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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be a very small number of non-caucasian women on here, which I find disappointing and frustrating

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so."

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the activity that goes on behind closed doors in suburbia don’t you know?

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By *irl AboutWoman
over a year ago

Greenwich

Asian lady here... there are some

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Noticeably whiter than the outside world on here.

Noticeably more male, too.

Don't make the mistake of thinking the denizens of Fab in any way represent the real demographics.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so."

Yes and no!

It certainly is for males - I’ve come across all races on here - and personally I think it’s great that so many transgender people feel that fab is a safe space for them!

For females - yes it’s predominantly white - and you add to that that single women on fab are a small minority anyway - it’s very small.

As to why - I’d say it’s definitely societal and cultural attitudes - and the very different way that male and female morals are still viewed in 2020.

I know that the majority of my vanilla female relatives and friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and in my home town at large I’d be considered a slag (I am viewed that way by the minority who know my ‘hobby’ - some call me a prostitute!)

I’m aware that the younger generation are more accepting of sexually open and adventurous females - but we still have a long way to go even in our own western culture - in some cultures women would be taking a great personal risk by being on a site like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What it lacks in ethnicity it makes up for in narcissism and desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What it lacks in ethnicity it makes up for in narcissism and desperation."

What made you this way?

It's very sad.

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By *lack AlanMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The question is does it need to be ? Everybodys perspective of Ethnic Diversity if different.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Fab is about sex, does it need to be any more complicated than that?

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What it lacks in ethnicity it makes up for in narcissism and desperation.

What made you this way?

It's very sad."

Pictures, comments on forum, profile description, block button frenzy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The Latino/Hispanic group is well represented.. *raises hand*

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so.

Yes and no!

It certainly is for males - I’ve come across all races on here - and personally I think it’s great that so many transgender people feel that fab is a safe space for them!

For females - yes it’s predominantly white - and you add to that that single women on fab are a small minority anyway - it’s very small.

As to why - I’d say it’s definitely societal and cultural attitudes - and the very different way that male and female morals are still viewed in 2020.

I know that the majority of my vanilla female relatives and friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and in my home town at large I’d be considered a slag (I am viewed that way by the minority who know my ‘hobby’ - some call me a prostitute!)

I’m aware that the younger generation are more accepting of sexually open and adventurous females - but we still have a long way to go even in our own western culture - in some cultures women would be taking a great personal risk by being on a site like this!"

Yep, spot on Peachy.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

It is what it is.

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so.

Yes and no!

It certainly is for males - I’ve come across all races on here - and personally I think it’s great that so many transgender people feel that fab is a safe space for them!

For females - yes it’s predominantly white - and you add to that that single women on fab are a small minority anyway - it’s very small.

As to why - I’d say it’s definitely societal and cultural attitudes - and the very different way that male and female morals are still viewed in 2020.

I know that the majority of my vanilla female relatives and friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and in my home town at large I’d be considered a slag (I am viewed that way by the minority who know my ‘hobby’ - some call me a prostitute!)

I’m aware that the younger generation are more accepting of sexually open and adventurous females - but we still have a long way to go even in our own western culture - in some cultures women would be taking a great personal risk by being on a site like this!"

100% Agree with this

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve come across quite a few.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Seems to be a very small number of non-caucasian women on here, which I find disappointing and frustrating "

Considering 86% of the UK is white, and swinging a minority activity, and single women the smallest demographic here...erm...what were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so.

Yes and no!

It certainly is for males - I’ve come across all races on here - and personally I think it’s great that so many transgender people feel that fab is a safe space for them!

For females - yes it’s predominantly white - and you add to that that single women on fab are a small minority anyway - it’s very small.

As to why - I’d say it’s definitely societal and cultural attitudes - and the very different way that male and female morals are still viewed in 2020.

I know that the majority of my vanilla female relatives and friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and in my home town at large I’d be considered a slag (I am viewed that way by the minority who know my ‘hobby’ - some call me a prostitute!)

I’m aware that the younger generation are more accepting of sexually open and adventurous females - but we still have a long way to go even in our own western culture - in some cultures women would be taking a great personal risk by being on a site like this!"

Very true!

Tickles me when ppl say fab is just about sex why should it matter....you fcuk who you fancy? If any holes a goal then nah ethnicity shouldnt matter but if youre here chasing some fantasy/preference/fetish then it certainly does. peace an love

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

There’s a podcast on BBC Sounds called Brown girls do it too. It’s interesting, not just for what they say but because the backlash the presenters have had from others about it.

