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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah....sounds like an opportunity to show them the ropes and have some fun!

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By *en_Adams_27Man
over a year ago

Northwest

I say the fun is in the learning and the exploring. We all do things differently....I mean I’m sure not every guy licks a pussy the same way or every woman sucks a cock the same as the next.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No it wouldn't bother me, we would have a pretty good idea of what aroused us from sexting each other and can work from there

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London

Sounds like an opportunity to mould an ideal lover, provided you're both comfortable with interests, kinks, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not bothered us. But I do wonder what other people think.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex"

I like to provide the unexpected

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Wouldn't bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site?"

No, but you have a lovely arse OP, I’d love to spank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex

I like to provide the unexpected "

I'm pretty sure you probably know the mechanics of it

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By *heKinkExplorerMan
over a year ago

leicester

No i think it would be part of the fun getting to know what they like for the first time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it would depend how inexperienced and if it was accompanied by a lack of confidence. I'm not in this to be anyone's teacher but we're all inexperienced with new partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all ... could be good practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what their version of inexperienced is.

If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.

If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience. "

Was you not a virgin once lol ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d class myself as inexperienced compared to some on here.

I know what I like though.

Someone being inexperienced wouldn’t put me off, as long as it’s not accompanied by a severe lack of confidence.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.

If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.

Was you not a virgin once lol .. "

Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit it's just something that always stays with you isn't it.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex"

This

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?"

Hahaha

Jo.Xx

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Not at all. Practice makes perfect after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.

If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.

Was you not a virgin once lol ..

Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit it's just something that always stays with you isn't it. "

I’d make sure I wasn’t shit that way they can’t say nothing then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not, nobody is born with experience and knowledge of anything.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?"

If not years can you make up the years by number of times you've fucked the same partner?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I get loads of messages from guys who are inexperienced with other Men. So often want a person who looks feminine but still has their bits

It depends on the guy or even couple if I like them enough and we get on. So I will and hope they last long enough so I get some enjoyment from the meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.

If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.

Was you not a virgin once lol ..

Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit it's just something that always stays with you isn't it.

I’d make sure I wasn’t shit that way they can’t say nothing then ... "

It's easier for an experienced man to be good when having sex with an inexperienced woman than vice versa in my opinion. Thinking back to my early experiences, the guys usually wanted to do all the "work" because they were just so excited to finally be getting laid. And if I sleep with someone who doesn't know how to do the "work", I will be the one getting the blame for making the experience shit. Trust me, it's happened to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

I quite enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex

I like to provide the unexpected

I'm pretty sure you probably know the mechanics of it"

But my memory isn’t good

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?

If not years can you make up the years by number of times you've fucked the same partner? "

I'm hoping so, otherwise we're both pretty inexperienced for people in our mid 30s

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?

If not years can you make up the years by number of times you've fucked the same partner?

I'm hoping so, otherwise we're both pretty inexperienced for people in our mid 30s "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blank canvas lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wouldn’t bother me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet. "

Don't you just hate when that happens

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet.

Don't you just hate when that happens "

Easy to spot tho at this stage.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Not at all just means you need to take it slowly and that is perfectly fine

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Inexperienced no I wouldn't mind at all. A virgin perhaps not. I don't feel swinging is the right way to break that cherry

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

We were all inexperienced at some point, so I would have no issue with meeting someone who was... especially if they’re willing to experience new things!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Each beginning is at the same starting point....It is what it is...The experience develops..

Would someone totally inexperienced be on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love its mostly men saying it wouldnt bother you, all want the innocent maid, we know I like to be taken in hand a bit really, I couldnt see myself teaching anyone the ropes

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Sex is so 2019.

As long as they know how to play qwirkle we will get on.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Sex is so 2019.

As long as they know how to play qwirkle we will get on."

What’s qwirkle?... I fear I’m missing out on something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it wouldn’t be an issue for either of us.

One thing we know is with age comes experience so pairing up with someone with less experience we can introduce them to things if they are up for it.

On the flip side if a person has experienced something that didn’t go well for some reason they are less likely to want to repeat that whereas hence why playing with someone inexperienced they’re more willing to give it ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love it

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site?"

Not at all. We gain experience from each other, all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis."

Who's penis would that be then, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please? "

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle."

Is that not just due to the friction of you constantly scratching at your infestation?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle."

Stop lending them out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

Is that not just due to the friction of you constantly scratching at your infestation?! "

Possibly.

Either that or the crabs have gnawed through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

Stop lending them out then "

Stop offering cash for them.

It ain’t happening!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

Stop lending them out then

Stop offering cash for them.

It ain’t happening!"

The crabby ones are more valuable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to ask Alder if she'd teach me about rope play. *Leaves thread*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to ask Alder if she'd teach me about rope play. *Leaves thread*"

I can do a quick release knot, thats about my limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

Stop lending them out then

Stop offering cash for them.

It ain’t happening!"

Oh darn it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to ask Alder if she'd teach me about rope play. *Leaves thread*

I can do a quick release knot, thats about my limits "

That's a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.

I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.

Who's penis would that be then, please?

I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.

Stop lending them out then

Stop offering cash for them.

It ain’t happening!

Oh darn it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time it would bother me slightly is if they had NO exp at all!

People with little exp and are on sites like FAB tend to be very open to exploration.

They get to learn a few things, and you do too, as they can suggest totally new ideas.

Inexperience is not an issue so long as they are open to communicating with you!

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By *analmaleMan
over a year ago

Hook

Nope would enjoy making her enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.

If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I need someone who knows what they like and what they want. I'm happy to explore, but I don't want to end up teaching, so it could well be off-putting for me.

As others have said there's a big difference between having experience with one partner for a long time and having no experience at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make a connection with someone, I don't see why it would be an issue. It would actually make them more attractive being honest about it. We are all normal people not pornstars

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.

If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary."

So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely, I get told I'm too experienced a lot of the time.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.

If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary.

So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ?"

Nope. It can be exciting being someone's first experience of a particular activity, but not the whole shebang. That's too much pressure.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I wouldn’t be interested. If someone is mentioning lack of experience then they’re either lacking confidence or are looking to me to ‘teach them a thing or two’ and I don’t find either of those things attractive.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I would love that imagine what I could get away with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Conversely, I get told I'm too experienced a lot of the time.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would generally be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.

If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary.

So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ?

Nope. It can be exciting being someone's first experience of a particular activity, but not the whole shebang. That's too much pressure. "

Yah true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m inexperience orally bi guy does that put couples off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m inexperience orally bi guy does that put couples off "

I wouldn't know.

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