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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who's sick of it?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m embracing it, it’s not the first time and it won’t be the last. I’m thinking of making it voluntarily indefinite. It’s probably the right thing for me to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me!"

It's getting beyond frustrating now PP!

I'm ready to jump the postman - he was looking hot yesterday in his red raincoat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m embracing it, it’s not the first time and it won’t be the last. I’m thinking of making it voluntarily indefinite. It’s probably the right thing for me to do."

Why Doc?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Me!

It's getting beyond frustrating now PP!

I'm ready to jump the postman - he was looking hot yesterday in his red raincoat "

I just need a day off and my postman is a mate and I know he doesn't like his sack touched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a bubble Mary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 'celibate' before COVID so it's just an extension of that. The horn comes and goes but I'm not desperate for sex.

Sex is a part of my life but not the be all and end all. It would be nice but I'm not 'missing' it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wasn't getting any prior so I've just accepted it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a bubble Mary "

Good advice If you live on your own you can bubble with another household (either a multi or single household).

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Is annoying but my toys see me through x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Get a bubble Mary "

Easier said than done Nora! I tried a couple of times - given up until after Covid now. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a bubble Mary "

But with who?

It involves meeting lots of different ones to find the one - which is against the ruuulezzzz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a bubble Mary

Easier said than done Nora! I tried a couple of times - given up until after Covid now. X"

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

In answer to your question op - I’m sick of enforced celibacy too!

Possibly even more sick of not having any kind of social life though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, no bubble buddy for me either. Luckily I dont mind my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a bubble Mary

But with who?

It involves meeting lots of different ones to find the one - which is against the ruuulezzzz "

Well yeah I suppose. If you haven’t anyone in mind. Scrap that then . I’ll go back to the drawing board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can see the light at the end of the tunnel now. It makes it easier

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I went home yesterday yay me

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'll bake cake.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Get a bubble Mary

But with who?

It involves meeting lots of different ones to find the one - which is against the ruuulezzzz "

It’s prettty dam shite at present Mary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 'celibate' before COVID so it's just an extension of that. The horn comes and goes but I'm not desperate for sex.

Sex is a part of my life but not the be all and end all. It would be nice but I'm not 'missing' it."

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a bubble Mary

But with who?

It involves meeting lots of different ones to find the one - which is against the ruuulezzzz

It’s prettty dam shite at present Mary "

But think of the fantastic release when we all get let out of prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the safest way for your sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't getting any prior so I've just accepted it now "

Same but that was choice... Think because I know I can't it's making it worse lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't getting any prior so I've just accepted it now

Same but that was choice... Think because I know I can't it's making it worse lol x"

It does make it worse!

I always want the things I can't or shouldn't have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m embracing it, it’s not the first time and it won’t be the last. I’m thinking of making it voluntarily indefinite. It’s probably the right thing for me to do.

Why Doc?

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The pandemic caused me to re-evaluate a number of things in my life, I came to the conclusion that if I gave Covid to my extremely vulnerable parents or other extremely vulnerable members of my extended family, because I’d picked it up in a sexual meeting, I would struggle to forgive myself. Secondly, because of the experience of another friend on here earlier this year, it caused me to re-evaluate what I was doing from a moral perspective and that convinced me celibacy is probably my best option. It always has been if I am honest with myself and you; the spirit may have been willing, but the flesh has been weak. I’m finally learning the discipline to resist temptation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sick of it grrrrr though can see some light at the end of the tunnel being patient and looking forward to the times ahead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very sick of it grrrrr though can see some light at the end of the tunnel being patient and looking forward to the times ahead "

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I feel your pain, Poppins.

The more I think about sex, the more I want it so I TRY not to think about it...too much..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel your pain, Poppins.

The more I think about sex, the more I want it so I TRY not to think about it...too much.. "

Me too - I try

The answers lay in the fridge

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Me

I have been trying to convince myself it’s fine. But it’s not fine. Aaaarrrrgggghhhhhh

V x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Me ! My dad used to have it with salt down the middle.......... I find it too stringy !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me

I have been trying to convince myself it’s fine. But it’s not fine. Aaaarrrrgggghhhhhh

V x "

I love your profile

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me ! My dad used to have it with salt down the middle.......... I find it too stringy !!"

Granny stop that filthy talk immediately!

That type of C word is just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me!

It's getting beyond frustrating now PP!

I'm ready to jump the postman - he was looking hot yesterday in his red raincoat "

I actually do really fancy my postman and I don't know if it's because I would anyway or because he's the only man in my vicinity these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yep. 274 days since I last touched another person.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have been celibate for much longer than Covid has been around so from the sex perspective it has made no difference to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m embracing it, it’s not the first time and it won’t be the last. I’m thinking of making it voluntarily indefinite. It’s probably the right thing for me to do.

Why Doc?

The pandemic caused me to re-evaluate a number of things in my life, I came to the conclusion that if I gave Covid to my extremely vulnerable parents or other extremely vulnerable members of my extended family, because I’d picked it up in a sexual meeting, I would struggle to forgive myself. Secondly, because of the experience of another friend on here earlier this year, it caused me to re-evaluate what I was doing from a moral perspective and that convinced me celibacy is probably my best option. It always has been if I am honest with myself and you; the spirit may have been willing, but the flesh has been weak. I’m finally learning the discipline to resist temptation."

I find this interesting thankyou. It raises lots of questions in my mind but none I can formulate yet. I am always impressed at people with strict discipline though. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am somewhat missing the person behind the sex as much as the sex. All men are getting a slightly longer lingering look than I might usually give though. Heaven help the poor buggers I work with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's sick of it?

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Soooo sick of it!! Totally bored of the battery friends now as well!!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Me

I have been trying to convince myself it’s fine. But it’s not fine. Aaaarrrrgggghhhhhh

V x

I love your profile

X"

Thanks

V xx

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