Saying that you like sex and want it is often frowned upon for women, I think it might be even worse for some though

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"There’s a podcast on BBC Sounds called Brown girls do it too. It’s interesting, not just for what they say but because the backlash the presenters have had from others about it.

Saying that you like sex and want it is often frowned upon for women, I think it might be even worse for some though "

Yep 2020 and this attitude still prevails.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so."

Bingo.

I think it's often forgotten that England and Wales is 86% white.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I think most of us are very much into any colour creed or religion..

Who thinks any different...?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think most of us are very much into any colour creed or religion..

Who thinks any different...?"

I do.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Noticeably whiter than the outside world on here.

Noticeably more male, too.

Don't make the mistake of thinking the denizens of Fab in any way represent the real demographics. "

Haha indeed

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Is fab ethnically diverse?

Does it need to be? Is it ? Does it matter one way or the other? The obsession with diversity, does it need to cross everything?

Surely, anyone, any persuasion can actively join Fabs, there's no admin police saying no to specific gender's, races or sexual preferences. It is what it is, just like the members personal choices of who they find attractive and wish to meet.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

No, there ain’t enough women

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

If it’s not how could you change it ? Put adverts in the media ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome "

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John"

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why "

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?"

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It is.

The forums specifically? Not so much.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them "

Stating it is a bit odd but to have that preference is totally fine.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them "

I think people don't necessarily make statements in such detail as eye or hair colour but they certainly take such things into account when selecting partners even if they are unaware of it .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why "

Why?

There are races I do not find sexually attractive, it doesn't mean I see them as less or not worthy, sexually they are not for me. Just like I'm straight. In my 60 years I've never looked at another woman and thought "I would!"

It is what it is: personal sexual preferences don't have to be justified.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?"

My viewpoint too.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism ....... if you communicate this in a derogatory way then yes I can see the angle but not wanting someone inside you for whatever reason is valid as we have a choice. No?

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them "

This is how I look at it. You don't see profiles saying "NO BLONDES! IT'S NOT DISCRIMINATION, I HAVE A PREFERENCE!"

Fab is probably the most openly racist website I've ever frequented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, some women's preferences will be shaped by personal experience. As a woman I would imagine it hard not to stereotype if I had had a negative encounter or been mistreated.

It's also about who we do/dont find attractive. In the context of where this discussion is taking place, some couples saying they are not into certain races, is no different to me saying I don't want to be contacted by bulls or dominant guys, or women even. My body,my preference, my rules!

There is a huge, huge difference between preference and prejudice, and people should not be criticised for what they don't find attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lot of black site members left after the multitude of anti BLM threads which was sad.

That said this is a very white country regardless of what the media tell you about immigration. In England and Wales the second most widely spoken language is Welsh. Polish is a very very close third.

I'd say fab is as diverse as the country is, but that isn't a scientific statement just a casual observation.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them "

Hardly absurd. Also add in height, weigjt, physique, beard, hair, dress sense. A million things people have preference for but if you dont happen to find black or asain skin attractive you are racist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them

Hardly absurd. Also add in height, weigjt, physique, beard, hair, dress sense. A million things people have preference for but if you dont happen to find black or asain skin attractive you are racist?"

Probably a bit, yes

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London


"It's as ethnically diverse as the general population. Actually, I think it might be less so due to cultural reasons/differing attitudes towards casual sex/swinging. So no, it's not very ethnically diverse but in some areas it's more so.

Yes and no!

It certainly is for males - I’ve come across all races on here - and personally I think it’s great that so many transgender people feel that fab is a safe space for them!

For females - yes it’s predominantly white - and you add to that that single women on fab are a small minority anyway - it’s very small.

As to why - I’d say it’s definitely societal and cultural attitudes - and the very different way that male and female morals are still viewed in 2020.

I know that the majority of my vanilla female relatives and friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and in my home town at large I’d be considered a slag (I am viewed that way by the minority who know my ‘hobby’ - some call me a prostitute!)

I’m aware that the younger generation are more accepting of sexually open and adventurous females - but we still have a long way to go even in our own western culture - in some cultures women would be taking a great personal risk by being on a site like this!"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can join and participate if they are over 18... fab sets no exclusions ..so I'd say it is x

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By *istretchMan
over a year ago

leeds

Or that the op preference isn't on here which narrows it down further .

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


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Fab is probably the most openly racist website I've ever frequented."

