FabSwingers.com forum: What are the forums to you???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are the forums to you???

Well to me it's about making friends discussing things on your mind our just having a bit if silly fun all the while making connections with people you might not have spoken to without the forums.

What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is about having fun and banter

and also to make friends along the way here, the forum is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is about having fun and banter

and also to make friends along the way here, the forum is comedy gold

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wise words

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s about having a laugh. coming out with a good sarcastic comment and of course making friends. After all all need Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making friends having a laugh & flirt - interacting with others

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Having a laugh, chatting to like minded people, all that jizz

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"What are the forums to you???

Well to me it's about making friends discussing things on your mind our just having a bit if silly fun all the while making connections with people you might not have spoken to without the forums.

What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

Pretty much nail on the head there OP

But it's also a place to watch your back,

Jealously can lead to certain people getting a target round their neck and poof Next you know Admin are all over them,

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

I haven’t noticed bitterness, jealousy or lamp post pissing lately.

I have seen folk get a bit tetchy. But that’s it.

The forums are a place I come to when I want something to read, that makes me smile and makes me think. If they didn’t do that I wouldn’t be here, I’d go elsewhere.

And I think if folk do leave they should be left to go in peace without those left behind trying to create bad feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun, banter and funny discussions. Also nice to make a few friends the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the forums to you???

Well to me it's about making friends discussing things on your mind our just having a bit if silly fun all the while making connections with people you might not have spoken to without the forums.

What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

I'm just not sure why the words 'nastiness' 'lamp post piss' and 'jealousy' are coming from or why they are being bandied about. None where I can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A place to come and just hang around. Chat to some people, say hi to friends.

The ones playing up and doing all you mentioned are better off ignored x

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

What all the ladies and gents said above.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Fun and banter. Meeting new people with similar interests. Free space to talk about things we maybe usually wouldn't, without being judged. Finding likeminded people who enjoy a similar kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A place to waste time bloviating my very own brand of wind and piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is about having fun and banter

and also to make friends along the way here, the forum is comedy gold

This for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the forums to you???

Well to me it's about making friends discussing things on your mind our just having a bit if silly fun all the while making connections with people you might not have spoken to without the forums.

What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

Pretty much nail on the head there OP

But it's also a place to watch your back,

Jealously can lead to certain people getting a target round their neck and poof Next you know Admin are all over them,

. "

I doubt admin really concern themselves that much with it... they have lives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the forums to you???

Well to me it's about making friends discussing things on your mind our just having a bit if silly fun all the while making connections with people you might not have spoken to without the forums.

What I dont understand is the bitterness and jealousy lamp post pissing and nastiness that seems to be in the forums. I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other....

So what does the forums mean to everyone else????

Tbh OP I haven’t seen any evidence of this ‘jealousy lamppost pissing and nastiness’ you mention. It’s tough times atm for us all and people need to vent. This can lead to comments that are sometimes unkind but not to the extent you suggest. There’s a current hysterical and childish POV some people are holding of being bullied and victimised, but sorry, I just don’t buy into it. The only thing it’s doing is sowing discord and ruining the fora for the majority who just want to forget the physical world for a bit and have a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just somewhere to make a fool of myself and hope someone enjoys it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share knowledge and fun or opinion. To say there is no nasty moment hum hum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanctuary

Shelter

Comfort

Familiarity

Belonging

Sarcasm

Filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Share knowledge and fun or opinion. To say there is no nasty moment hum hum... "

Not generally no, but there is an element of discord coming from a certain set. The trigger of which remains an enigma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is about having fun and banter

and also to make friends along the way here, the forum is comedy gold

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The forums used to be many things to me - somewhere to pass the time, to chat, to get to know people, to have a laugh, to learn things, to offer opinions and have them respected, whilst respecting those of others and a whole lot more.

Lately they're not doing a great deal for me being perfectly honest - which is why I don't post a great deal, or certainly not as much as I used to - I disagree though that there is any more lamp post pissing, nastiness or bitterness than there has ever been, and it's never been that much - I do think there's more contention though, where differing opinions are seen as an attack rather than simply being differing opinions.

Thing is though, saying " I just wish everyone would get along and or be nice to each other...." is not going to make the slightest bit of difference - Fab is no different from real life, you can't expect everyone to like each other or "get along", or for everyone to offer the same opinion and agree - life doesn't work like that, and Fab as a microcosm of life doesn't either.

I'll offer opinions on things, and accept, and respect, that others may have different ones. There are of course some people I don't particularly like or get on with, and for the most part I avoid them, but it also won't stop me offering an opinion or posting a comment on a public forum when I feel the urge to do so, which for me anyway, is less and less these days for a variety of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And somewhere to post an occasional story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is bitter people everywhere you look, even more these days. The forums are fun and exciting sometimes when theres an interesting arguement. And definitely offer great entertainment. I just pay attention to what helps me be a better me and skip the bs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Share knowledge and fun or opinion. To say there is no nasty moment hum hum...

Not generally no, but there is an element of discord coming from a certain set. The trigger of which remains an enigma"

Mainly because some prefer to take on someone response rather than reply to the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Share knowledge and fun or opinion. To say there is no nasty moment hum hum...

Not generally no, but there is an element of discord coming from a certain set. The trigger of which remains an enigma

Mainly because some prefer to take on someone response rather than reply to the op. "

Not when there nothing it is founded on you can't.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I come here for a chit chat/make friends have a laugh! And yes the nastiness even bullying some times whilst not nice I let go over my head! Just have to not take things to serious here! have a big salt pot to hand! And love a good discussion/ finding out things etc., x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been reading though all the comments and I worry that this thread has turned sour with people seeming to think fingers are being pointed and people feeling I was stirring stuff up i merely wondered what the forums mean to everyone else and believe that respect should always be shown to everyone on here regardless of race sexuality religion or opinion as long as everyone is having a good time and enjoys fab for what it is

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Entertainment really.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have been reading though all the comments and I worry that this thread has turned sour with people seeming to think fingers are being pointed and people feeling I was stirring stuff up i merely wondered what the forums mean to everyone else and believe that respect should always be shown to everyone on here regardless of race sexuality religion or opinion as long as everyone is having a good time and enjoys fab for what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me the forums are a good place to air my views on certain subjects. I especially like if my view on a certain subject is challenged or changed.

