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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral

Sorry I need a little rant.

I am becoming increasingly annoyed at people's descriptions about themselves.

Especially on how they describe their looks. Self compliments are no compliments. I see profiles saying things like "I am handsome", "I am gorgeous" "I am funny" "I am sexy". Says who?

I have seen profiles saying such things and in truth the only people saying such things about them would be their mum, best friend and/or partner.

Profiles should be about facts. I am tall, I am blonde, I am a size 10, I like to laugh,

The worst culprits of this is trans girls. I am a trans girl. I am legally female. Everything on my profile is true, not opinion. My pet hate is the words "I am convincing". The word that any decent trans girl won't use as it paints a picture of deceit. I have been around hundreds of trans, some of those have called themselves "convincing" and those that do I can assure you, they are not. If you wear wigs, breast plates, breast forms, padded knickers etc. You are not convincing.

Please everyone, drop the self compliments. State facts, not the opinion of yourselves or what others have said to you. Sometimes people will bullshit you for sex.

You might think you are selling yourselves. It's sadly just arrogance. Self compliments are not real!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I have a problem with the fact that it is seen as a bad thing that somebody thinks they are beautiful or handsome.

You don't have to agree but how somebody chooses to think of themselves as its entirely up to them. I would much rather somebody be complimentary about themself than Derogatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also self compliments are probably the most real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for you to dictate how others view themselves

Your rant is both wasted & misplaced

I hope you feel better for getting it off your chest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words like beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, pretty etc are all subjective. It's fine for some to describe someone else in complimentary terms, but I agree self described gorgeous people? Opinions aren't facts. Not your call.

Yesterday, while I was changing at the gym, I caught sight of myslef in a very large full length mirror. I did not like what I saw, to such an extent that it really has knocked the little body confidence I had. So, I won't be using any subjective terms to describe myself. Take me or leave me, most choose leave.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Beautiful or not i am just me , we all have beauty in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Words like beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, pretty etc are all subjective. It's fine for some to describe someone else in complimentary terms, but I agree self described gorgeous people? Opinions aren't facts. Not your call.

Yesterday, while I was changing at the gym, I caught sight of myslef in a very large full length mirror. I did not like what I saw, to such an extent that it really has knocked the little body confidence I had. So, I won't be using any subjective terms to describe myself. Take me or leave me, most choose leave."

Absolutely there call and nobody gets to decide how I view and describe myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of I was honestly to describe how I see myself then no one would want to meet me as I don't see myself as beautiful or pretty (and I'm not after compliments or pity)

I guess some people do over compensate as they feel they need to sell themselves.If they really do feel that good about themselves then that's ok as we all deserve happiness so go them

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"See I have a problem with the fact that it is seen as a bad thing that somebody thinks they are beautiful or handsome.

You don't have to agree but how somebody chooses to think of themselves as its entirely up to them. I would much rather somebody be complimentary about themself than Derogatory. "

^^ This 100% ! More people should be loving themselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like "

You’re beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like "

Saves me typing it out, I agree totally with this

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have head like a potato with litte bit of shrek Cross uncle feaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like

You’re beautiful "

And you’re a charming tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I have a problem with the fact that it is seen as a bad thing that somebody thinks they are beautiful or handsome.

You don't have to agree but how somebody chooses to think of themselves as its entirely up to them. I would much rather somebody be complimentary about themself than Derogatory.

^^ This 100% ! More people should be loving themselves x"

As long as people aren't rude or arrogant i really think more people should think more highly of themselves. I Don't understand why thinking you are pretty/ Beautiful and describing yourself as such is seen so negatively.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like

You’re beautiful

And you’re a charming tart "

I’m a sweet tart not a tart tart though

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I think people who have the confidence to say it are lucky. Look in the mirror, what do you see? Most people won't be able to say beauty, handsome, pretty etc... For what reason.? Love yourself first of all... As hard as it may be. And if you feel handsome or hung or beautiful or pretty... Be proud. There's plenty of people here to kick you when you're down. Take the good while you can.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a difficult balance, how do you promote yourself without coming across as full of yourself or arrogant? Because you do need to stand out from the crowd around here.

I describe myself how I see fit, and it's up to other people to determine if my perception matches theirs. Ultimately, those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.

I'd also prefer to skip those whose description I believe is exaggerated. There are very few circumstances where it's worth calling them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it unnecessary on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Don't understand why thinking you are pretty/ Beautiful and describing yourself as such is seen so negatively."

It's the thin line between confidence and arrogance, and it's a difficult line to walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way a profile is worded is best fit to the individual, it's not up to anyone else to pick it apart. When you say 'who says you are' it's irrelevant. If people feel a positive way about theirselves, it's only a good thing. We spend way too much time criticising ourselves and others so if people can look in the mirror and compliment theirselves.. more power to them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The way a profile is worded is best fit to the individual, it's not up to anyone else to pick it apart. When you say 'who says you are' it's irrelevant. If people feel a positive way about theirselves, it's only a good thing. We spend way too much time criticising ourselves and others so if people can look in the mirror and compliment theirselves.. more power to them "

One of the very few times I think it's worth calling out is when someone asks for profile advice. Because names like sex god and promises to be god's gift to whatever are off-putting. I'm not saying that the person isn't, but, hey, you might want to tone that down, you might come across better.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to take the piss out of myself.