I don't think that's right at all.

I'm a brown guy and see it just as a personal preference thing.

Also, means I don't have to waste my time with those profiles as clearly it's not going to work, so appreciate them being up front about their wants and desires.

Have had some excellent times here with some amazing people, so as the adage goes there is Def someone for everyone - just a case of clicking with the right person/people.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd say it's fairly diverse, but unfortunately it doesn't always mean that you'll find diversity within your own area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a very small number of non-caucasian women on here, which I find disappointing and frustrating "

Why do you think that is?

What should be done about it?

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"

Imagine how absurd it would sound if people stated they didn't want anyone with a certain eye colour or hair colour to contact them

Hardly absurd. Also add in height, weigjt, physique, beard, hair, dress sense. A million things people have preference for but if you dont happen to find black or asain skin attractive you are racist?

Probably a bit, yes"

Why though? You're making a presumption about someones preference running deeper than a physical attraction. Where does that stop?

Through the forums we have had some great chats with some black guys and also so older fat white guys. Both we enjoyed chatting to as the conversation was stimulating, but both we were honest that sexually they were not our thing.

Did we wronly discriminate against both or just the black guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why threads like this are a controversial,,

I wondered how long it would take for someone to throw the racist card in! I don't think we could be any more diverse cracking up!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Although it will not change minds I would direct people to what for me is the best podcast on swinging which is the "Black and Kinky Lifestyle". In one of their episodes they deal with "Entitlement" and "race" in a straightforward manner. In response to someone saying a preference is just a preference they explained as follows. Most preferences do not have a social, historic, or economic backdrop of slavery and colonialism. As much as people like to pretend these do not affect them they are there. There is a history of treatment of people who are not "white" differently that exists to today. Being colour blind is not the answer as being of different colour is integral to a person. The issue is to treat people as people and with respect and not solely as something different.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"What it lacks in ethnicity it makes up for in narcissism and desperation."

And don't forget the sycophants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say there are a lot of non-caucasian women on here in my experience.

Hidden profiles and ones that don't post on forums or join the chat rooms.

So non-caucasian (and caucasian) women, like Sinatra said, Come Out Come Out Wherever you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What it lacks in ethnicity it makes up for in narcissism and desperation.

What made you this way?

It's very sad."

Sad for......?

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Although it will not change minds I would direct people to what for me is the best podcast on swinging which is the "Black and Kinky Lifestyle". In one of their episodes they deal with "Entitlement" and "race" in a straightforward manner. In response to someone saying a preference is just a preference they explained as follows. Most preferences do not have a social, historic, or economic backdrop of slavery and colonialism. As much as people like to pretend these do not affect them they are there. There is a history of treatment of people who are not "white" differently that exists to today. Being colour blind is not the answer as being of different colour is integral to a person. The issue is to treat people as people and with respect and not solely as something different."

That's great but what if your just not attracted to black guys?

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Swinging is people’s choice whatever race or colour.if it happens to be more of one nationality or colour than the other on here that’s just the way it is. We’re all humans,and swinging is our own choice.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why "

Maybe it’s because they don’t find people from that race attractive.

Would you have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Maybe it’s because they don’t find people from that race attractive.

Would you have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?"

If people find a whole race unattractive, I'd say it's a problem

But I get that it would be a hard admission

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Sadly I would say. It is a little but not as much as people think it is

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Maybe it’s because they don’t find people from that race attractive.

Would you have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?

If people find a whole race unattractive, I'd say it's a problem

But I get that it would be a hard admission "

So you’d have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? This not being problematic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering some profiles specifying no coloured or Asian or oriental maybe they don’t feel like they are welcome

They are not racist comments but peoples own choices. So do you think that cpls and women should just have sex with people who they dont really want to so they will not be then branded racist? John

If people are dismissing a whole race then perhaps they should examine why

Maybe it’s because they don’t find people from that race attractive.

Would you have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?

If people find a whole race unattractive, I'd say it's a problem

But I get that it would be a hard admission

So you’d have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? This not being problematic?"

I didn't answer that question

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Fab is probably the most openly racist website I've ever frequented."

Do you get to see all those profiles from single white females and white couples, looking for black guys only too?

Many is the time I've been stopped in my tracks by something in a profile to the effect of "white guys will be ignored".

Do the heavily publicised Black Mans Fan Club events pander to your perceptions of racism too?

As others have said, it's down to personal preference, and everyone is entitled to their own preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is not excluding anyone

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