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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Agree I love faces d

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

I have face pics privates.. but I always send facepics.. I never send a dick pic unless asked (or they end up seeing because we are friends)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have face pics privates.. but I always send facepics.. I never send a dick pic unless asked (or they end up seeing because we are friends)"

But why not public?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like seeing cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Some are private and are shy

Or just want no one

Knowing what they are upto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married "

This is true, but the genuinly single ones I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people like seeing cock "

Some do but I am going with the majority

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Same reason many single ladies don't probably?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married

This is true, but the genuinly single ones I mean"

Privacy I guess

Plus they think that women on here only want cock

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"I have face pics privates.. but I always send facepics.. I never send a dick pic unless asked (or they end up seeing because we are friends)

But why not public?"

Most, like couples and single ladies dont want everyone knowing what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given most of your pics are faceless, only showing body that’s an interesting question op.

Personally I’m not one for showing off dick pics all over. I don’t have a face pic on profile but will happily provide if chatting to someone. I’m guessing though the guys that do think that is what people want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same reason many single ladies don't probably? "

Mike drop

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere


"I have face pics privates.. but I always send facepics.. I never send a dick pic unless asked (or they end up seeing because we are friends)

But why not public?"

For privacy mainly i suppose. Didnt think I was in the minority on that front?

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere


"I have face pics privates.. but I always send facepics.. I never send a dick pic unless asked (or they end up seeing because we are friends)

But why not public?

Most, like couples and single ladies dont want everyone knowing what they look like"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t get anywhere with your face on display there’s no where to go from that, but if it’s just your cock then at least you can think, well that’s only a small part of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show my face if a meet is likely. oddly enough I haven't had to yet..

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Mostly down to privacy and not getting recognised the same as the vast majority of ladies and couples.

Personally my face is on public view as Im not fussed although my dick pic is private to leave something to the imagination

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Most of my private pics are face pics...

I dont have them on public....because I dont want the world and her mother knowing my buisness....I've no problem sending a face pic

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm happy to show my face. I've got that much make up on that I'd be hard to recognise and so don't have to worry about someone coming up to me in life and asking if I'm really into fisting, etc

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Due to my job (security) I can't put my face up. You would not miss much anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to show my face. I've got that much make up on that I'd be hard to recognise and so don't have to worry about someone coming up to me in life and asking if I'm really into fisting, etc "

That’d be awkward at the checkout in Asda!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I'd rather people not know I was on a swingers/sex website. I'd like my private life to remain just that.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'm happy to show my face. I've got that much make up on that I'd be hard to recognise and so don't have to worry about someone coming up to me in life and asking if I'm really into fisting, etc

That’d be awkward at the checkout in Asda! "

Marrow, cucumber, large bananas, eh? I thought I knew you from Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always shown my face...J prefers to keep his in our private gallery...to avoid any awkward situations at work

Lu

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By *xperience huntingMan
over a year ago

where

Personally I don’t have a face pic on show because of my job. I’m a teacher and as such if parents were to see me and or take offence to my sexual proclivity then report me I’d be sacked and unable to teach again.there’s actual standards about conduct and demeanour. I know it’s frequently said on here about due to job and is usually treated with contempt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many reasons or no apparent reason. just like you not showing where you live or your friend list.

I am sure if you ask they will show their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a face picture public because, if you reverse Google searched me, you'd find out about my modelling career - mainly for watches and suits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating bastards

Privacy

Ugly

Mystery... Ooooh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather people not know I was on a swingers/sex website. I'd like my private life to remain just that."

I thought it was pretty obvious that Tinder isn't the same as a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same reason many single ladies don't probably? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those who reference women and couples, here is how I see it.

For women, being recognised in real life from being on a sex site can have a very negative effect, for harrassment purposes.

Couples, because I can understand why they would not want friends and family knowing what they do.

However, in society, it is generally accepted men use sites like tinder for sex and no fuss is made and they dont get harrassed for it.