Sometimes by saying I'm ugly, other times by saying I'm handsome.

You don't have to be serious all the time.

We're here to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are so many people bothered about other people.What they are or how they look or what they write.

If someone isn't for you they will be for someone else so move on and don't let others eat you up.

If more people realised that giggles and helping each other smile is the path you travel here.

Then surely it would help make this a better place for everyone.

Who cares what others do say or even look like.Just have fun and find what you want

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

...live and let live?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way a profile is worded is best fit to the individual, it's not up to anyone else to pick it apart. When you say 'who says you are' it's irrelevant. If people feel a positive way about theirselves, it's only a good thing. We spend way too much time criticising ourselves and others so if people can look in the mirror and compliment theirselves.. more power to them

One of the very few times I think it's worth calling out is when someone asks for profile advice. Because names like sex god and promises to be god's gift to whatever are off-putting. I'm not saying that the person isn't, but, hey, you might want to tone that down, you might come across better."

I agree personally I find statements like that off-putting however I would never say to somebody they shouldn't say that about themselves and that it's a false compliment because its from themselves.

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral

Beauty, looks, personality, humour is subjective.

I have sadly met people who gave described themselves as "funny as hell" and they have bored me to tears with Christmas cracker jokes.

I have nothing against people having a positive attitude but if you want to plaster your profile with how amazing you are, you may be seen as deceitful and arrogant.

Much better to stick with facts and pictures and to let others decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty, looks, personality, humour is subjective.

I have sadly met people who gave described themselves as "funny as hell" and they have bored me to tears with Christmas cracker jokes.

I have nothing against people having a positive attitude but if you want to plaster your profile with how amazing you are, you may be seen as deceitful and arrogant.

Much better to stick with facts and pictures and to let others decide. "

Thing is play my well be hilarious to many people they meet.

Just because you don't find somebody funny or beautiful doesn't mean that many other won't.

Also if you don't like what somebody puts on their profile scroll on by rather than picking them apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all subjective at the end of the day...

Profiles are just glimpses into people's worlds.. Like what you see, ask more... Don't like it.. Just move on.

There are thousands of people on Fab

(don't take the funny ones tho, they are all for me .)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it really doesn't matter what terms people use to describe themselves it will be me that finds them attractive or not be that physically or otherwise based on how I find them. A profile is just a profile. It's a small snapshot of someone to get you to take a look at them. They are essentially trying to sell themselves to others as being appealing. Who cares what words they use. You'll only know if they are what they say they are by actually talking to them.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... Not just superficially. It's up to the beholder to decide. If you write everyone off because of the words used you're probably going to miss some really decent people you could have a great connection with.

I don't class myself as attractive etc because I know I may be to one person and not another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an opinion on peoples opinions

You couldn't script it

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


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Just because you don't find somebody funny or beautiful doesn't mean that many other won't.

Also if you don't like what somebody puts on their profile scroll on by rather than picking them apart."

That's why I said it was subjective. One man's meat is another man's poison.

The difficulty is, we have on here some amazing people who are over looked because they don't bullshit their profile while others that do, disappoint others when they show up.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m just say that I’m an arsehole - that way, people’s opinion of me can surely, only subsequently get better

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


"I’m just say that I’m an arsehole - that way, people’s opinion of me can surely, only subsequently get better "

I actually prefer that tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Just because you don't find somebody funny or beautiful doesn't mean that many other won't.

Also if you don't like what somebody puts on their profile scroll on by rather than picking them apart.

That's why I said it was subjective. One man's meat is another man's poison.

The difficulty is, we have on here some amazing people who are over looked because they don't bullshit their profile while others that do, disappoint others when they show up. "

If people choose to downplay themselves that's up to them, It is also up to somebody whether they choose to big themselves up. If you are disappointed then that's on you not on the person.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The way a profile is worded is best fit to the individual, it's not up to anyone else to pick it apart. When you say 'who says you are' it's irrelevant. If people feel a positive way about theirselves, it's only a good thing. We spend way too much time criticising ourselves and others so if people can look in the mirror and compliment theirselves.. more power to them

One of the very few times I think it's worth calling out is when someone asks for profile advice. Because names like sex god and promises to be god's gift to whatever are off-putting. I'm not saying that the person isn't, but, hey, you might want to tone that down, you might come across better.

I agree personally I find statements like that off-putting however I would never say to somebody they shouldn't say that about themselves and that it's a false compliment because its from themselves. "

Oh no. I more mean, in the context of profile critique, I might suggest that they tone it down. Not that they're not that, more that it might come out wrong.

People can think what they like about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty, looks, personality, humour is subjective.

I have sadly met people who gave described themselves as "funny as hell" and they have bored me to tears with Christmas cracker jokes.

I have nothing against people having a positive attitude but if you want to plaster your profile with how amazing you are, you may be seen as deceitful and arrogant.

Much better to stick with facts and pictures and to let others decide. "

I quite like the odd Christmas cracker joke tbh. So do you find every single comedian on this planet funny OP?

Humour is highly subjective and a similar one to mine is one of the things I look for in people.

Sticking to facts? So my profile would read I’m a 5’9” female (according to the tape measure and last gynaecologist appointment) size 12-18 (depending on the shop) woman looking for a man (I will check for evidence).

