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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

or without? As much as I like music I am not keen on it while having sex and there is always the chance that something inappropriate might come on 'Should I stay or should I go'. Having said that if at the moment if a woman or a couple said we like to play the Birdie Song I think I would be up for it

Just wondering what your preferences are?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

i always have music because neighbours but i do believe they prefer not listening the music

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By *ustleoMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Love a bit of music on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without, it really doesn't appeal when I'm having sex xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Select your own background music in advance and it can be wonderful.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My retune is normal drag the matters off the bed and lay it in the middle off the living room floor and music on stay in a flat walls are thin can here a pin drop

And my bedroom wall is on they bedroom wall so living room and matters on floor for comfort and plus so the guy below me dose not hear rubbing on the carpet x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Without, so I can hear when the kettle's boiled.

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By *immyleaMan
over a year ago

Derby

I used to do all the cliches when I was younger, one of which involved a 'seduction tape' for whenever a woman (either vanilla or kinky) came to my flat: songs ABOUT sex or lovemaking tended to feature regularly. Either that, or I would ask the woman in question what music she would like to hear (mainly so she didn't take the piss out of what I liked) and put that on.

However, I soon realised after a while that the music was putting both of us off- I think the turning point was me trying to orgasm whilst playing the "apocalyptic doom folk" music of Current 93 (a favourite of my then-girlfriend, who was an industrial goth) and hearing the singer scream "TAKE ME TO MY DEAD CHRIST!! TAKE ME TO MY DEAD CHRIST!!" as I came in her. It was most disconcerting, I can tell you. After that, silence became far more appealing- although I can see why so many swingers clubs favour the deep throbbing beats of techno and deep house. It does kind of suit the mood perfectly, and if you know the history of the club scene, it's very much part of it anyway.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

I much prefer music playing in the background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music. Not blaring though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no music but not really fussed either way. If it's good I don't notice anything going on in the background anyway.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

A little bit of jazz always works well with low lighting,...we all love jazz hands

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't hear it, I'm too caught up in what I'm doing, so I don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it .. bang to the rhythm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it with and without music.....however I always find when the chemistry is right stopping to put music on never happens. I’m in the moment

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m not averse to sex with music in the background but I do prefer the natural sounds emitted through lovemaking.

Certainly, Slayer’s, Seasons In The Abyss at full volume during the intimate act, would likely disturb my concentration and render me moshing unconsciously

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If they are chatty then there is no need for music. If they are quiet then I like background music.

I’m not a chatty lass so it eases any awkward silences, plus sometimes if it’s too quiet I start talking to myself in my head and I can get a bit distracted

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Music can cover up the sound of fanny farts

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have a specific play list for use during meetings

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Music off.

Different if it's in a club, I guess.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I prefer no music so I can listen to all the squelching

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