This is based on majorities and yes there as some with different circumstances.

Also, many more women have naughty photos up so don't want their face associated with them, and they do so because people love to see womens wobbly bits. However, majority of women moan about the abundance of cocks and prefer faces

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I don’t have a face pic on show because of my job. I’m a teacher and as such if parents were to see me and or take offence to my sexual proclivity then report me I’d be sacked and unable to teach again.there’s actual standards about conduct and demeanour. I know it’s frequently said on here about due to job and is usually treated with contempt "

This one I understand

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"Those who reference women and couples, here is how I see it.

For women, being recognised in real life from being on a sex site can have a very negative effect, for harrassment purposes.

Couples, because I can understand why they would not want friends and family knowing what they do.

However, in society, it is generally accepted men use sites like tinder for sex and no fuss is made and they dont get harrassed for it.

This is based on majorities and yes there as some with different circumstances.

Also, many more women have naughty photos up so don't want their face associated with them, and they do so because people love to see womens wobbly bits. However, majority of women moan about the abundance of cocks and prefer faces"

You have a face pic public....have you been approached in public about being on a sex site?some people have absolutely no clue....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Given most of your pics are faceless, only showing body that’s an interesting question op.

Personally I’m not one for showing off dick pics all over. I don’t have a face pic on profile but will happily provide if chatting to someone. I’m guessing though the guys that do think that is what people want to see."

Myself, my reason is photo theft, I keep face ones public for about 24hrs, but have previously had lots stolen and posted over twitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

"

Amen!

But I’ve only just started putting face pics up myself, so maybe I shouldn’t throw stones. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not to scare folk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Willie is much prettier than my face

On a serious note. I used to have mine on profile, send to women and couples along with random messages. This was when I first joined and was like a kid and a candy shop. Maybe it's the same for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here

Why? "

I'd assume he's kinda brash about his sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have the face that launched a thousand blocks.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

There are just as many couples and single female profiles without visible face pics too.

I used to have mine visible when on previously, this time I decided to do it differently.

Besides, if you saw my face I would never receive a message again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here

Why?

I'd assume he's kinda brash about his sex life"

And probably indiscreet, telling the whole town about who he's shagging.

Same with anyone showing face pics publicly.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

"

M had friends only face pics that he used to send out with first messages.

Apparently Admin asked him to stop due to the number of members going UNLOS afterwards.

Tina Titz write a screen insurance policy for him.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because 95% of men on here are attached.

Also most men use this as a nothing to lose shag site.

Theres no reason to be public on here as there's enough desperate girls on here who'd shag anything and enough narcissistic girls who enjoy the attention, no matter how misguided it is.

Happy to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because 95% of men on here are attached.

Also most men use this as a nothing to lose shag site.

Theres no reason to be public on here as there's enough desperate girls on here who'd shag anything and enough narcissistic girls who enjoy the attention, no matter how misguided it is.

Happy to help."

You must be drowning in clunge.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The difference between Tinder and Fab is that this is a more overtly sexual site. Being on here means looking for sex, or at least that's how it would come across to the casual observer. There are exceptions of course but that won't necessarily be understood by somebody who doesn't look into your motives.

On Tinder you can look for sex and/or relationships. If you are just looking for sex on Tinder you can present plausible deniability by at least claiming you are looking for a relationship. I am told many men present themselves on Tinder as looking for relationships, when actually they want sex, because that's what their target audience commonly wants.

Sex is still considered something to be pointed out and sniggered at in our society, or worse (see the comment of the teacher above). It gets commented and reported on. Relationships are presented as good, whereas looking for sex purely for pleasure can be pounced on as an indicator of sexual deviance. It may not be right, but that's how it is.

Being visually identifiable of Tinder is a completely different kettle of fish to the same on Fab because of the associations that go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between Tinder and Fab is that this is a more overtly sexual site. Being on here means looking for sex, or at least that's how it would come across to the casual observer. There are exceptions of course but that won't necessarily be understood by somebody who doesn't look into your motives.

