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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, no question

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... It's also possible to have sex with someone and never fall in love with them... Wish more people understood that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Absolutely

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Definitely absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I did. Then I ended up having shit (or, once in a fucking blue moon) sex for the next 10 years because by the time I realised they were shit in bed, I was already in love with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, but then finding out you are sexually incompatable after is gutting and I spent 8 years like that.

Never again, fuck them asap just incase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?"

Yes, my first and only true love is an example, we didn't fuck for a year and we were both 18 at the time. I certainly loved her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. More people have told me they love me than I've had sex with. Oddly the numbers don't work the other way round....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?

Yes, my first and only true love is an example, we didn't fuck for a year and we were both 18 at the time. I certainly loved her."

Same. Not my only love but my first love. We were each others firsts and fell in love long before we first had sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?"

Sorry for the typo meant without*

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course, but then finding out you are sexually incompatable after is gutting and I spent 8 years like that.

Never again, fuck them asap just incase

I agree with that, get the sex out of the way after you know you like them physically and for their personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Completely and utterly.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Anything is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ILU OP

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

definetly

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes, this happened with my ex husband I then spent 11 years with a shit sex life and not 1 single orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?"

Of course it is. Strange question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both young women I fell in love with happened before we had sex. One ended before we had sex. The other it took over four years from when we met that included a split and getting back together, before we had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ILU OP

Damn it! Can you love one person and have sex with another? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes. "

My twin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ILU OP

Damn it! Can you love one person and have sex with another? Asking for a friend

Is that not swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ILU OP

Damn it! Can you love one person and have sex with another? Asking for a friend

Tell your friend to get in my box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?"

I can’t actually connect love and sex together. Kinda annoying. Also kinda useful.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People fall in love without having sex all the time. Look at the poor people who get scammed on the net, convinced that an an American soldier of 45 is in love with a 74 year old woman.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yeaaaa... Good old uni days ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know that I could.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"Yes... It's also possible to have sex with someone and never fall in love with them... Wish more people understood that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215/ explains my issues. )NCBI is a reputable website for research like this. Hope it’s allowed Mr/Mrs Moderator

The TL:DR is that I’m hyper sexual but don’t connect sex and love. So I hug etc but don’t think to initialise sex. So she’ll remind me

I used to to be an escort. I’ve had a lot of casual sex. I still meet others. No issues. Do I remember sex my fiancée or bf up on my own accord? Nope, but they remind me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Of course it is. That's not to say it's the best idea (sexual compatibility) or can't be a good one but it definitely happens. My first girlfriend and I didn't do anything other than a lot of kissing for several months and we were definitely in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... It's also possible to have sex with someone and never fall in love with them... Wish more people understood that

^^This^^

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Human relationships are complex so yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone workout having sex with them first?"

Yes, it absolutely is. The things that trigger love (for me at least) are not necessarily sexual, but sexual attraction does play a key part in that. Equally, it is more than possible to have sex, great mind blowing sex, with someone and not fall in love.

Differentiating between love and sex is a life skill. Not everyone can separate the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I have never equated love with sex. I recognise that sex with someone you love is the most fulfilling, but you can have great sex without love.

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