Nah.... long live creativity, self worth and even arrogance. Shows me who I want to know better and who I don’t

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I just don't feel the need to talk so negatively about others. It's not up to me or anyone else to define what is "convincing" in my opinion. Why does it bother you so much? If there's pictures people will generally use those to make their own minds up any way.

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


"

If people choose to downplay themselves that's up to them, It is also up to somebody whether they choose to big themselves up. If you are disappointed then that's on you not on the person."

It is totally on that person. I am sorry but I think that is a ridiculous thing to say.

If I was to meet somebody and they have painted me a picture of being amazing and they are far from it. That is deceitful, dishonest and just wrong

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By *aptainaughtyMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Whislt beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, compliments or positve profile descriptions are still a positive mindset.

If we are all negative all of the time, there won't be a creative mindset. And that will be tragic.

GOD KNOWS WE NEED IT AFTER 2020

Love one love all, warts and all. Safely of course

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Am I allowed to say I have a face like a bag of spanner’s?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


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If people choose to downplay themselves that's up to them, It is also up to somebody whether they choose to big themselves up. If you are disappointed then that's on you not on the person.

It is totally on that person. I am sorry but I think that is a ridiculous thing to say.

If I was to meet somebody and they have painted me a picture of being amazing and they are far from it. That is deceitful, dishonest and just wrong "

So if people X, Y and Z think that person A is stunning, and they describe themselves as such, the fact that you don't agree with X, Y, and Z makes person A deceitful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if people X, Y and Z think that person A is stunning, and they describe themselves as such, the fact that you don't agree with X, Y, and Z makes person A deceitful?"

If they say "I am stunning" then they are stating their own subjective opinion of themselves. It may or may not be true.

A more accurate way of describing themselves might be "I've been described as stunning" which covers everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s all just be ourselves be happy and compliment others when we feel like it, let’s make fab a happy place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If people choose to downplay themselves that's up to them, It is also up to somebody whether they choose to big themselves up. If you are disappointed then that's on you not on the person.

It is totally on that person. I am sorry but I think that is a ridiculous thing to say.

If I was to meet somebody and they have painted me a picture of being amazing and they are far from it. That is deceitful, dishonest and just wrong "

You say you are fun loving. You don’t come across that way

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So if people X, Y and Z think that person A is stunning, and they describe themselves as such, the fact that you don't agree with X, Y, and Z makes person A deceitful?

If they say "I am stunning" then they are stating their own subjective opinion of themselves. It may or may not be true.

A more accurate way of describing themselves might be "I've been described as stunning" which covers everything."

I just think it's subjective. If someone describes themselves as stunning, I'll take it in context: does it look like confidence or arrogance (compared with what else has been said), how does it compare to what else I see?

Some people might call me attractive. Some might not be attracted to me at all. Can't say whether I'm attractive or not, really. (not fishing for compliments, just aiming at myself rather than being potentially unkind towards someone else)

It's hard to get the balance right when promoting yourself.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

I find a bloated sense of entitlement far more irritating as exhibited in abundance by the op

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

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Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I am ugly

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Ouch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am ugly"

You most definitely are not. Those legs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends how you say. In my opinion it only comes off as arrogant if you imply that you're better than others because of perceived good looks. But I don't think there's anything wrong with being confident in your appearance.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing. "

But what problem do you have if other trans girls look convincing or not? If they think they do, and state it on their profile, good for them!

It almost seems that you’re competing for attention with other trans ladies here when there is no need to.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I am what I am you either like or you don't either way I wouldn't care if people want to describe themselves as beautiful then thats fine some people will agree some won't get over it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If people choose to downplay themselves that's up to them, It is also up to somebody whether they choose to big themselves up. If you are disappointed then that's on you not on the person.

It is totally on that person. I am sorry but I think that is a ridiculous thing to say.

If I was to meet somebody and they have painted me a picture of being amazing and they are far from it. That is deceitful, dishonest and just wrong "

I'm sorry but that is a ridiculous thing to say.

Just because you don't think they are amazing doesn't mean they are not, or that others don't think they are so I would say it is far from deceitful and dishonest.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing. "

That is unnecessary.

Just worry about yourself, if you deem it to be so important.

Live & let live.

Love & let love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never describe myself in such a way but good luck to people who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fat ugly perverted time waster.

Avoid me the best you can

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

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I've had brown/black chin and lip hair since puberty. same

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing. "

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Let’s all just be ourselves be happy and compliment others when we feel like it, let’s make fab a happy place x "

Let's all be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that if someone doesn't meet your Expectations as long as somebody hasn't deliberately gone out of their way to deceive someone I don't see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points "

Eyes Wide Shut

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them."

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on. "

You seem to think anybody that doesn't live up to your expectations is Deceitful.

Does it really matter how people choose to describe themselves?

Either you meet them and like them or you done and don't see them again I certainly wouldn't tell anybody how they should or shouldn't describe themselves as it's none of my business.

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

I disagree, I believe fab should be a safe haven where people should be free to describe themselves as they see fit.

Frankly, I'd expect more tolerance from someone with your background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s all just be ourselves be happy and compliment others when we feel like it, let’s make fab a happy place x

Let's all be happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I just wanted to add, I have female friends who wear breast prosthesis due to cancer, another has alopecia so wears a wig. These in no way make them less feminine. Oh and seriously have some chin hairs growing as I've hit middle aged. Does this make me a less convincing woman? No.