On Tinder you can look for sex and/or relationships. If you are just looking for sex on Tinder you can present plausible deniability by at least claiming you are looking for a relationship. I am told many men present themselves on Tinder as looking for relationships, when actually they want sex, because that's what their target audience commonly wants.

Sex is still considered something to be pointed out and sniggered at in our society, or worse (see the comment of the teacher above). It gets commented and reported on. Relationships are presented as good, whereas looking for sex purely for pleasure can be pounced on as an indicator of sexual deviance. It may not be right, but that's how it is.

Being visually identifiable of Tinder is a completely different kettle of fish to the same on Fab because of the associations that go with it. "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s cause Mary loves Dick

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm sorry Ivy, but your reasoning seems to me to just be perpetuating the stereotype that a lot of women on here are entitled and demanding. All of the reasons that you put forward as acceptable for women and couples to not have face pictures up are also perfectly valid for men. Plus any other reason that anyone personally has for not wanting to have a face picture on public display.

I've never had a man refuse to send me a face pic when I've asked, although I don't need to ask in the majority of cases as they send one anyway.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"I'm sorry Ivy, but your reasoning seems to me to just be perpetuating the stereotype that a lot of women on here are entitled and demanding. All of the reasons that you put forward as acceptable for women and couples to not have face pictures up are also perfectly valid for men. Plus any other reason that anyone personally has for not wanting to have a face picture on public display.

I've never had a man refuse to send me a face pic when I've asked, although I don't need to ask in the majority of cases as they send one anyway."

I've def sent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither.

As a married man with my wife’s knowledge of my fab profile I have displayed my face occasionally and have had an influx of messages immediately.

The only reason I do understand is that of people with high school age children who could potentially be bullied if it became common knowledge that their parents are swingers.

If I’m actively interested in meeting someone new I display mine, it’s the best way to attract people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because we're mingers

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I've got to the point where I don't care anymore. So my face is on my profile

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I get both my face and my penis out at random times on public.

I like to give visitors an exciting sense of dread; like a proper "What's this weirdo showing today?" kinda vibe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sorry Ivy, but your reasoning seems to me to just be perpetuating the stereotype that a lot of women on here are entitled and demanding. All of the reasons that you put forward as acceptable for women and couples to not have face pictures up are also perfectly valid for men. Plus any other reason that anyone personally has for not wanting to have a face picture on public display.

I've never had a man refuse to send me a face pic when I've asked, although I don't need to ask in the majority of cases as they send one anyway."

I am not demanding anything though lol, it was a genuine question not a request

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure why some are being arsy over a genuine question lol.

I was asking why, not saying they have to

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

I have mine in my public pics, but as it’s nit a traditional dating style site I keep it off the main pic (don’t want to scare the newbies away).

I wouldn’t be avers to changing it but if work colleagues or one of my kids saw it I would be a little embarrassed.

That’s my reason, good question though.

Also my cock just won’t smile for the camera so that’s not appearing at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them aren't single Ivy - or embarrassed about being on here.

I don't have public face pictures because I don't want to get publicly approached- but I'm sure a lot of men would love that

If they were single ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of them aren't single Ivy - or embarrassed about being on here.

I don't have public face pictures because I don't want to get publicly approached- but I'm sure a lot of men would love that

If they were single ....

"

Not really, there's enough blokes on here who ignore profile preferences, I wouldn't want to get approached by them in public either.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"Most of them aren't single Ivy - or embarrassed about being on here.

I don't have public face pictures because I don't want to get publicly approached- but I'm sure a lot of men would love that

If they were single ....

"

Double standards

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"I'm sorry Ivy, but your reasoning seems to me to just be perpetuating the stereotype that a lot of women on here are entitled and demanding. All of the reasons that you put forward as acceptable for women and couples to not have face pictures up are also perfectly valid for men. Plus any other reason that anyone personally has for not wanting to have a face picture on public display.

