite give you a direct answer.. I want a zigga I want a zigga zagga zow.. What kind of answer is that LOL Reply and quote " The man is new to the forum, this and your previous comment is not very friendly or civil. Please avoid threads rather than do this please | |||
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"LMAO a real Cliffhanger with this song. They never quite give you a direct answer.. I want a zigga I want a zigga zagga zow.. What kind of answer is that LOL Reply and quote The man is new to the forum, this and your previous comment is not very friendly or civil. Please avoid threads rather than do this please" Then I apologise to the Op | |||
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"I do like that.. Don't try to circumnavigate absolutes. That's an original answer" Can you use reply and quote please OP so we know who you are replying to. I would add that just communicate with women here as you would if they were in front of you in person then you won’t go far wrong. Good luck and I hope you have gleaned something about women from this thread | |||
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"A Chinese and a finger " It will have to be a takeaway now.... | |||
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"I want everything and I want it now . Makes a change, it's normally yesterday! " 2 days ago. You know me Doc | |||
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"Most women want men to realise that they are human beings, just like they are. Why is this myth perpetuated that women are somehow impossible for men to understand? Unfortunately my experiences on Fab have made me feel I’ve not been treated as a human being hence why I’m only here for the forums. You've probably just proved my point then. I've seen a lot of men claim that they just don't understand women and a lot of women agree with them that it's impossible to. I really despair when I read things like that and wonder how grown adults can genuinely not know that to understand an individual all you need to do is talk to them." That's a good point, probably the point. "all you need to do is talk to them"...and I guess by definition they would "talk to you and listen"... That's the challenge. I don't send emails any more, just here to window shop for now. But I guess the largest challenge is trying to strike up a civil conversation with people in an environment which is sceptical and judgemental and untrusting possibly on both sides.. Is quite a struggle. | |||
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"I want everything and I want it now . Makes a change, it's normally yesterday! 2 days ago. You know me Doc " Thought it'd be why did I have to ask in the first place! | |||
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"I do like that.. Don't try to circumnavigate absolutes. That's an original answer " If you click on reply and quote the person will know you are answering them Welcome to the forum | |||
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"I want everything and I want it now . Makes a change, it's normally yesterday! 2 days ago. You know me Doc Thought it'd be why did I have to ask in the first place! " Because you communicate Doc | |||
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