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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For decent guys to get their message's through to people on here, I know single males have always outnumbered the rest on here but lately its just getting ridiculous. All that happens is the decent guys stop sending thought out and messages as they dont ever get seen and end up leaving, same as the single ladies and couples that get sick of the crap and rude messages

Just ruins it for everyone

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Most of the other women I know on here prefer to do their own hunting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the other women I know on here prefer to do their own hunting"

Well yeah I get that, I'm sure it's much easier that way for them. But even then there's soooo much choice haha

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

People do reply if they are interested or want to if they don't they are not interested plain and simple. Nice claimed to be nice or not nice someone has to have an attraction to make them want to reply.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Suck it up OP, it's been like that since I joined the site and I doubt it will change.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

You have a fair amount of veris so should not grumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, should all the other blokes bugger off so you get a better look in?

Or, are you volunteering to leave to level things up a bit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, should all the other blokes bugger off so you get a better look in?

Or, are you volunteering to leave to level things up a bit? "

Just you please

Joking, but I mean more like all the fakes and unveried people, I don't think you should be able to join until you're at least photo veried you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a fair amount of veris so should not grumble."

It doesn't matter how many veris I have lol, I'm not the sort of person to keep count of things like that, I'm just saying surely its annoying for woman and couples getting a thousand messages a day and 950 of them say f$%k now? I see plenty of statuses about it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a fair amount of veris so should not grumble.

It doesn't matter how many veris I have lol, I'm not the sort of person to keep count of things like that, I'm just saying surely its annoying for woman and couples getting a thousand messages a day and 950 of them say f$%k now? I see plenty of statuses about it haha "

Not photo verified + no pics = no reply + delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, should all the other blokes bugger off so you get a better look in?

Or, are you volunteering to leave to level things up a bit?

Just you please

Joking, but I mean more like all the fakes and unveried people, I don't think you should be able to join until you're at least photo veried you know?"

Trust me, my presence here is as unthreatening as it gets

I'm rarely interested in meeting and in the current situation, even less interested

I could ask a handful of people for veris based purely on my previous incarnations here, but it seems (to me at least) as a little unnecessary right now

I do take your point on photo veris but, honestly, I don't see things changing - as with the clubs, guys here are something of a business need

Rather than complaining about bad experiences, people could max out their filters and go hunting themselves

The faceless profiles with the minimal wording and without any form of verification would, undoubtedly be overlooked

If they couldn't get past filters, they'd soon give up

I guess what I'm saying is that there will never be an escape from the disingenuous, the fantasists, the wankers, the rude & obnoxious, the entitled or the chancers

As responsible users, we should work towards managing what we can as opposed to trying to police the actions of others

That's a bit like trying to catch a fart in a colander

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So, should all the other blokes bugger off so you get a better look in?

Or, are you volunteering to leave to level things up a bit?

Just you please

Joking, but I mean more like all the fakes and unveried people, I don't think you should be able to join until you're at least photo veried you know?"

Why would people pretend to be men on here? Far more fake women so I don't really think getting rid of fakes will help with women being vastly outnumbered on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mary loves Dick

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Patience my young padawan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant really answer for why you get no replies.

I never seemed to struggle as a single for them. Things may have changed since then I guess.

Yes it's a shame though that people thinking fab is actually instashag ruin it for the good people. I'm not singling out men there though.

J

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So, should all the other blokes bugger off so you get a better look in?

Or, are you volunteering to leave to level things up a bit?

Just you please

Joking, but I mean more like all the fakes and unveried people, I don't think you should be able to join until you're at least photo veried you know?"

I don’t think there are a lot of fake male profiles, what would anyone gain from pretending to be a single man on here?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"You have a fair amount of veris so should not grumble.

It doesn't matter how many veris I have lol, I'm not the sort of person to keep count of things like that, I'm just saying surely its annoying for woman and couples getting a thousand messages a day and 950 of them say f$%k now? I see plenty of statuses about it haha "

I think I’ve had maybe 5 messages today. One of them is a friend, the others were rubbish. No-one gets lost or overlooked in my inbox, there’s just hardly ever anyone worth replying to.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

OP its difficult for all of us. I am pretty much the invisible man on here. Even with these tits

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"You have a fair amount of veris so should not grumble.

It doesn't matter how many veris I have lol, I'm not the sort of person to keep count of things like that, I'm just saying surely its annoying for woman and couples getting a thousand messages a day and 950 of them say f$%k now? I see plenty of statuses about it haha "

That's only if they don't use filters

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