I've never had a man refuse to send me a face pic when I've asked, although I don't need to ask in the majority of cases as they send one anyway.

I am not demanding anything though lol, it was a genuine question not a request"

I didn't say you was, I just said that to me your question could be seen as enforcing that stereotype. Why question just single men? Why not ladies, couples, TV/TS's, aliens...whatever other life forms there are on here? The reasoning will be the same regardless of who it is, and that's whatever personal justification they have for wanting to keep their identity private on a public platform.

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Western isles

I always send mine but like to do it on kik you can’t fake a live pic there but plenty of fake female profiles on fab. And also I like to do it that way as profiles have appeared with my face pic on then before so it’s just preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of them aren't single Ivy - or embarrassed about being on here.

I don't have public face pictures because I don't want to get publicly approached- but I'm sure a lot of men would love that

If they were single ....

Double standards"

Yes it is - but it's true.

Actual single men on here are a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cus not allowed to show it on tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here

Why?

I'd assume he's kinda brash about his sex life

And probably indiscreet, telling the whole town about who he's shagging.

Same with anyone showing face pics publicly."

And there was me thinking we didn't like sweeping generalisations here... I show my face, I will talk about my sex life if conversation is going that way, not talking about this kinda of stuff leads to too many shit storms on too many levels... Make it normal... BUT! I am not indiscreet about who I encounter though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry Ivy, but your reasoning seems to me to just be perpetuating the stereotype that a lot of women on here are entitled and demanding. All of the reasons that you put forward as acceptable for women and couples to not have face pictures up are also perfectly valid for men. Plus any other reason that anyone personally has for not wanting to have a face picture on public display.

I've never had a man refuse to send me a face pic when I've asked, although I don't need to ask in the majority of cases as they send one anyway.

I am not demanding anything though lol, it was a genuine question not a request

I didn't say you was, I just said that to me your question could be seen as enforcing that stereotype. Why question just single men? Why not ladies, couples, TV/TS's, aliens...whatever other life forms there are on here? The reasoning will be the same regardless of who it is, and that's whatever personal justification they have for wanting to keep their identity private on a public platform.

"

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't want to see my "special" cock pic.

It scares people.

It has a girl's face on the helmet and is wearing a bikini

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather people not know I was on a swingers/sex website. I'd like my private life to remain just that.

I thought it was pretty obvious that Tinder isn't the same as a sex site. "

No? Howcome all the single fellas on here whine about getting more sex on there n Pof? I think alot of them see websites with any women on as a potential sex site tbh, they can manipulate those women with the hope of more though.

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I'd rather people not know I was on a swingers/sex website. I'd like my private life to remain just that.

I thought it was pretty obvious that Tinder isn't the same as a sex site.

No? Howcome all the single fellas on here whine about getting more sex on there n Pof? I think alot of them see websites with any women on as a potential sex site tbh, they can manipulate those women with the hope of more though. "

I haven’t attempted any of the normal dating sites, they terrify me!

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"Most of them aren't single Ivy - or embarrassed about being on here.

I don't have public face pictures because I don't want to get publicly approached- but I'm sure a lot of men would love that

If they were single ....

Double standards

Yes it is - but it's true.

Actual single men on here are a minority."

Really....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely I'll happily put my face on Tinder, but won't say on there that I only want casual sex. There's not really any stigma to being seen on there as it's under the guise of dating, which everyone's cool with. In an ideal word I'd combine the two sites and we'd all have our faces and intentions in the same place, but I can get why people (any gender) don't want both out there for all to see, as I don't either

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We're not all like that.

