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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age... "

Far from it x

Plenty of us in the same situation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age... "

I'm not lonely, but I enjoy being on my own. If you ever want to chat I will always answer. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lonely people about unfortunately.

I am not great around new people and don't make friends easily.

It is nice you have your family around you though

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I'm certainly in the same situation!

Happy to chat though, but sort of awkward, I suppose. A bit of an odd one, "takes some getting used to" maybe.

Up for chatting and being friends, anyway! Can never have too many friends

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone..."

I’ve been wfh for 12 months now after a bit of surgery before March lockdown..

Can be really hard ... can’t wait to get back to the office x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt lonely when I was alone..

But when I started to know my self I stopped to moan..

Let’s start and try to open us with free..

While we step up in to others life and start to live spree...

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I was and still in the same boat as I worked permanent nights and nearly every weekend for 32 years since I left school and ended up drifting away from all my mates and friends. And now I’m nearly 50 some of the people I used to know are now either married with kids and grandchildren, moved away or now dead

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

Lol! I literally came on here tonight to post a thread saying I was lonely. But I backed out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol! I literally came on here tonight to post a thread saying I was lonely. But I backed out... "

Sometimes you just gotta get it out there. Lol xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone..."

I'm the same really with work.

Luc

Fortunately I live with family so I'm never completely alone.

I kmow people who are and it gets a bit much!

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks


"Lol! I literally came on here tonight to post a thread saying I was lonely. But I backed out... "

But I can't message you directly cos your settings won't let me.

I'm gonna relax my settings for 30 mins. Feel free to get in touch x

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I get to spend half the week with my son, but then he goes to his dad's and I'm alone in a house. Bored. Cuddles. Chats. Heck even sitting in silence just knowing someone is there.

Someone on the other end of a phon when you've had a hard day, or want to share some funny stories, good news. I wish I had someone to do that with.

I saw a post a few days ago on social media that said: if you died, which 6 friends would carry the coffin. People joked about a best friend pushing it along the ground alone. When I realised I didn't even have that, it really hit home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone..."

I use to love alone time but now I'm actually he opposite because of lockdown

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks


"Lol! I literally came on here tonight to post a thread saying I was lonely. But I backed out...

But I can't message you directly cos your settings won't let me.

I'm gonna relax my settings for 30 mins. Feel free to get in touch x

"

Done. Hit me up for fun times moaning about how everything has gone to shit and dreaming of happier days ahead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get to spend half the week with my son, but then he goes to his dad's and I'm alone in a house. Bored. Cuddles. Chats. Heck even sitting in silence just knowing someone is there.

Someone on the other end of a phon when you've had a hard day, or want to share some funny stories, good news. I wish I had someone to do that with.

I saw a post a few days ago on social media that said: if you died, which 6 friends would carry the coffin. People joked about a best friend pushing it along the ground alone. When I realised I didn't even have that, it really hit home"

Hopefully u can find someone or a few people on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is open if you’d like a chat it’s been a hard year for a lot of people in so many ways x hugs x

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"My inbox is open if you’d like a chat it’s been a hard year for a lot of people in so many ways x hugs x"

I will also open this offer up. Anyone needing to chat, vent, or just make a new friend, I'm here and craving the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone..."

Totally with you on that, I'm doing alternate weeks and it kills me as work is only place I'm in the company of others so I struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone...

Totally with you on that, I'm doing alternate weeks and it kills me as work is only place I'm in the company of others so I struggle. "

I’ve been away from the office for almost 12 months now.. dying to get back to work for the interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age... "

Definitely looking like not the only one

It’s good to know.

It definitely has its pros and cons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone...

Totally with you on that, I'm doing alternate weeks and it kills me as work is only place I'm in the company of others so I struggle.

I’ve been away from the office for almost 12 months now.. dying to get back to work for the interaction "

I bet you are!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Bored and lonely bored it's ok having friends but these friends of mine wouldn't understand the concept of sites like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like alone time too. Lockdown really changed that. Working from home and not having even the idle chit chat at the office really hit me. Didn't realise how much I craved that human interaction til it was gone...

Totally with you on that, I'm doing alternate weeks and it kills me as work is only place I'm in the company of others so I struggle.

I’ve been away from the office for almost 12 months now.. dying to get back to work for the interaction

I bet you are! "

Ohh Matron..

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age... "

I know exactly where you're coming from. It's not as rare as you would think.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I get to spend half the week with my son, but then he goes to his dad's and I'm alone in a house. Bored. Cuddles. Chats. Heck even sitting in silence just knowing someone is there.

Someone on the other end of a phon when you've had a hard day, or want to share some funny stories, good news. I wish I had someone to do that with.

I saw a post a few days ago on social media that said: if you died, which 6 friends would carry the coffin. People joked about a best friend pushing it along the ground alone. When I realised I didn't even have that, it really hit home"

That is such a dad thought x

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Maybe a strange one for a swingers site but this is something I struggle with.

I'm an awkward person with no friends (and I am not exaggerating). My friends are my family but what I really need is a honest and kind friend. Someone to just chill with, chat with, hang out with, someone open minded about this lifestyle who won't judge, so I thought... why not try here.

Surely I'm not the only one lonely in this day and age... "

You aremt Trust me

Hang in there

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I'm sure that a lot of people are feeling more lonely than usual especially with all that's happened this year.

I live on my own but do like my own company. However, happy to just chat with anyone that thinks that it would help them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP....you're not the only one and your words and sentiments are not unfamiliar to me. I have made friends here and there is no reason why you won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally understand where you are coming from OP and this is such a difficult time as well.

Normally if I was feeling lonely I would maybe join a club or go to a coffee morning or something similar but at the moment this just isn't an option.

Just remember this will not last forever even though it feels like it at the moment, And even though feel alone you are not alone.

My inbox is open if you ever fancy a chat.

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By *tuMcMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I am always here to chat, I feel the same as well.

It’s not just about trying to get in someone’s pants we can also help each other.

If anyone wants to drop me a message I am all for that

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Well OP join the club think I'm the original Billy no mates, if you fancy a chat with a boring old man just jump in my box

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

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