FabSwingers.com forum: Fetishes/Turn ons that you dont understand

By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Ok, so I know everyone is different and like different things. But what fetish or turn on do you not get?

I'll start it off:

- feet (dont mind feet at all btw) - family relations porn / play (post wont let me use the proper word for it)

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By *ozapperMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Armpits... and as you say, feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poo

Sounding

Anything involving animals.

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Yes what is the craic with armpits. Good one

"Armpits... and as you say, feet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Feet, family play, breeding, watersports and scat, probably others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet yuk no

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Yes with poo and animals, WTF? Maybe I'm being stupid but what is sounding?

"Poo

Sounding

Anything involving animals."

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Think sc@t goes without saying, well I hope it does lol. Breeding is another one that I dont get at all

"Feet, family play, breeding, watersports and scat, probably others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Armpits is a thing?

honesty now I start thinking abut there are so many I don’t get but who am I to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes with poo and animals, WTF? Maybe I'm being stupid but what is sounding?

Poo

Sounding

Anything involving animals."

When a guy pushes rods or similar of various sizes inside his penis

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Feet, family play, breeding, watersports and scat, probably others."
yes this and many other's

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Oh definitely not here to judge, just personal preferences. I'm sure there are things that I like that other people dont

"Armpits is a thing?

honesty now I start thinking abut there are so many I don’t get but who am I to judge"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Think sc@t goes without saying, well I hope it does lol. Breeding is another one that I dont get at all

Feet, family play, breeding, watersports and scat, probably others."

Nothing goes without saying

(Although I should probably say, anything I understand or condone involves consenting adult humans

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Yes with poo and animals, WTF? Maybe I'm being stupid but what is sounding?

Poo

Sounding

Anything involving animals.

When a guy pushes rods or similar of various sizes inside his penis

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jasus yes I've seen that it's awful

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Ok add that to my list too haha

" When a guy pushes rods or similar of various sizes inside his penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh definitely not here to judge, just personal preferences. I'm sure there are things that I like that other people dont

Armpits is a thing?

honesty now I start thinking abut there are so many I don’t get but who am I to judge"

I don't judge either as I'm the queen of weird turn ons

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

When the word 'breeding' gets used...makes me screw up my face!

If the wind changes one day it'll stay like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet, I cant stand feet

Sounding is a weird one too, I have tried it and it just really weirded me out tbh. Didn't enjoy it at all. Friend tried it on themselves and blood came out

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

I actually dont mind feet but dont understand some peoples fascination with them. Good on you trying that sounding thing and I'll take your word for it and give it a miss lol

"Feet, I cant stand feet

Sounding is a weird one too, I have tried it and it just really weirded me out tbh. Didn't enjoy it at all. Friend tried it on themselves and blood came out

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

"Feet, I cant stand feet

Sounding is a weird one too, I have tried it and it just really weirded me out tbh. Didn't enjoy it at all. Friend tried it on themselves and blood came out

WTF is sounding? Dare I ask? Lol

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Ok, so I know everyone is different and like different things. But what fetish or turn on do you not get?

I'll start it off:

- feet (dont mind feet at all btw) - family relations porn / play (post wont let me use the proper word for it)"

Role play- it’s just fake

haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feet, I cant stand feet

Sounding is a weird one too, I have tried it and it just really weirded me out tbh. Didn't enjoy it at all. Friend tried it on themselves and blood came out

WTF is sounding? Dare I ask? Lol"

When you stick metal rods down your dick basically. Guy tried it on me once and that was enough lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Judgey much?

People like different things. That's ok.

You can accept that and/or try to understand it or just shrug and say it isn't for you.

What consenting adults choose to do between themselves is up to them.

It might not be for you but that doesn't give you the right to demean.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The whole sub/dom thing is a mystery to us.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"Judgey much?

People like different things. That's ok.

You can accept that and/or try to understand it or just shrug and say it isn't for you.

What consenting adults choose to do between themselves is up to them.

It might not be for you but that doesn't give you the right to demean.

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

The whole point of the post is that people are different but just to discuss personal preferences. By no means looking to judge or demean

"Judgey much?

People like different things. That's ok.

You can accept that and/or try to understand it or just shrug and say it isn't for you.

What consenting adults choose to do between themselves is up to them.