You won't even find a cock pic in my friends section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Conversely I'll happily put my face on Tinder, but won't say on there that I only want casual sex. There's not really any stigma to being seen on there as it's under the guise of dating, which everyone's cool with. In an ideal word I'd combine the two sites and we'd all have our faces and intentions in the same place, but I can get why people (any gender) don't want both out there for all to see, as I don't either "

Yep, I await such a site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s probably because they have private lives and would like to keep it like that, there’s a lot of people on here who want this to be kept a secret for them to enjoy when they feel like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here"

So basically men can’t win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a stigma attached to being on a swinging site (even for single men)

There is a stigma attached to being a bi-male

That's before we go down the lines of their presence here potentially affecting their work life

Some guys don't need the grief / banter / ridicule that goes with being 'outed'

And for what?

Just because you show your face publically, doesn't mean you're going to get any attention any time sooner

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I work in a pretty toxic work environment where if the fact I was on this site became common knowledge, I would be subject to abuse and possibly interference with seeing my children from my ex...

Having my face pics private so I can send them to who I want rather than being available for everyone to view minimises this risk greatly

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

"

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage "

Yet you always come back.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me"

Some men are just greedy in they want their cake and eat it but some of us are just looking for something we never get at home

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back. "

What do you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back.

What do you mean "

No idea.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back.

What do you mean

No idea. "

Who you or me who has no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back.

What do you mean "

Let’s have a think, is if anything to do with your username per chance ?!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back.

What do you mean

Let’s have a think, is if anything to do with your username per chance ?!"

It will come to him in a minute.

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By *beefMan
over a year ago

Long eaton

im single and have face pics just seem to get more attention if any on my other pics haha

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

Most of the single men aren’t really single their married and hiding from potential discovery so no one who knows them can report back to his wife.

I’m married but have my reasons for being on here. My wife thinks it’s normal to have sex once a year if I’m lucky (we’ve not had sex since august last year) and she won’t let me touch her in a sexual or flirty way ie grab her from behind arms around her waist and kiss her neck and it’s been like this for nearly all our marriage

Yet you always come back.

What do you mean

Let’s have a think, is if anything to do with your username per chance ?!"

No I couldn’t think of a username at the time but a friend had just come back from a five week trip down under and brought me back a boomerang which was on my end table when making my profile lol

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By *enuine horny guyMan
over a year ago

barnstaple

Im happy to send a face picture, doesn't do me any good on here lol. Yet in the real world I think I'm considered handsome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here

Why?

I'd assume he's kinda brash about his sex life

And probably indiscreet, telling the whole town about who he's shagging.

Same with anyone showing face pics publicly.

And there was me thinking we didn't like sweeping generalisations here... I show my face, I will talk about my sex life if conversation is going that way, not talking about this kinda of stuff leads to too many shit storms on too many levels... Make it normal... BUT! I am not indiscreet about who I encounter though! "

I said probably. Most not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather people not know I was on a swingers/sex website. I'd like my private life to remain just that.

I thought it was pretty obvious that Tinder isn't the same as a sex site.

No? Howcome all the single fellas on here whine about getting more sex on there n Pof? I think alot of them see websites with any women on as a potential sex site tbh, they can manipulate those women with the hope of more though. "

A lot of men see any situation as an opportunity for sex. If she looks his way in Tesco she wants to shag him. If she flashes her ankles while walking down the street she wants to shag him.

No idea why going home with someone after a night on the piss or lying about wanting a relationship on a dating site to get sex is considered 'ok' by the general public, but being on a site like this is terribly perverted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s probably because that’s all they are...A cock.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I can’t because of my job and as I’m not remotely interested in meeting at the moment I’m not showing anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, I'd avoid a guy with his face visible on his profile here"

Thank fuck for that

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me"

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me"
I’ve been caught out I take it that was a post in jest ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E"

Agreed, an absurd statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E"

l

Tbf I have no face pics, also shifty, my partner is under the patio and I too have not had a covid jab so the lady may be onto something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to start a go fund me page for Ivy, we can then pay the developers for a 'No face pic' filter.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going to start a go fund me page for Ivy, we can then pay the developers for a 'No face pic' filter. "

Thanks, so kind of you

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

El

Tbf I have no face pics, also shifty, my partner is under the patio and I too have not had a covid jab so the lady may be onto something "

Blocked.