They maybe things that you aren't attracted to, but it isn't anyone's call what makes someone feminine or not

Firstly very sorry to your friends who have had cancer and other medical problems.

A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on. "

I can’t say for certain but for me personally I don’t think you would convince me for one moment. You are attractive. But I wouldn’t be convinced

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Live and let live is my Moto

If you don't like what you see or read then just move on

It's that simple

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points "

Zoolander. Bloody love that movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I allowed to say I’m minging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fair to say "poetic licence" is used a fair bit on Fab and there's also a lot of bluster and bullshit thrown in for good measure. However, I just use it as a filter because I can then streamline my never ending meets allowing me enough time to recover between them.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I taste of Ginger,,

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not sure that this is a particularly happy and nice way of looking at things.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I taste of Ginger,,

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I LOVE ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on. "

Crikey this is a bit strong... I'd describe myself as a redhead, but it definitely needs bottle help now, so by your description I'm deceitful

Plus I've decribed myself as flirtatious and filthy.. But I'm not those things to strangers or 100% of the time... it gives people an impression of the type of conversation they are going to get when engaging me. I've asked for intellect and wit, but it doesn't mean you've gotta be on it 100% of the day

If i was meeting another person and various attributes were important to me it would be part of the pre meet so you know what you are getting in the tin as it were

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Humility is a very underrated trait.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"a woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

Someone say redhead,

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on.

Crikey this is a bit strong... I'd describe myself as a redhead, but it definitely needs bottle help now, so by your description I'm deceitful

Plus I've decribed myself as flirtatious and filthy.. But I'm not those things to strangers or 100% of the time... it gives people an impression of the type of conversation they are going to get when engaging me. I've asked for intellect and wit, but it doesn't mean you've gotta be on it 100% of the day

If i was meeting another person and various attributes were important to me it would be part of the pre meet so you know what you are getting in the tin as it were

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing.

According to you. That's only your call to make if you want to decide to meet them.

Someone say redhead,

See the point is, those that are, do not use words such as "convincing". It's very much frowned apon as by its definition, deceitful, like a used car salesman convincing you it's great when it isn't.

I do not meet other trans girls thank you. No interest at all but I do feel very sorry to the people they convince, and in walks bill the builder with a bit of lippy on.

Crikey this is a bit strong... I'd describe myself as a redhead, but it definitely needs bottle help now, so by your description I'm deceitful

Plus I've decribed myself as flirtatious and filthy.. But I'm not those things to strangers or 100% of the time... it gives people an impression of the type of conversation they are going to get when engaging me. I've asked for intellect and wit, but it doesn't mean you've gotta be on it 100% of the day

If i was meeting another person and various attributes were important to me it would be part of the pre meet so you know what you are getting in the tin as it were

"

Dammit

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I taste of Ginger,,

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Oh please , if is very sweet i will have the full botle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points

Zoolander. Bloody love that movie "

3 points!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman will always be a woman but if a trans girl cannot take off everything, wig, breastplate etc and not look feminine. She is not convincing. "

I'm not going to pass any comment or judgment on wether you are convincing as whatever label you choose to identify as. Frankly, I don't give a toss. Your call on that. But from your quoted comment, you are 100% convincing as a bitch.

I must admit, I'd I've thought and expected to find a little bit more tolerance, compassion and understanding within the LGBTQ community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!"

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humility is a very underrated trait."

It is and it’s probably the rarest thing on this site.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Why are so many people bothered about other people.What they are or how they look or what they write.

If someone isn't for you they will be for someone else so move on and don't let others eat you up.

If more people realised that giggles and helping each other smile is the path you travel here.

Then surely it would help make this a better place for everyone.

Who cares what others do say or even look like.Just have fun and find what you want "

Very wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op but I consider my self a perfect 10

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points

Zoolander. Bloody love that movie

3 points! "

You should see my Blue Steel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?! "

I dont need to answer to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?!

I dont need to answer to you!"

Haha, that means you have nothing to back it up with, just thought it sounded good.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

The phrase I really detest, mainly used on dating sites but not unknown on here is: 'Friends describe me as...' Why pass the onus of description on to conveniently mentionable friends when we all know who is really writing it?

Worse still is when the alleged friends describe them as 'Bubbly' Even worse is when they describe themselves as 'Bubbly'. Time to run a mile!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points

Zoolander. Bloody love that movie

3 points!

You should see my Blue Steel "

But can you turn left

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


""Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Name the movie for 3 points

Zoolander. Bloody love that movie

3 points!

You should see my Blue Steel

But can you turn left "

Right. Pose Off!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase I really detest, mainly used on dating sites but not unknown on here is: 'Friends describe me as...' Why pass the onus of description on to conveniently mentionable friends when we all know who is really writing it?

Worse still is when the alleged friends describe them as 'Bubbly' Even worse is when they describe themselves as 'Bubbly'. Time to run a mile!"

Bubbly to me = maintenance.. High!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who even reads profiles anyway I struggle getting past the first 2/3 pics before reading anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?!

I dont need to answer to you!

Haha, that means you have nothing to back it up with, just thought it sounded good. "

I absolutely don't need to back it up. am I am sick of you questioning everything I post please just don't comment on my posts anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?!

I dont need to answer to you!

