FabSwingers.com forum: looked at me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all. if an experienced member of fabs (who would know about the privacy settings available) looked at your profile and it showed up on your 'looked at me page', would that be an indication that they might like you to contact them. or am i thinking too much into it. i am pretty new to fabs an still getting to grips with its in's and out's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think they looked....n decided nah. If they had looked n liked wouldnt they have contacted? Tho hey....what do I know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _iews on this is if someone looks at you and does not mail you its because they have no interest in you

If they wanted to chat surely they would at least send you a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no they looked at you to see if they might be interested. if they didn't contact you the chances are you aren't for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get some people who look on a daily basis. Never contacted us, just keep looking lol. We just think it's quite interesting, we don't take it seriously.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No to me it would mean the oppisite, if they looked at your profile but didnt contact you, there was obviously something that didnt match with them.

Also you have to open someones profile to read whats on there. For example if i decided to look at your profile now to have a nosey, it would show up i looked at your profile

Dont think about those that have looked but show no interest concentrate on the ones that message you

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Don't read too much into the looked at me page

People browse and look at profiles all the time,you don't know if theres any interest until you've looked at a profile anyway

But if you like the look of them theres nothing to stop you sending a message

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"hi all. if an experienced member of fabs (who would know about the privacy settings available) looked at your profile and it showed up on your 'looked at me page', would that be an indication that they might like you to contact them. or am i thinking too much into it. i am pretty new to fabs an still getting to grips with its in's and out's

It's free to message and wink. If someone's interested they'd contact you, so yes, you're reading too much into it.

Welcome and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My _iews on this is if someone looks at you and does not mail you its because they have no interest in you

If they wanted to chat surely they would at least send you a wink"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Don't read too much into the looked at me page

People browse and look at profiles all the time,you don't know if theres any interest until you've looked at a profile anyway

But if you like the look of them theres nothing to stop you sending a message"

welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means nothing and should be taken that way.

People who want to contact you will contact you full stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't forget that if you fabbed their pic it's likely they'll click on your profile. Still means nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily. Plenty of folk look at my profile that I reckon aren't interested in knocking boots, though a lot of them are and either let me know about it or look five times or so in a day, after which if I happen to have checked this function and I find them appealing, I make contact if they haven't already.

Reasons can range from;-

-I've made a post in the forums that intrigues them and they are curious about what the poster is like.

-I've met people that they want to meet, and they want to know what that person's "type" is to weigh up their own chances.

-They are simply bored and having a butchers to pass the time.

-They have clicked on my username or avatar by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I took notice at the looked at me page I would have to conclusion that I'm a cock magnet. But even they don't message me.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they have just joined 9 mins ago and they are in the USA ... usually on your blocked list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of good answers here - if someone looks at your profile a few times it may be worth a short message such as ' thanks for looking at my profile , couldn't help noticing you looked a few times ' or wink them as they may be nervous - worth a try !

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

"Reasons can range from;-

-I've made a post in the forums that intrigues them and they are curious about what the poster is like.

-I've met people that they want to meet, and they want to know what that person's "type" is to weigh up their own chances.

-They are simply bored and having a butchers to pass the time.

-They have clicked on my username or avatar by mistake."

or they are just have a damn good perve at the pics.....

not that I do this....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all. thanks for everyone that replied with your input. i appreciate it. i think i wont read too much into it.

phoistte

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Are you a West Ham fan ?

Don't read too much into it, you'll get a feel of how it works before long.

Have fun and enjoy. I used to love Kilkenny beer mmm mmmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

haha, if you enjoyed kilkenny beer you had some constitution. thanks for reply

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

No worries, you didn,t answer the question though

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By *weetcheekstooWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"I would think they looked....n decided nah. If they had looked n liked wouldnt they have contacted? Tho hey....what do I know lol

agree with you there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no im not a hammer. i dont really follow anyone. ill be keeping an eye on liverpool this year though to see how brendan rogers gets on. id like to see him do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

USE it..itsa a tool....msg them otherwise...what the fuck ya got to lose???

its a tool designed by fab, like winks, like fabbing pics..ignore much of what anyone else says...ppl LOOK...but wont make the first move.

Ive gained some meets from looking at who checked me out(by obviously messaging them)..regardless if they mailed me or not.

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