E

*Not really.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

Agreed, an absurd statement "

By that rationale, the only person the OP would meet is a 90 year old lady from Coventry because she's the only one we know for sure who's had the jab.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

Agreed, an absurd statement

By that rationale, the only person the OP would meet is a 90 year old lady from Coventry because she's the only one we know for sure who's had the jab.

E"

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

Agreed, an absurd statement

By that rationale, the only person the OP would meet is a 90 year old lady from Coventry because she's the only one we know for sure who's had the jab.

E"

It wasn't the OP that said about the covid jab though

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married "

Haha exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my private pics are face pics...

I dont have them on public....because I dont want the world and her mother knowing my buisness....I've no problem sending a face pic"

Exactly this...

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

Agreed, an absurd statement

By that rationale, the only person the OP would meet is a 90 year old lady from Coventry because she's the only one we know for sure who's had the jab.

E

It wasn't the OP that said about the covid jab though"

I was referring to the OP that made the statement, not the OP OP.

E

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Anyone fancy a shag?

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Anyone fancy a shag? "

I was going to put the tea on, but you've changed my mind you smooth talking bastard.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag? "

Do you have a cock pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

El

Tbf I have no face pics, also shifty, my partner is under the patio and I too have not had a covid jab so the lady may be onto something

Blocked.

E

*Not really. "

That's ok, I am on many a list for reasons which remain nefarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

E

Agreed, an absurd statement

By that rationale, the only person the OP would meet is a 90 year old lady from Coventry because she's the only one we know for sure who's had the jab.

E

It wasn't the OP that said about the covid jab though

I was referring to the OP that made the statement, not the OP OP.

E"

Is the OP OP the Co-OP?

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"no face pic tells me they are shifty, probably partnered and defo wouldn't accept that they've had the covid jab. Almost instant block from me

I think I've heard it all now.

No face pic means they've not had a Covid jab.

El

Tbf I have no face pics, also shifty, my partner is under the patio and I too have not had a covid jab so the lady may be onto something

Blocked.

E

*Not really.

That's ok, I am on many a list for reasons which remain nefarious "

*taps nose

E

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Anyone fancy a shag?

Do you have a cock pic?"

I don't have a sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

"

I have loads of private ones. I sense lot of fake people stealing identity don’t want to loose any. Even my fb account has no face pic. No dating app account at all

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Same reason many single ladies don't probably? "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same reason many single ladies don't probably?

Yep "

Finally so sweet of you to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys don't show their faces instead of their willies on here.

Loads of people obviously prefer face photos, you would stand out more and if you would show it on tinder looking for a shag why not on here??

"

I know

it's because if you show your face like me,you get no action from women

I have lost 6 inches round my waist since my pics were took and could easy just show my bod and whip out my whopper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ssshhhhhh

Mostly because they’re married

This is true, but the genuinly single ones I mean

Privacy I guess

Plus they think that women on here only want cock "

What else that site has been design for lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beauty of Fab- you’ll allowed to show pics of whatever parts of you, you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The beauty of Fab- you’ll allowed to show pics of whatever parts of you, you wish "

True. As long as it's a body part. A particularly nice almond croissant though...no chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be mortified if anyone i knew in real life recognised me on here lol.. I have enough judgement already in my life. It's nice to be able to come in here and just be free to be me.. So i don't generally exchange photos.. I also prefer not to see them either. I'm ok with a bit of mystery

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

You can’t win. I put up a face pic and got told I looked a right cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face isn’t public because of who I work for and what I do.

I will usually attach a face pic when messaging first though so you can see who is contacting you.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I never show my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it. Some people prefer privacy and discretion. And not necessarily because of anything sinister. I don't get why some find that hard to understand. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have face pics on the site because I don't feel comfortable with everyone being able to see my face, it's not due to work or being married just that I am self conscious, I would provide pics for anyone I was chatting with if we form a good connection.

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