Haha, that means you have nothing to back it up with, just thought it sounded good. "

No, i kinda get this... I get so many hollow compliments from people who do not know me and haven't even seen me in some cases ... But for me to say something nice about myself would actually be a big thing... But then how would you know i guess is your point

Dilemma

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

Some people really do love themselves.

Some people pretend to because they want to be perceived as popular.

Some people are tongue in cheek about it and others are just trying to make their profile more attractive to others.

I am more a live and let live with people if they want to project or believe an image its up to them it makes no impact on me and I thin kits a little sad that some want to kick the buffet out from someone who is on no concern or interest to them.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Also self compliments are probably the most real!

Er, how did you come to that conclusion ?!

I dont need to answer to you!

Haha, that means you have nothing to back it up with, just thought it sounded good.

I absolutely don't need to back it up. am I am sick of you questioning everything I post please just don't comment on my posts anymore."

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

Perfectly put Sophie

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

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By *alerieCouple
over a year ago

Close by

Who are these naive people that take the written words on a profile for gospel , don't swap pics prior to meeting and end up feeling deceived.... is what I want to know ???

In matters of taste ... There can be no disputes

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By *alerieCouple
over a year ago

Close by


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

Exactly this

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."
100 percent this

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

Spot on xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Buyer (meeter?) beware: those who believe a blurb rather than talking to people or looking at pictures

Meeter beware: those who don't check what category of person they're meeting (including within TV/TS, which is a broad spectrum)

I fail to see why this is the problem of anyone but the person who doesn't do their due diligence.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Hey OP. Sorry but I have to disagree with you. Nobody has the right to say what is convincing or beautiful or intelligent or tall or short or whatever. I love the variety of people we have here on Fab, the more diversity the better!

Plus the old adage- if you can’t love yourself, why should anyone else try? . If you don’t like someone’s profile, just move on until you find one you do like "

Couldn’t of said it better

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By *S Smiler OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxton, wirral


"Buyer (meeter?) beware: those who believe a blurb rather than talking to people or looking at pictures

Meeter beware: those who don't check what category of person they're meeting (including within TV/TS, which is a broad spectrum)

I fail to see why this is the problem of anyone but the person who doesn't do their due diligence."

You don't believe that people get caught out with grandeous profile full of BS. Clever camera angles with filters pictures.

Sorry but I know too many people who have been caught out. I meet now meet once in a blue moon. When I was on fab originally I can say I was caught out a few times due to my naivety.

I hate dishonesty, I would be ashamed of myself if I was to meet somebody and they where disappointed.

Trust me, this happens far too frequently to many people and its wrong, wrong, wrong.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

It’s not just that people don’t look like their pictures.

People make themselves out to BE something they are not.

It’s actually quite laughable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Growing up I was always told to know my own faults, then one day I had enough and questioned why I just had to know my own faults and not my positives too.

I am an attractive woman, I have good boobs, I have a mum tum, I have cellulite...alot of it too...I have a great waist.

You see, we can know both good and bad parts about ourselfs and you saying they cannot put their positives is incredibly hateful for no good reason.

Then adding icing on the cake, you bash other trans and cross dressers because they want to describe themselfs as convincing? Who cares if that is what makes them feel good. If you are meeting a trans off here you should already be aware of the huge range of different people that covers.

With this thread and your status you have come across a little resentful to those who love theirselves and for that I am sorry for you, sorry you do not know your own positives enough to feel you can share them with others.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're perfectly honest - the pics show reality. They speak louder than words on here.

Mr KC - tall, very slim, dark haired chap in mid 30s

Mrs KC - moderate height for a woman, fat, big but saggy boobs, mid 30s, uses wheelchair/crutches (photos included)

Yeah......... We're a real catch

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Sorry I need a little rant.

I am becoming increasingly annoyed at people's descriptions about themselves.

Especially on how they describe their looks. Self compliments are no compliments. I see profiles saying things like "I am handsome", "I am gorgeous" "I am funny" "I am sexy". Says who?

I have seen profiles saying such things and in truth the only people saying such things about them would be their mum, best friend and/or partner.

Profiles should be about facts. I am tall, I am blonde, I am a size 10, I like to laugh,

The worst culprits of this is trans girls. I am a trans girl. I am legally female. Everything on my profile is true, not opinion. My pet hate is the words "I am convincing". The word that any decent trans girl won't use as it paints a picture of deceit. I have been around hundreds of trans, some of those have called themselves "convincing" and those that do I can assure you, they are not. If you wear wigs, breast plates, breast forms, padded knickers etc. You are not convincing.

Please everyone, drop the self compliments. State facts, not the opinion of yourselves or what others have said to you. Sometimes people will bullshit you for sex.

You might think you are selling yourselves. It's sadly just arrogance. Self compliments are not real!!!

"

Go for a walk

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

If people want to say they are funny sexy or whatever it's on them why should it annoy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why my profile is bollocks because I don't want to tell you how brilliant/beautiful/amazing I am with witty anecdotes, I will show you that and you make up your own mind.

People I have met have never lived up to the hype they project.

Self praise is never a recommendation as my Momma used to say

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"If people want to say they are funny sexy or whatever it's on them why should it annoy you."

She's got a real bee in her bonnet about this

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"If people want to say they are funny sexy or whatever it's on them why should it annoy you.

She's got a real bee in her bonnet about this "

I know have you read her status x

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We're perfect, honestly - the pics show reality. They speak louder than words on here.

