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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed when I've been reading on people's verifications straight away they don't actually have a social first they just go for it am I the only one of these guys who prefers a social first to see if there is chemistry there

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Some do, some dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s good, but I’ve done both.

Also, had what we’re planned as socials turn into more.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Usually have a social first see if theres an attraction in the flesh so to speak x

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Always best to have a social first, see if you hit it off. No reason the social can't move into something else. Always best to under promise and overdeliver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jolly social first, see if thee is a mutual attraction, that spark that makes thing so much more delish .

If you can laugh and talk to some one it makes life so much more splendid

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Sometimes there's no need as both parts are happy with what they see and probably the verifications can also help .

To be true i never had a social first , i mean we socialise the first 20 minutes first just to break the ice

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Just meet if you have chatted well more exiting, OK me be no attraction sometimes but the sex is usually still good

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No, there's plenty of guys that prefer a social first. How else do you gauge whether the person/people you're planning to have sex with, are clean, well presented, sociable and fun, without meeting them first? Unless of course, none of the above are that important.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Just meet if you have chatted well more exiting, OK me be no attraction sometimes but the sex is usually still good "

U still have sex if no attraction? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I personally prefer a social. It gives all involve the chance an easy way to say 'no thank you' if the chemistry just isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always at least 1 social only first but then I don’t do casual so I want to make sure I get to know the person well

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I've noticed when I've been reading on people's verifications straight away they don't actually have a social first they just go for it am I the only one of these guys who prefers a social first to see if there is chemistry there "

Maybe they never got or show a veri from the social. You are wrong to jump to conclusions.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

As my profile states, I prefer a social first for exactly the reasons most have already mentioned... if I’m going to have sex with someone I’d like to actually know what they’re like as a person!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I much prefer a social first, my veris don’t necessarily reflect this (not that I show them) because they’re sent after a few meets where getting down to it has happened

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley


"I've noticed when I've been reading on people's verifications straight away they don't actually have a social first they just go for it am I the only one of these guys who prefers a social first to see if there is chemistry there

Maybe they never got or show a veri from the social. You are wrong to jump to conclusions."

I do enjoy socials, everyone enjoys time out. Unfortunately, In my experience, most people seam not to be bothered, and just meet. Which is also fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with a social first, rather than “blind meets”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always meet on the basis of a social. If it turned into something more, that's fine because it would be mutual, but each party should have an out option.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley


"I would always meet on the basis of a social. If it turned into something more, that's fine because it would be mutual, but each party should have an out option."

Every social I've been on has ended up having fun at the end of the evening. I think, a night out and a top girl to take home makes for a great night

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