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"I won't tell you what I think about a 23 year old posting nudes online"

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth

After a year on fab I've finally encountered someone who disagrees with people (I'm assuming young people specifically as he has cock pics up and is in his 30's) posting nudes on fab, after he messaged me on here

Anyone else got any stories to share about being shamed by a user of a swinging site for being the user of a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That took some reading and understanding!

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Still don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a year on fab I've finally encountered someone who disagrees with people (I'm assuming young people specifically as he has cock pics up and is in his 30's) posting nudes on fab, after he messaged me on here

Anyone else got any stories to share about being shamed by a user of a swinging site for being the user of a swinging site "

What did he say?

Do you feel shamed?

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"After a year on fab I've finally encountered someone who disagrees with people (I'm assuming young people specifically as he has cock pics up and is in his 30's) posting nudes on fab, after he messaged me on here

Anyone else got any stories to share about being shamed by a user of a swinging site for being the user of a swinging site "

That feels pretty hypocritical to me, and who is he to decide 23 is too young?! No, not been shamed for that so far. I'm sorry you were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

??

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"?? "

Try reading it and skip the brackets. Then add the brackets as clarification. The thread title is presumably a quote from somebody who wrote to them. The lady in the couple is 23 according to their profile.

It does make sense but you have to piece it together a bit.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I had a couple try to shame me for being too into the party side (I’d been to one party) and doing too much in what they thought was too short a time on here. I told them off for coming on a swinging site and thinking they can judge people for actually swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can only upset you if you let them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a year on fab I've finally encountered someone who disagrees with people (I'm assuming young people specifically as he has cock pics up and is in his 30's) posting nudes on fab, after he messaged me on here

Anyone else got any stories to share about being shamed by a user of a swinging site for being the user of a swinging site "

Had a guy message me - first message - to criticise the fact that as a single female I asked on my profile for men to send face pics to help me filter through the amount of messages I get. Not being big headed saying that, single girls, you know.

He was of the opinion that because my profile doesn't show my face for all to see then I shouldn't be asking interested people for face pics.

Anyway, the general tone was quite aggressive. I have numerous reasons that I want to protect my identity but I'm happy to show further pics if I'm genuinely interested in someone.

It just felt shitty that this person had gone out of their way to have a go... if you don't like something in someone's profile then just keep scrolling, why take time out of your day to start an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a year on fab I've finally encountered someone who disagrees with people (I'm assuming young people specifically as he has cock pics up and is in his 30's) posting nudes on fab, after he messaged me on here

Anyone else got any stories to share about being shamed by a user of a swinging site for being the user of a swinging site

Had a guy message me - first message - to criticise the fact that as a single female I asked on my profile for men to send face pics to help me filter through the amount of messages I get. Not being big headed saying that, single girls, you know.

He was of the opinion that because my profile doesn't show my face for all to see then I shouldn't be asking interested people for face pics.

Anyway, the general tone was quite aggressive. I have numerous reasons that I want to protect my identity but I'm happy to show further pics if I'm genuinely interested in someone.

It just felt shitty that this person had gone out of their way to have a go... if you don't like something in someone's profile then just keep scrolling, why take time out of your day to start an argument."

Take it as a compliment. Any bollocks abuse like that is a compliment.

He really wants to meet you but he can't meet your request so he's sad and lashes out like a toddler.

Imagine Donald Trump bouncing around angrily on his space hopper while asking a grown up to type a message to you. Then hopefully you won't feel shitty about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take it as a compliment. Any bollocks abuse like that is a compliment.

He really wants to meet you but he can't meet your request so he's sad and lashes out like a toddler.

Imagine Donald Trump bouncing around angrily on his space hopper while asking a grown up to type a message to you. Then hopefully you won't feel shitty about it. "

Thanks for the support. I just explained calmly that it was my perogative not to show my face if I didn't want to do so on my profile, just as it would be his to not message if he wasn't happy to share a face pic.

Just resulted in more bullshit/ tantruming so blocked. I don't come on here for hassle like that.

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