It might not be for you but that doesn't give you the right to demean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole sub/dom thing is a mystery to us. "

Have you tried? Or read about it. Unconsciously you prob do some of it with your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feet yuk no "

The op asked what’s yours not judging others.

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By *immyleaMan
over a year ago

Derby

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By *immyleaMan
over a year ago

Derby

Feet, rods, poo, armpits, sploshing...not my thing AT ALL. But each to their own. I will never judge anyone else's kink as long as it's consensual and between two or more adults. Or sometimes even a solo act!! I will, however, remain bamboozled by some.

The one that always puzzled me, and several of my fellow kinksters agreed, was actually quite a prosaic one- people who came as a couple to a club, didn't play with anyone else but didn't play in public either, and didn't even get off on being watched through a window, gloryhole, curtain or spyhole. They simply came in together, had a drink, and then locked themselves in a playroom with the curtains drawn and played with no-one else til closing time. Which made many of us think: couldn't they have just done that at home? That is, until I accidentally found myself doing JUST that, and I realised what it was all about. And once I twigged it, it was so simple.

Basically, the majority of these are not 'proper' monogamous couples- they're either random hookups or lovers having an affair, and have entered a club as a couple for free because it's cheaper AND more discreet than booking a hotel!! When you think about it, it's obvious- and sure enough, this is precisely what happened when a certain woman (who shall remain nameless) and I met randomly on a bus one day and decided we essentially wanted somewhere nearby to go and have sex without awakening either my flatmate or her husband. So we headed straight for Club No 7 in Dalston, and bingo (OK, not actual bingo) And I reckon most of the 'locked in a room' couples one encounters are in much the same boat.

Well, unless they run into either of their partners there doing the same thing, that is! But I reckon that if you reach that stage, then that's the point where you should just shrug your shoulders, let the jealousy be damned and go with it. Anyway, mystery solved...

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Scat and rimming

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Stocking clad feet sniffing a warm gusset

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Judgey much?

People like different things. That's ok.

You can accept that and/or try to understand it or just shrug and say it isn't for you.

What consenting adults choose to do between themselves is up to them.

It might not be for you but that doesn't give you the right to demean.

I'm sorry if my post came across that way. I don't get it, doesn't mean it's bad. I also don't get quantum mechanics, you know?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What I don't understand is people who have to point out they don't understand other people's kinks. I don't like football and don't get people's obsession with it, I don't feel the need to tell everyone. Much better to focus on what you do like than what you don't surely?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Family play, daddy/mummy-little play, orgasm denial.

Perfectly ok with people doing those things but I'll never actually understand them. And the last on my list is genuinely triggering for me.

But then I imagine Many People don't understand why (pre plague) would subject myself to three Dommes play piercing me with needles for hours on end.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Judgey much?

People like different things. That's ok.

You can accept that and/or try to understand it or just shrug and say it isn't for you.

What consenting adults choose to do between themselves is up to them.

It might not be for you but that doesn't give you the right to demean.

I'm sorry if my post came across that way. I don't get it, doesn't mean it's bad. I also don't get quantum mechanics, you know?"

Quantum mechanics is far easier to understand than others kinks and fetishes..

Basically, time doesn't exist except if you are moving, then it slows down and if you are put in a box you are both dead and alive.

Simple...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Hmm...I have degrees in physics and mathematics and I understand quantum mechanics but I'm unsure I could explain it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand...

The whole foot fetish thing,

Family relations, I mean WTF?

Pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so I know everyone is different and like different things. But what fetish or turn on do you not get?

I'll start it off:

- feet (dont mind feet at all btw) - family relations porn / play (post wont let me use the proper word for it)"

Balloons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a deviant pervert for over 40 years I don’t judge anyone’s kinks/fetish apart from the obvious one but I really don’t understand the whole feeding scene.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What I don't understand is people who have to point out they don't understand other people's kinks. I don't like football and don't get people's obsession with it, I don't feel the need to tell everyone. Much better to focus on what you do like than what you don't surely? "

True enough. Apologies. No judgement intended.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't see anything wrong with the discussion. Nobody is kink shaming.

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

Sounding.

Each to their own but it seeing it makes me cringe and feel a bit sick

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By *scar83 OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thank you for saying that. People here are far too touchy. I by no means want to judge, shame or demean anyone. Its just a question that I am interested about. It was supposed to be a light hearted chat

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