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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once lockdown is out the way all together and clubs open back up would anyone be able to give me a tour of the club's as wouldn't have a clue about any of them ? X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Read around the forum and look at what people say about clubs.

Read the websites of the clubs, most will give you a guide.

Good clubs will give you a guided tour and tell you about etiquette, once you're there.

It's a bit of a scary thing, but I've never looked back.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well I live about a 10 minutes walk from the Attic in Derby, but I suppose that's out of your target area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm Basingstoke and only have public transport to get around

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Every club we've been to has given us a tour and explained the rules. (We still get lost though )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay thankyou and I'm just a bit worried turning up to one on my own x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a clue where to start x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I wouldn't have a clue where to start x"

Look at the one you fancy, sign up for membership online. It’s only like a bar really just with an extra area for play to happen that you aren’t forced to go into if you’re nervous xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It maybe an idea to quote which clubs you intend to visit, after Lockdown. So one of the regulars can give you some advice on the club and best night for a newbie.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I wouldn't have a clue where to start x"

OP..I went to a club by myself for the first time, years ago.

You don't need to go with someone; you just beed to put your brave pants on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll have to take a look x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I wouldn't have a clue where to start x

OP..I went to a club by myself for the first time, years ago.

You don't need to go with someone; you just beed to put your brave pants on."

Same x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I now need to find a club x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I now need to find a club x"

Do you want local or further afield?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm happy with either even if it means I have to stay in a hotel for a few nights if it's further away x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm happy with either even if it means I have to stay in a hotel for a few nights if it's further away x"

Bear in mind a lot of clubs only allow single men to attend on specific nights (usually Friday).

As for where to start - a good place would be to go along with absolutely no expectations of anything happening and the intention of being respectful and considerate and to accept a polite no thanks graciously. Most clubs will both give you a tour and discuss etiquette etc - make sure you listen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will do and I'm not expecting anything apart from what the club's are like etc it's a new thing and don't want to rush in to anything at all x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I will do and I'm not expecting anything apart from what the club's are like etc it's a new thing and don't want to rush in to anything at all x"

Think of it like a small club, most (if not all) will have a social area with a bar. Then another area, the majority that I’ve been to it’s upstairs, that’ll have rooms or open spaces for intimate fun. Some will also have playroom such as dungeons for more kinky times.

No guarantee you’ll get to have any fun on the night but be open and friendly and who knows

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