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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How come you can be having a back and fourth good conversation with someone then they just randomly stop replying to your messages any else have this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come you can be having a back and fourth good conversation with someone then they just randomly stop replying to your messages any else have this "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you were talking about.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yes, it happens.

Its not great but its something we've grown to accept and respect that the conversation has come to an end for one reason or another

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I have its strange

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

The conversation obviously was stimulating them enough to carry it on or it just made them realise they just weren't interested in you.

Don't take it to heart. The majority of conversations on here will go nowhere. Just keep talking to people until you find those you click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think they finished their wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think they finished their wank?"

That can be a very good reason or maybe you just didn’t cut the mustard for them either way just block and forget and move on.

T

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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If I just stop talking to someone, I always have a reason.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes. Regularly. It means that they didn't find the conversation as good as you did. Take the hit, get back up and keep moving. Dwelling on it will just make you unhappy.

(I would personally like it if people said *why* they stopped talking to me so I could learn from the experience and try to be better in future, but I understand that's not realistic and it's nobody else's responsibility to help me improve myself.)

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

People's attention span is getting shorter and shor...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your definition is of a good conversation.. some guys just throw one or two words answers at you, only so long a conversation can keep going like that

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By *ike OxmallMan
over a year ago

Elderslie

I'm a boring bastard, so I usually run out of things to say fairly quickly. If I don't reply, it's usually a sign that I can't think of anything witty or amusing to say (or that I've finished my wank!)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've had it in the past, then they usually message again sometime in the future expecting to pick up where you left off.

If someone stops talking, I usually think they're talking more to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life happens.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think they finished their wank?"

Trust you cindi. Jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a boring bastard, so I usually run out of things to say fairly quickly. If I don't reply, it's usually a sign that I can't think of anything witty or amusing to say (or that I've finished my wank!)"

A wank is what most guys do when messaging. Thats why we blocked all guys from contacting us now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think they finished their wank?

Trust you cindi. Jen x"

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yed and block you for fuck all..so many ignorent people about

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Just because you thought it was good conversation, doesn't mean they did too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's usually that I have too many conversations running. I'm stretched too thin, I'm having a break, the conversation is dragging out with no realistic point of meet at which point it becomes pointless. I have friends in the real world, fab is for fuckery and casual chatter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yed and block you for fuck all..so many ignorent people about "

Or maybe because of your attitude. Most guys think a fuck is a given on here bywhen it is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's easy you just..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once it moves from flirty fun banter and moves into serious, wanna know your inside leg measurement and the time /date we will meet etc, i tend to draw back

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