OP you seem like a nice guy but not everyone is. If you can't accept this then public forums aren't the best place to be.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm here mainly for sketching beautiful, sexy people now

Occasionally i'll participate in something fun or thought provoking.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

A diversion every now and then...nothing more, nothing less.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I'm here mainly for sketching beautiful, sexy people now

Occasionally i'll participate in something fun or thought provoking."

Do u display ur work ? X

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Mainly habit and people watching these days...occasionally I'll add my thoughts, usually to the more thought provoking threads, but I don't post or spend time here anywhere near as much as I used to.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I'm here mainly for sketching beautiful, sexy people now

Occasionally i'll participate in something fun or thought provoking.

Do u display ur work ? X"

I do. People will often upload their renditions as well.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I'm here mainly for sketching beautiful, sexy people now

Occasionally i'll participate in something fun or thought provoking.

Do u display ur work ? X

I do. People will often upload their renditions as well."

Would love to see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about the Banter and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about the Banter and cake

Did someone say cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about the Banter and cake

Did someone say cake?

Only loud enough to get your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums give me a means of interaction with open minded sexual personalities. I can be silly, flirtatious and serious from one thread to the next. I can get my attention seeking needs fulfilled in bucket loads.

The forums have also given me the opportunity to break the ice with people that I feel attracted to and this has previously progressed to play dates...lucky me.

I have made friendships, then been out for drinks and chatted for hours.

I have had the fortunate opportunity to be the subject of people's artistic talents, which has honestly astounded me and filled me with happiness.

And I get to enjoy a favourite pastime of people watching. I observe the highs and lows of the forum and enjoy reading the responses to threads even if I choose not to participate.

I enjoy the forum and will be here for a good while yet

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smidgen of news, a pinch of comaradery, a hefty table spoon of sarcasm and an avalanche of face palming at the single guys complaining or the ladies requesting a height filter whilst also eating weight/body type filter is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about the Banter and cake

Did someone say cake?

Only loud enough to get your attention

People keep summoning me with cake and

emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the fun threads, talking with friends old and new. Support at times. And generally chatting to like minded people x

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

I like the chat and there are several people on here who really make me laugh.

It’s great when it’s good, other days I leave it alone.

Also, I just heard there was cake. Biscuits too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had GIFs, I’d never leave. I’ve taught entire lessons with GIFs

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"If they had GIFs, I’d never leave. I’ve taught entire lessons with GIFs"

I hear that! But would those GIFs get through the filters here haha?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Share knowledge and fun or opinion. To say there is no nasty moment hum hum...

Not generally no, but there is an element of discord coming from a certain set. The trigger of which remains an enigma

Mainly because some prefer to take on someone response rather than reply to the op.

Not when there nothing it is founded on you can't."

@ MissDreavus I don’t like hijacking post but can’t pm you so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that we're not meeting, and I'm bored with sexting, I'm only coming onto Fab for the forums these days. I'm not a big contributer, but enjoy the range of topics. Its good to speak to people that I wouldn't usually connect with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t venture in as much now but to me it’s about passing time and catching up with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they had GIFs, I’d never leave. I’ve taught entire lessons with GIFs

I hear that! But would those GIFs get through the filters here haha? "

The ‘misfits twat’ GIF is what got me banned from Grindr. Lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Making pointless statements and walking away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally I do dispense some valued advise on STD thread when they pop up.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

For me,I like seeing how other peoples minds work plus I've learnt alot on these forums,some I wish I could unlearn though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Is this not where i get the bus timetables?

Damn.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been waiting for the No.69 all day.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I've been waiting for the No.69 all day. "

A bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been waiting for the No.69 all day. "

be carefull 3 may cum at once

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've been waiting for the No.69 all day.

be carefull 3 may cum at once"

Is that a BUS-kake?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Meet people and chat with a bit of banter have a laugh and

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Meet people and chat with a bit of banter have a laugh and "

And come upon sexy chaps like you....

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Meet people and chat with a bit of banter have a laugh and

And come upon sexy chaps like you....

Well thank you for that X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Iv connected with most on the forums it's fun xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It passes away the erstwhile hours, and means I've got somewhere to post my inane drivel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A place to have a bit of harmless fun, flirt and be cheered up

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Everyone is endearing on the forums x it makes it what it is different opinions x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh it's also a place to find beautiful women with curves that are partial to a hairy chested guy like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it's also a place to find beautiful women with curves that are partial to a hairy chested guy like me

And gents who just like your banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to have fun, banter and show im genuine and not a fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A place to chat to like minded people have silly banter play silly games , make new friends and connections and just enjoy like minded peoples company virtually.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm here for the

Cake.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

"I'm here for the

Cake. "

Virtual cake.... not for me

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

I love the variety of banter and chatter and the chance to make connections that can be just fun and chatter and occasionally something more.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"to have fun, banter and show im genuine and not a fake profile"

That's why I rock up at socials occasionally, just to prove that I'm still alive

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By *ipShakerMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Forum posts are on varied, random and sometimes insane topics. Some of which I find interesting, some I don't, but I'm sure they're interesting to someone. Not a fan of negativity. If somethings not for you just move along. If you have nothing nice to say to someone then. Just move on...

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