FabSwingers.com forum: Would you consider no drinkers boring?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it difficult to find people kinda get on with u of you are a non drinker

Would you consider no drinkers boring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’d think boring but I must admit I don’t think there’s anyone in my circles of friends who don’t drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a non-drinker, and far from boring. I don't need a drink to have a good time.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No - but I don't like going out and not drinking when other people are on the sauce. I can't take that d*unk chat when I'm sober!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not at all, you can have a great night with a non drinker, even if you are partaking in a few. You don’t need an alcoholic drink to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best buddy doesn't drink ... certainly not boring and he drives or did before C19

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Definitely not! A lot of my friends are non-drinkers, or just don't drink on some evenings out. Sometimes I don't drink on evenings out. We all have fun anyway

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By *hatty GuyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Not at all! If you need a drink to develop a personality or to enjoy yourself then you're a far more boring person imo!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"Not at all, you can have a great night with a non drinker, even if you are partaking in a few. You don’t need an alcoholic drink to socialise "

This

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

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By *olly4Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I'm a rare drinker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm a drinker but one of oldest friends is a non drinker and she is far from boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tonight I would as I need a drink after this week but normally can take it or leave it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Why is alcohol required for somebody to be enjoyable to get on with? I don't understand.

I (Luke) don't drink at all and Hannah only drinks very occasionally. I doubt many people we know even notice.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Loads of decent non alcoholic alternatives now.

Recommend Punk AF, tried this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Drinks can be fun but if you can't have fun without them then you're not much fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never started hihi..very useful as a driver and mothers every where swoon that Im perfect lololol. if only they knew. people who dont know me well think I drink and then say an Irish man who doesnt drink?? Wtfff.. Im happy out without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all you can have fun without have a drink it’s definitely not nessery x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wouldn't say it does because it's more about the connection and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if they can relax around drinkers then good on them, but if they are judging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been d*unk. I'll have one or two max at home but very very rarely when I'm out with friends. If that makes me boring to some then so be it, probably wouldn't be friends if they did anyways.

I tend to avoid those who get pissed or need a few drinks for a meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a non-drinnker. I don't think I'm boring. If I attended parties, I'm sure I'd be the most popular chap there because I have a car and a Driver's Licence.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I wouldn't say boring, each to Their own.

I like a drink when relaxing, think if be the one more on edge if I had someone round who didnt drink.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

D here. I randomly stopped drinking for about 7 years. Oddly enough the last drink I had was on S and my honeymoon, but read in to that what you will.

Recently started having the odd drink again but honestly it makes little difference either way.

The only time it ever felt weird not drinking was when I was visiting home in Ireland

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By *ugofirstMan
over a year ago

livingston

Haven’t drank for over thirty years and can enjoy myself as much as anyone else. Bad enough without drink!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Hope my friends/colleagues don't find me boring. I've been on plenty of after work drinkies, meals, farewell parties, Christmas parties where I've d*unk soft drinks and tea/coffee and driven myself (and colleagues) home. I did drink at last year's Christmas party - the first time in 7yrs. I'm usually the non drinker so I'm fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...but I would probably wonder why they didn't drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people who don’t drink are boring and some are great fun.

Pretty much the same with people who do drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t drink due to medication. Can have 1 to be Social but can go without.

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I find it difficult to find people kinda get on with u of you are a non drinker

Would you consider no drinkers boring? "

Not at all.

I love a nice pint or two but don’t enjoy getting d*unk anymore really. Sometimes quite enjoy staying sober when everyone’s on the lash, is can be entertaining.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I rarely drink these days, just don’t feel the need, plus I usually end up driving if I go out

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I don't drink at all. Just don't like alcohol.

I have no problems socialising with drinkers & I consider myself to be very good company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been teetotal all my life.

And as you can see if you bother to read my profile and veris I am definitely not boring!

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"I find it difficult to find people kinda get on with u of you are a non drinker

Would you consider no drinkers boring?

Not at all.

I love a nice pint or two but don’t enjoy getting d*unk anymore really. Sometimes quite enjoy staying sober when everyone’s on the lash, is can be entertaining. "

I'm exactly the same. Zero interest in getting d*unk since I started drinking again but I now enjoy a beer or two or even a cocktail (much to my surprise)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all! If you need a drink to develop a personality or to enjoy yourself then you're a far more boring person imo!"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Why would anybody drink to suddenly develop a personality

I dont drink anymore

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I find it difficult to find people kinda get on with u of you are a non drinker

Would you consider no drinkers boring? "

Some are some aren't, I'd say the drinking part is irrelevant

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Why would anybody drink to suddenly develop a personality

I dont drink anymore "

I know a few people that drink to make up for their complete lack of a personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can't drink and I wouldn't consider them boring at all...sneaky buggers though as they are usually the ones with the cameras out when everyone is smashed

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why would anybody drink to suddenly develop a personality

I dont drink anymore

I know a few people that drink to make up for their complete lack of a personality

Shame because on drink some people can become obnoxious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are non drinkers and always have a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a non drinker.

I'd hate to think someone found me boring just because I don't drink.

I don't drink because I don't think I need to to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its helps me but not to excess

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't drink, would you like me to share with you how I perceive drinkers?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't drink, would you like me to share with you how I perceive drinkers?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting. "

You saw me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting.

You saw me?"

I’d have made sure you was safe if I had

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting.

You saw me?

I’d have made sure you was safe if I had

Awww that's nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not a non drinker i do like a drink but swinging and drinking for me do not mix ive seen far too many make fools of themselves or crossed the consent line far to often

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting. "

I didn't realise there were so many double amputees at clubs. Sounds like a fertile recruiting ground for wheelchair basketball players

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm a non drinker.

I'd hate to think someone found me boring just because I don't drink.

I don't drink because I don't think I need to to have fun. "

I agree, you are a lot of fun and definitely not boring! I think it might be next year before we ever finish that bottle of wine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find people kinda get on with u of you are a non drinker

Would you consider no drinkers boring? "

No more so than I'd consider drinkers to be interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

I love a wee vino or 6 in the house but often take my car on a night out. I generally can't be arsed with pissed folk when I'm out and it's refreshing to meet another sober person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's interesting about drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

I don’t think we’d be very compatible for anything other than friendship but I wouldn’t find them boring just because they don’t drink.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not at all.

I don’t think we’d be very compatible for anything other than friendship but I wouldn’t find them boring just because they don’t drink."

Interested in why non drinkers could only be friends, Sam? *QuizzicalFace*

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah I barely drink myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m seen many a legless women at clubs. Is off putting.

I didn't realise there were so many double amputees at clubs. Sounds like a fertile recruiting ground for wheelchair basketball players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink and while I go out with my mates to the pub and stuff, I've never taken part in full blown nights out with them because I imagine nightclubs as a sober person would be a nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all.

I don’t think we’d be very compatible for anything other than friendship but I wouldn’t find them boring just because they don’t drink.

Interested in why non drinkers could only be friends, Sam? *QuizzicalFace*"

My aesthetically pleasing side is best highlighted to women who have ‘taken the edge off’

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not at all.

I don’t think we’d be very compatible for anything other than friendship but I wouldn’t find them boring just because they don’t drink.

Interested in why non drinkers could only be friends, Sam? *QuizzicalFace*

My aesthetically pleasing side is best highlighted to women who have ‘taken the edge off’ "

I take it Caffeine-specs are not quite as effective as beer goggles?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would anybody drink to suddenly develop a personality

I dont drink anymore

I know a few people that drink to make up for their complete lack of a personality

Some people really should drink to get a personality

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Depends if they were boring.

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