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"Nooooooo I made a sex tape in my early 30's that at the time made me cringe so badly I have only seen a few minutes of it. I'd actually like to see it now ( cringing behind a cushion ) To see my younger slimmer self " Haha, do you have access to it somehow? | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ?" No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then | |||
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"Nooooooo I made a sex tape in my early 30's that at the time made me cringe so badly I have only seen a few minutes of it. I'd actually like to see it now ( cringing behind a cushion ) To see my younger slimmer self Haha, do you have access to it somehow? " I'm sure my ex still has it It's not worth speaking to him to see it though | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then " I’m not convinced | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced" I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt." The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual | |||
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"I dont believe there are any vids...someone on fab has a video of me giving head but it wouldn't turn me on. I think it is nice you can arouse yourself without being critical etc. There should be more of this " Hell yes | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual " For me, watching the clips triggers the sexual feelings that were happening when they were being recorded. Wanting to feel them again/now. Lots of Tingles and clenches and moistness | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual For me, watching the clips triggers the sexual feelings that were happening when they were being recorded. Wanting to feel them again/now. Lots of Tingles and clenches and moistness " You know you typed that out loud don’t you ? | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual For me, watching the clips triggers the sexual feelings that were happening when they were being recorded. Wanting to feel them again/now. Lots of Tingles and clenches and moistness " Sounds hot | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then " This several times over | |||
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"To clarify, not just full on sex. Masturbating, others playing with you... " If there was an opportunity wouldn’t it be fun to add to that collection | |||
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"Can't say I ever do tbh, the thought makes me cringe " Agree! At least with pics you can pose classy and artfully. I can confirm there is nothing artful or classy about me in the throes of passion | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual For me, watching the clips triggers the sexual feelings that were happening when they were being recorded. Wanting to feel them again/now. Lots of Tingles and clenches and moistness Sounds hot " you should pop your video virginity | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced" Seems pretty extreme on the basis of Op's question. You might want to review your understanding of the word. As PPeach said, If the Op became obssessed about only watching herself, and fell in love with herself and sacrificed all other relationships because they could not compete with her, then - yes - possibly "narcissism", which is a complicated mental health issue, rather than taking pleasure in watching yourself have fun. Many people actually dislike themselves on camera (sex or otherwise), but if you can get over that and make the mental connection to something you enjoyed it is no different to taking photographs of a party or holiday which you enjoy later. A trigger for a memory as well as the extra twist of an external view on the first person experience; where you can see the other parties reactions to your actions in a way you couldn't at the time | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ? No. It's not that you're looking at yourself thinking you're amazing, faultless and the rest of the world is to blame for anything and everything that's gone wrong in your life. It's purely bringing back the emotion and passion. Remembering how horny and sexual you were at that time and possibly getting to the butterflies you had back then I’m not convinced I suppose it depends if you're watching it for visual stimulus or emotion. To me it's a bit like looking at a photo of being on holiday and almost being able to smell the holiday smells, a reminder of the songs that were playing etc. I don't look at a photo of myself and get turned on by how I look, I get reminded of how I felt. The Op didn’t state an emotion reason, just that, watching herself turns her on, which sounds visual For me, watching the clips triggers the sexual feelings that were happening when they were being recorded. Wanting to feel them again/now. Lots of Tingles and clenches and moistness You know you typed that out loud don’t you ? " I do. Should I not have? | |||
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"Photos and videos Fuck, i loved my boobs haha " Loved? Past tense? Love them still! | |||
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"I done it quite a few videos of me and a ‘good friend‘of mine, she loves doing them and watching them back with her is great as it makes her crazy horny " She sounds fun! | |||
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"To clarify, not just full on sex. Masturbating, others playing with you... If there was an opportunity wouldn’t it be fun to add to that collection " Life is full of opportunities | |||
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"Er, isn’t that narcissistic ?" That isn't narcissistic.... I had to endure one for over 30 years and this is not narcissistic | |||
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"Photos and videos Fuck, i loved my boobs haha Loved? Past tense? Love them still! " Oops long day fat fingers haha...love them regularly | |||
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"Photos and videos Fuck, i loved my boobs haha Loved? Past tense? Love them still! Oops long day fat fingers haha...love them regularly " I'll let you off then! Lemme know if you want ME to love them regularly | |||
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"Who gets turned on watching videos back of themselves? I do, I don't go into that folder often, I just don't think to, but it makes me vwry horny when I do! " Your videos are so hot I burn my fingers clicking on them | |||
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"I done it quite a few videos of me and a ‘good friend‘of mine, she loves doing them and watching them back with her is great as it makes her crazy horny She sounds fun! " Oh she is! She says I bring this naughtiness out in her and isn’t shy to try | |||
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"My bad for commenting. Us brummies ain’t wanted " I'm terrible for missing ppl out. You won't be The only one Yeah, there's a few blow job videos out there of me. They turn me on less though. But they do make me think fondly of those partners moreso. | |||
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"I’m far too overly self critical to enjoy watching myself sadly. ‘Great Scott man! Your technique is below par there! Deeper man - deeper! No, don’t put it in there!’ " What if I promised to be nought but positive and commending, would you then? | |||
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"Photos and videos Fuck, i loved my boobs haha Loved? Past tense? Love them still! Oops long day fat fingers haha...love them regularly I'll let you off then! Lemme know if you want ME to love them regularly " I sent you a picture of them | |||
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"I’m far too overly self critical to enjoy watching myself sadly. ‘Great Scott man! Your technique is below par there! Deeper man - deeper! No, don’t put it in there!’ What if I promised to be nought but positive and commending, would you then? " As long as I can keep my socks on then yes | |||
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"Photos and videos Fuck, i loved my boobs haha Loved? Past tense? Love them still! Oops long day fat fingers haha...love them regularly I'll let you off then! Lemme know if you want ME to love them regularly I sent you a picture of them " | |||
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"I’m far too overly self critical to enjoy watching myself sadly. ‘Great Scott man! Your technique is below par there! Deeper man - deeper! No, don’t put it in there!’ What if I promised to be nought but positive and commending, would you then? As long as I can keep my socks on then yes " I love a man in socks!! (See how positive I can be ) | |||
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"I'm a little surprised at so few people tbh! I don't think my body is all that great but others like it and it gives me pleasure, and watching that pleasure is hot! " I’ve just ‘enjoyed’ watching one of videos | |||
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"I don't make videos but love watching ones on my partner in crime playing with others " Ooh, I like this twist! | |||
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"To clarify, not just full on sex. Masturbating, others playing with you... If there was an opportunity wouldn’t it be fun to add to that collection Life is full of opportunities " When that opportunity arises you better have plenty storage and battery life | |||
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"Who gets turned on watching videos back of themselves? I do, I don't go into that folder often, I just don't think to, but it makes me vwry horny when I do! " I don't even like listening to my voice on tape, let alone watch my pasty white butt go up and down for 20 mins from a rather bad angle. | |||
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