Mr KC - tall, sexy, very slim, gorgeous, dark haired chap in mid 30s, a real catch.

Mrs KC - perfect height for a woman, fucking gorgeous, big sexy boobs, mid 30s, uses wheelchair to escape those not worthy / crutches to beat people who aren’t nice (photos included)

"

FTFY

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We're perfect, honestly - the pics show reality. They speak louder than words on here.

Mr KC - tall, sexy, very slim, gorgeous, dark haired chap in mid 30s, a real catch.

Mrs KC - perfect height for a woman, fucking gorgeous, big sexy boobs, mid 30s, uses wheelchair to escape those not worthy / crutches to beat people who aren’t nice (photos included)

FTFY"

Agreed

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We're perfect, honestly - the pics show reality. They speak louder than words on here.

Mr KC - tall, sexy, very slim, gorgeous, dark haired chap in mid 30s, a real catch.

Mrs KC - perfect height for a woman, fucking gorgeous, big sexy boobs, mid 30s, uses wheelchair to escape those not worthy / crutches to beat people who aren’t nice (photos included)

FTFY"

I'm gonna copy/paste this into the profile

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Sorry I need a little rant.

I am becoming increasingly annoyed at people's descriptions about themselves.

Especially on how they describe their looks. Self compliments are no compliments. I see profiles saying things like "I am handsome", "I am gorgeous" "I am funny" "I am sexy". Says who?

I have seen profiles saying such things and in truth the only people saying such things about them would be their mum, best friend and/or partner.

Profiles should be about facts. I am tall, I am blonde, I am a size 10, I like to laugh,

The worst culprits of this is trans girls. I am a trans girl. I am legally female. Everything on my profile is true, not opinion. My pet hate is the words "I am convincing". The word that any decent trans girl won't use as it paints a picture of deceit. I have been around hundreds of trans, some of those have called themselves "convincing" and those that do I can assure you, they are not. If you wear wigs, breast plates, breast forms, padded knickers etc. You are not convincing.

Please everyone, drop the self compliments. State facts, not the opinion of yourselves or what others have said to you. Sometimes people will bullshit you for sex.

You might think you are selling yourselves. It's sadly just arrogance. Self compliments are not real!!!

"

Sorry you feel that way OP.

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing and I'd rather read a positive profile any day of the week rather than some of the soul sappingly negative ones I've come across.

Also "facts" can be very subjective too. Tall could mean anything, depends what you are comparing it to. One person's "blonde" could be another person's "dishwater". A size 10 from M and S is very different to a size 10 from Ted Baker...

Life is too short for me to get annoyed about how someone else on a swinging site chooses to describe themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why my profile is bollocks because I don't want to tell you how brilliant/beautiful/amazing I am with witty anecdotes, I will show you that and you make up your own mind.

People I have met have never lived up to the hype they project.

Self praise is never a recommendation as my Momma used to say "

I agree, nothing wrong at all with self love & self confidence... it should be encouraged

I may look at myself and say yeah I’m alright I look good/ok but that’s my opinion

Doesn’t mean I need to tell everyone I think that, as I am aware that it’s subjective...

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I know. It’s ridiculous. Some people are deluded.

Luckily, I’m pretty much the Beyoncé of Hampshire though so I have no issues on telling the lesser mortals that they should stay in their lanes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sexy as fuck! Fact!

Just kidding, I'm probably better than I think I am though... Seems to be the case for most of my life before now anyway

Most of us are too hard on ourselves... All power to those that can see their own beauty

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I am me and only me. That means I like a sarcastic comment but also at the same time a intellectual conversation, a free-flowing conversation, someone that can take as much as they can give. I don’t like to take life to seriously but also I do like a tight hug. If that is not simple I don’t know what is

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

If I ever wrote that I look like a chipmunk with a mouthful of food I'm sure that would bring the ladies running...and we both know in which direction...but I am what I am with quite a bit of misplaced confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know. It’s ridiculous. Some people are deluded.

Luckily, I’m pretty much the Beyoncé of Hampshire though so I have no issues on telling the lesser mortals that they should stay in their lanes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know. It’s ridiculous. Some people are deluded.

Luckily, I’m pretty much the Beyoncé of Hampshire though so I have no issues on telling the lesser mortals that they should stay in their lanes. "

I mean, she says it, so it’s gotta be true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have head like a potato with litte bit of shrek Cross uncle feaster "

Ooh I've always had a thing for Uncle Fester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really ugly and would scare the skin of a rice pudding but it's my opinion so stick that where the sun dont shine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once described myself on here as FAT, Funny and Fuckable

It's currently Fat, Funny and unfuckable

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I am me and only me. That means I like a sarcastic comment but also at the same time a intellectual conversation, a free-flowing conversation, someone that can take as much as they can give. I don’t like to take life to seriously but also I do like a tight hug. If that is not simple I don’t know what is "

Reminds me of my fave poem...

I am yet what I am none cares or knows, My friends forsake me like a memory lost; I am the self-consumer of my woes, They rise and vanish in oblivious host, Like shades in love and death's oblivion lost; And yet I am!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"I am me and only me. That means I like a sarcastic comment but also at the same time a intellectual conversation, a free-flowing conversation, someone that can take as much as they can give. I don’t like to take life to seriously but also I do like a tight hug. If that is not simple I don’t know what is

Reminds me of my fave poem...

