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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve recently cane back to the site after about a year, back then I wasn’t really looking for a meet etc more for a chat and bit of banter but now I’m back and actually wanting to jump in there and get amongst it but finding it quite difficult without being verified etc... anyone like to share any tips for starting off? Exciting times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever heard of Covid?

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still gotta get to know one another before hand! Obviously a young lad new to the scene, hoping for a few tips from the more experienced ones here hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more dick pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn’t think my dick would be the biggest selling point tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a personal suggestion from me, others may disagree, but for starters, I'd lose the pics with the girls face in them

It's great that she sucked your knob & all that, but did she give consent for you to publically share the pics on a swingers website?

Of course, she may well have but, for many, they will raise questions about consent and your levels of discretion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair play good point, find a lot of women/couples are typically older, very picky and want verified only, might have to work abit charm to convince someone for some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair play good point, find a lot of women/couples are typically older, very picky and want verified only, might have to work abit charm to convince someone for some fun "

Well you have plenty time.

Vaccine should be available for Easter

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If you move the cuddly toy in your second picture a little to the right. It’ll look like your sticking your cock up it. Women love that kind of thing on a guys profiles!!!

That’s the only thing I’d change

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Many of us look at a profile before deciding if we will reply

I can't give profile advice unless asked, but it needs some work to be appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve recently cane back to the site after about a year, back then I wasn’t really looking for a meet etc more for a chat and bit of banter but now I’m back and actually wanting to jump in there and get amongst it but finding it quite difficult without being verified etc... anyone like to share any tips for starting off? Exciting times! "

Are you are seeking advice on your profile because if you are then you will need to specifically ask for us to give you feedback or else we face getting a forum ban for passing any comment or well intentioned advice on it to you.

If you are only seeking advice on how to approach couples then the only way is to be polite, respect the relationship, don't only chat to one half of the couple, read their profile including the preferences they state and providing you fit the criteria they are seeking you should send your introductory message.

I won't comment yet on your profile....

Hope this helps for now.

Her x

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By *ippy_and_millieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

You're lacking Sky remotes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone... not too sure how my dick will compare to a sky remote but certainly a one to try hahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's poor luck that the virus is around for your return, as meets are not permitted outside of government rules. If you remain realistic in your expectations, remain positive and focused in your efforts here, it will be better than the opposite

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh god THIS! It really puts me off seeing a single man's photos with loads of different womens barely blurred faces on. Well done you got a blow job but like he said it would raise concerns for me.

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