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By *ustleo OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

What’s your take on that, that shit turns me on ??

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days "

Yes, we need objectives and preferably a risk assessment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like unplanned sex. If you're having a social meet up and the chemistry is there , why fight it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days "

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot

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By *ustleo OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot"
??

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By *ustleo OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I like unplanned sex. If you're having a social meet up and the chemistry is there , why fight it?"
I think same, got to let it happen when u feel it

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By *ustleo OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

Yes, we need objectives and preferably a risk assessment. "

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot"

Yes graphs are excellent. I have a good computer program where you can input all the variables and generate a 3-D surface plot. Then you can spin it around, consider from all directions, get in close and look at the fine detail, pull back and make adjustments to the coefficients, compensate for friction or optimise the acceleration...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like unplanned sex. If you're having a social meet up and the chemistry is there , why fight it? I think same, got to let it happen when u feel it"

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Unplanned can be fun.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I love unplanned spontaneous sex if I'm in the mood x

Mrs N x

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot"

Can't believe no one's mentioned Venn Diagrams.

Ooooooft.

E

*Off for a lady wank

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Had a conversation about this recently and whilst obviously the underlying idea of the site for most is to meet for sex is does to an extent put a weight of expectation on that when you plan a meet in advance, as tends to be the case for me, that you're going to be "in the mood" on that date as opposed to natural and organic sex that just happens spontaneously.

Now obviously building anticipation before a meet etc helps with that, but you can't beat natural and instinctive sex that just happens because you're both in the mood at a given moment, not because you've planned it in advance

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Isn’t this what we call a one night stand or hook up.

I knew a couple of girls a few years back and every weekend their ambition was to have sex with, and I quote, “randoms”.

I believe this had happened to me twice.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I can’t stand planned sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot"

"Next side please"

*quivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I need advance notice to shave my legs

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Unplanned sex indicates to me a failure to anticipate possible eventualities.

Expect nothing. Prepare for everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playbook out in advance

23,45, 18 hut hut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days "

If you haven't submitted your RAM's and had them checked over by legal you aren't coming onto site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

If you haven't submitted your RAM's and had them checked over by legal you aren't coming onto site."

Always need an in date generic and site specific risk assessment, as well as individual activity RAs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What’s your take on that, that shit turns me on ??"

I find poo and sex not a pleasant combination

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We like to do a proper Gantt chart in MS Project. Roles and responsibilities. Critical path. It's all essential for good sex. These don't just happen on their own.

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Nope I need advance notice to shave my legs "

So do I

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

And graphs

Graphs are good

Chris Whitty gets me steaming hot

Yes graphs are excellent. I have a good computer program where you can input all the variables and generate a 3-D surface plot. Then you can spin it around, consider from all directions, get in close and look at the fine detail, pull back and make adjustments to the coefficients, compensate for friction or optimise the acceleration..."

"Please don't turn me on"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DY3So00P28

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Spontaneous sex can be mind blowing. Sometimes my socials have ended up in the bedroom because from the minute you first meet it is obvious you want each other.

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By *oseKissingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

Yes, we need objectives and preferably a risk assessment. "

Without these things how can your possibly appraise each other after? Set SMART goals?

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

Yes, we need objectives and preferably a risk assessment.

Without these things how can your possibly appraise each other after? Set SMART goals?"

Just PMSL at this thank you!

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Spontaneous sex can be mind blowing. Sometimes my socials have ended up in the bedroom because from the minute you first meet it is obvious you want each other."

Years ago there was a thread about a social that turned into a heady, passionate encounter.

The poor chap had his shoes stolen if I recall. Wasn't you was it?

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never liked planned sex at anytime my life to be in honest ...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We prefer to create a thorough mind map first, then we write an abstract, before getting down to business. Can't leave anything to chance these days

Yes, we need objectives and preferably a risk assessment.

Without these things how can your possibly appraise each other after? Set SMART goals?"

We carry out a full appraisal of all parties immediately after and outcomes then feed into new SMART objectives for the future. No mistake to small, no knob too big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Former boy scouts are always prepared.

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