I am yet what I am none cares or knows, My friends forsake me like a memory lost; I am the self-consumer of my woes, They rise and vanish in oblivious host, Like shades in love and death's oblivion lost; And yet I am!

"

Very good sir. Very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you are

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"

The difficulty is, we have on here some amazing people who are over looked because they don't bullshit their profile while others that do, disappoint others when they show up. "

.

I find this statement interesting OP.

Is this the reason for the rant?

That you feel that you are over-looked by those profile you detest so much?

or

You have decided to meet an amazing person who showed up and appear less amazing that what they said in their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If being self assured and self loving is seen as a bad thing by anyone, then pass on by. It's that simple.

I'm generalising here from experience, but I often find that those who criticise are the ones who aren't confident and self loving. I feel sorry for them. It took me 47 years to be this confident about myself, who I am and how I look.

"I make no apologies, this is me" - from The Greatest Showman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another thread showing how to make yourself feel better and attempting to elevate your own self worth by shitting all over someone else who is in a different position to yourself through circumstances you know nothing about.....and by and OP who should know only too well what it is like to be marginalised anyway in one of the most marginalised groups there is.

Ffs I despair at the stupidity of it all and no wonder why Fab for a lot of people recently is a horrible place.

I can clearly see why people leave as Cindi did yesterday.

And yes I'll expect a ban again for standing up for those who get downtrodden."

Spot on.

I tell ppl im average. That how i see myself. How your interpret that is your own business. I’d rather hear folk be kind and honest about themselves than embellish the truth or outright lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why so down on the trans community op?

You seem pretty opinionated as to how the people you’re clearly looking down on should conduct themselves.

You make it pretty clear you don’t approve of many of the things these lower grade trans women use to make themselves look and feel more feminine.

Are you going to continue to scoff them right up until their confirmation surgery, assuming they want and are able to go that far?

Will you finally back off the insults if they get a vagina? For surely, if they aren’t convincing as they remove their wig and false cleavage, they won’t be convincing when a cock appears?

It’s very hard for the whole trans community to face the world without people from within it mocking them too.

Someone with something extra..... should they be mocked too?

Nasty. Really nasty way to behave, especially from within the community.

Shame on you

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Why so down on the trans community op?

You seem pretty opinionated as to how the people you’re clearly looking down on should conduct themselves.

You make it pretty clear you don’t approve of many of the things these lower grade trans women use to make themselves look and feel more feminine.

Are you going to continue to scoff them right up until their confirmation surgery, assuming they want and are able to go that far?

Will you finally back off the insults if they get a vagina? For surely, if they aren’t convincing as they remove their wig and false cleavage, they won’t be convincing when a cock appears?

It’s very hard for the whole trans community to face the world without people from within it mocking them too.

Someone with something extra..... should they be mocked too?

Nasty. Really nasty way to behave, especially from within the community.

Shame on you "

I hope you don't mind too much but im going to hero worship you a while Rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so down on the trans community op?

You seem pretty opinionated as to how the people you’re clearly looking down on should conduct themselves.

You make it pretty clear you don’t approve of many of the things these lower grade trans women use to make themselves look and feel more feminine.

Are you going to continue to scoff them right up until their confirmation surgery, assuming they want and are able to go that far?

Will you finally back off the insults if they get a vagina? For surely, if they aren’t convincing as they remove their wig and false cleavage, they won’t be convincing when a cock appears?

It’s very hard for the whole trans community to face the world without people from within it mocking them too.

Someone with something extra..... should they be mocked too?

Nasty. Really nasty way to behave, especially from within the community.

Shame on you "

Indeed Rachael. Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so down on the trans community op?

You seem pretty opinionated as to how the people you’re clearly looking down on should conduct themselves.

You make it pretty clear you don’t approve of many of the things these lower grade trans women use to make themselves look and feel more feminine.

Are you going to continue to scoff them right up until their confirmation surgery, assuming they want and are able to go that far?

Will you finally back off the insults if they get a vagina? For surely, if they aren’t convincing as they remove their wig and false cleavage, they won’t be convincing when a cock appears?

It’s very hard for the whole trans community to face the world without people from within it mocking them too.

Someone with something extra..... should they be mocked too?

Nasty. Really nasty way to behave, especially from within the community.

Shame on you

I hope you don't mind too much but im going to hero worship you a while Rachel "

I do all the time

Fabulous bottom too

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"Why so down on the trans community op?

You seem pretty opinionated as to how the people you’re clearly looking down on should conduct themselves.

You make it pretty clear you don’t approve of many of the things these lower grade trans women use to make themselves look and feel more feminine.

Are you going to continue to scoff them right up until their confirmation surgery, assuming they want and are able to go that far?

Will you finally back off the insults if they get a vagina? For surely, if they aren’t convincing as they remove their wig and false cleavage, they won’t be convincing when a cock appears?

It’s very hard for the whole trans community to face the world without people from within it mocking them too.

Someone with something extra..... should they be mocked too?

Nasty. Really nasty way to behave, especially from within the community.

Shame on you

I hope you don't mind too much but im going to hero worship you a while Rachel

I do all the time

Fabulous bottom too "

You are gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame on you OP for sitting up there on your pedestal and pouring scorn on on the TV/CD community who don’t conform to your high expectations.

