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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

someone asked me this today, and normally i would say.. yeah ok or not bad, even if it wasn't.. only today i couldn't stop my self ,, 5 minutes later, after a rant and a cry and telling her the full on truth . there is a stunned silence and she said,,, god i was only asking..

why do we ask this question, if we are not prepared to at least listen and be prepared to offer some sympothy or something..

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


" someone asked me this today, and normally i would say.. yeah ok or not bad, even if it wasn't.. only today i couldn't stop my self ,, 5 minutes later, after a rant and a cry and telling her the full on truth . there is a stunned silence and she said,,, god i was only asking..

why do we ask this question, if we are not prepared to at least listen and be prepared to offer some sympothy or something.. "

sends huggs (((((OO)))))xxxxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

its just a coversational nicety isnt it?

i have stopped asking my friend how he is now. he has a lifelong illness and does suffer daily. whenever i chat to him online and i ask how he is....thats it...end of conversation....its all about him and how each day goes for him.

dont get me wrong, i like him and am concerned about his health but when i say 'how are you' its just to be polite. if i then want to know how he is coping i will ask him seperately

i probably sound like a bitch here

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


" why do we ask this question, if we are not prepared to at least listen and be prepared to offer some sympothy or something..

sends huggs (((((OO)))))xxxxxx"

thank you xx

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"its just a coversational nicety isnt it?

i have stopped asking my friend how he is now. he has a lifelong illness and does suffer daily. whenever i chat to him online and i ask how he is....thats it...end of conversation....its all about him and how each day goes for him.

dont get me wrong, i like him and am concerned about his health but when i say 'how are you' its just to be polite. if i then want to know how he is coping i will ask him seperately

i probably sound like a bitch here "

no you dont , I understand what you mean.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its just a coversational nicety isnt it?

i have stopped asking my friend how he is now. he has a lifelong illness and does suffer daily. whenever i chat to him online and i ask how he is....thats it...end of conversation....its all about him and how each day goes for him.

dont get me wrong, i like him and am concerned about his health but when i say 'how are you' its just to be polite. if i then want to know how he is coping i will ask him seperately

i probably sound like a bitch here "

...no, just like the rest of us.

It's almost a rhetorical question isn't it. You don't really expect someone to reply "well I feel like shit actually!"

Now I sound insensitive.

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over a year ago

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By *uicy lucy 12Woman
over a year ago

wirral

ive been on the sofa all day with a cold and having to rub in the vicks on my chest myself has been no help at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on the sofa all day with a cold and having to rub in the vicks on my chest myself has been no help at all.. "

You only needed to ask lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on the sofa all day with a cold and having to rub in the vicks on my chest myself has been no help at all..

You only needed to ask lol x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit sad at it's end. Always hard after big family visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" someone asked me this today, and normally i would say.. yeah ok or not bad, even if it wasn't.. only today i couldn't stop my self ,, 5 minutes later, after a rant and a cry and telling her the full on truth . there is a stunned silence and she said,,, god i was only asking..

why do we ask this question, if we are not prepared to at least listen and be prepared to offer some sympothy or something.. "

Well at least you got it all out of your system and hopefully that made you feel better x

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


" someone asked me this today, and normally i would say.. yeah ok or not bad, even if it wasn't.. only today i couldn't stop my self ,, 5 minutes later, after a rant and a cry and telling her the full on truth . there is a stunned silence and she said,,, god i was only asking..

why do we ask this question, if we are not prepared to at least listen and be prepared to offer some sympothy or something..

Well at least you got it all out of your system and hopefully that made you feel better x"

it did, lol. sometimes you need to get it all off your chest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and what a chest to get it off of!

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"and what a chest to get it off of! "

why think you sweet lady.

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

thank..... damn never type while drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just a coversational nicety isnt it?

i have stopped asking my friend how he is now. he has a lifelong illness and does suffer daily. whenever i chat to him online and i ask how he is....thats it...end of conversation....its all about him and how each day goes for him.

dont get me wrong, i like him and am concerned about his health but when i say 'how are you' its just to be polite. if i then want to know how he is coping i will ask him seperately

i probably sound like a bitch here

...no, just like the rest of us.

It's almost a rhetorical question isn't it. You don't really expect someone to reply "well I feel like shit actually!"

Now I sound insensitive.

"

I think you don't sound like a bitch.... or insensitive. I agree with what you both said.

OP, glad you feel better for getting it off your chest. Sometimes a good cry helps. Xx

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