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Dirty talk - let's discuss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Forumites.

So I've been thinking.

There are words like slut and bitch that a guy can call a woman during sex,

(providing this has been agreed beforehand that the lady actually LIKES such words used and they aren't triggers for her!)

but dirty talk for a female to call a man is tougher to find the right words.

There is Bastard & Fucker that spring to mind.

If you put Dirty or filthy in front of those it may add to it.

I am just wondering ladies what type of things do you say to your partner in the heat of the moment?

Will you have talked to him about those kind of words BEFORE you play? ( men can get triggered too!!)

And guys what do you LIKE to be called during giving your babe a hard pounding?

This will obviously differ with each persons dynamic.

If you are more of a B.D.S.M loving couple, the words may be connected more to that lifestyle.

Would putting the word MY in front of filthy little slut make you girls go gooey at the knees instead of just hearing "filthy little slut" when being fucked.

For me, I know it would.

I am interested to hear your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care much for any of that

It would all seem a bit too contrived

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

As a single guy I think just the lady saying my name is hot.

Appreciate in a couple this may be weirder as you wouldn’t necessarily call each by your name often due to pet names.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Fuck me, you dirty fucker

They respond with....I am!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care much for any of that

It would all seem a bit too contrived "

Keep talking!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Fuck me, you dirty fucker

They respond with....I am!!!!! "

Lol

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t over think it, the best dirty I have experienced both saying and hearing has been spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arent into it personally unless it's part of some scene or role play. Does nothing for either of us a the couple we are. Done it before though and even then I could take it or leave it, whomever was on the receiving end.

J

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By *adlad65Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I enjoy hearing what the lady thinks, regardless of whether it's derogatory or not. Either way it really spurs me on. It's when you hear swearing, or a tone of voice that is never used anywhere else that I find so exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my name is enough for me. Either that or 'baby'.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

If Jo calls me D during sex I go wild but as for ‘calling’ me names we have never tried it I don’t think I am now intrigued!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the moment is right then great, he's my bitch.

Love filthy talk with the right person.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Me lord, Your highness or Batman"

Work perfectly aswell hahaha

Lol pmsl only joking I couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is different for a guy I guess, I usually just end up swearing at them. The more I cuss, the more I'm enjoying it

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It is different for a guy I guess, I usually just end up swearing at them. The more I cuss, the more I'm enjoying it "

.. now that's a turn on .. love it !... The more I get of this... I up my speed and penetration depth

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Simon and Tara is a perfect example of it going wrong.

Tara wants to try it so nervously says a few words and Simon responds with the classic

I'm going to f..k your f..king fanny off, you twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get 'Are you nearly there?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get 'Are you nearly there?' "

this made me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is different for a guy I guess, I usually just end up swearing at them. The more I cuss, the more I'm enjoying it "

That is my concern I think.

I don't call people names or cuss them in my day to day life, and even when I argue this is not my style. So calling someone I care about such derogatory terms during the times we are most connected does seem indeed alien!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I usually get 'Are you nearly there?' "

I hope you reply not yet but I'm going to try thinking of your mum/sister/friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it Its another part of sexuality to explore and it can be so hot when someone just lets go and speaks like that spontaneously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like "I fucking love your cock" that always make me thrust a bit deeper.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We absolutely love it. It’s such a raw and primal thing. You kind of become possessed and end up carried away into a dark and pleasurable role play. So fucking hot. Woah, gotta take a cold shower now lol.

Ed

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Im happy when they call me bastard it means I am doing something right and makes me laugh.

I agree there are more names/labels you can use as the top/penetrating partner (slut, whore, toy etc.) than as the bottom. The ones I see/hear the most from that aspect is “Daddy”, followed by something about/involving their cock.

Dirty talk is an art form, with most people attempting it being the equivalent of finger painting at school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm rubbish at this just makes me

Laugh x

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