So many of them struggle to look - and I don’t care if you like this word or not - convincing. Many profiles on Fab state they are only interested in “convincing “ girls. They want to look as feminine as they feel inside and can only achieve it with the help of wigs and breast forms. Why do you sneer so much at this? You clearly think you’re a cut above the rest which is ironic in view of the content of your post.

Give me a girl in a wig and false breasts with a nice personality any day.

Your status alone would make me run a mile!

Miss V

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Shame on you OP for sitting up there on your pedestal and pouring scorn on on the TV/CD community who don’t conform to your high expectations.

So many of them struggle to look - and I don’t care if you like this word or not - convincing. Many profiles on Fab state they are only interested in “convincing “ girls. They want to look as feminine as they feel inside and can only achieve it with the help of wigs and breast forms. Why do you sneer so much at this? You clearly think you’re a cut above the rest which is ironic in view of the content of your post.

Give me a girl in a wig and false breasts with a nice personality any day.

Your status alone would make me run a mile!

Miss V

"

This x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Shame on you OP for sitting up there on your pedestal and pouring scorn on on the TV/CD community who don’t conform to your high expectations.

So many of them struggle to look - and I don’t care if you like this word or not - convincing. Many profiles on Fab state they are only interested in “convincing “ girls. They want to look as feminine as they feel inside and can only achieve it with the help of wigs and breast forms. Why do you sneer so much at this? You clearly think you’re a cut above the rest which is ironic in view of the content of your post.

Give me a girl in a wig and false breasts with a nice personality any day.

Your status alone would make me run a mile!

Miss V

"

Fair play... agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame on you OP for sitting up there on your pedestal and pouring scorn on on the TV/CD community who don’t conform to your high expectations.

So many of them struggle to look - and I don’t care if you like this word or not - convincing. Many profiles on Fab state they are only interested in “convincing “ girls. They want to look as feminine as they feel inside and can only achieve it with the help of wigs and breast forms. Why do you sneer so much at this? You clearly think you’re a cut above the rest which is ironic in view of the content of your post.

Give me a girl in a wig and false breasts with a nice personality any day.

Your status alone would make me run a mile!

Miss V

This x"

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By *ets join the funCouple
over a year ago

london

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By *ets join the funCouple
over a year ago

london


"[Removed by poster at 15/12/20 01:41:22]"

Ohh

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

(check selfs profile to refresh memory of how describes self...) No idea whether anyone in the world finds me "convincing" or even if they find me feminine. But then I don't particularly present myself for the benefit of other people, my appearance is something i do for myself. Okay i make a bit of an effort if I'm going to an event of some kind, but only like any woman would.

Am i less female if i lose the hair and boobs? I will admit that i _feel_ a bit cruddy if i don't have at least a bit of lippy and mascara on. But on the other hand i have sat in the club hot tub wearing nothing but my bikini and makeup, and not frightened away everyone else. Maybe they were just humouring me by continuing to use female pronouns.

Oh, and no surgeries, no hormones, no particular desire to go there at the moment.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I am tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(check selfs profile to refresh memory of how describes self...) No idea whether anyone in the world finds me "convincing" or even if they find me feminine. But then I don't particularly present myself for the benefit of other people, my appearance is something i do for myself. Okay i make a bit of an effort if I'm going to an event of some kind, but only like any woman would.

Am i less female if i lose the hair and boobs? I will admit that i _feel_ a bit cruddy if i don't have at least a bit of lippy and mascara on. But on the other hand i have sat in the club hot tub wearing nothing but my bikini and makeup, and not frightened away everyone else. Maybe they were just humouring me by continuing to use female pronouns.

Oh, and no surgeries, no hormones, no particular desire to go there at the moment. "

And therein lies the problem, people judge on appearances and place no value on personality or attributes which is a shame. I guess it is hard just on through the site

For what is is worth Polly I have met you and know you are beautiful inside and out, love your energy and attitude x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(check selfs profile to refresh memory of how describes self...) No idea whether anyone in the world finds me "convincing" or even if they find me feminine. But then I don't particularly present myself for the benefit of other people, my appearance is something i do for myself. Okay i make a bit of an effort if I'm going to an event of some kind, but only like any woman would.

Am i less female if i lose the hair and boobs? I will admit that i _feel_ a bit cruddy if i don't have at least a bit of lippy and mascara on. But on the other hand i have sat in the club hot tub wearing nothing but my bikini and makeup, and not frightened away everyone else. Maybe they were just humouring me by continuing to use female pronouns.

Oh, and no surgeries, no hormones, no particular desire to go there at the moment.

And therein lies the problem, people judge on appearances and place no value on personality or attributes which is a shame. I guess it is hard just on through the site

For what is is worth Polly I have met you and know you are beautiful inside and out, love your energy and attitude x"

I’ve met her too. Several times.

She’s Polly through to her core. She’s no less herself with or without the extra colour xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t disagree more. I used to dislike so much about myself and now I don’t. I have a body that’s capable of doing wonderful things. I have a face that’s got a huge friendly smile that helps makes others feel comfortable and I have a mind that makes me good at my job. We should be complementary about ourselves and look for the positives about ourselves too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The post above is a great one.

On that note maybe this is a good time to stop it to save more nasty posts that break rules ( posts removed )

Be kind , there are people behind the posts

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