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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Isn't it like riding a bike?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago "

Are you getting it wrong then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it like riding a bike? "

I'd compare it more to a unicycle, with a bit more skill involved and if you lose concentration it's all falls to shit.... Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. "

Awww that's cool, and good to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. "

Sound advice I reckon x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. "

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago

Are you getting it wrong then? "

Well my abilities aren't in question, just my appeal, these days, I think :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your mind is back in the zone then I’m pretty sure your body will follow xx

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )"

What is sex again? You can do it with another person?

It’s been a while...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. "

Yes....that's exactly it. I actually 'forgot' how to even imagine sex.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Isn't it like riding a bike? "

Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes you can lose it, it's difficult to maintain alone

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Like an outdoor tap

It can be turned on and off...

In winter times it’s get frozen solid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reverse is happening to me.

With no sex since February I'm like a caged animal ready to be released back into the wild. I'm hornier and sexier than ever.

I feel sorry for the first guy I get with when I get vaccine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. "

As it did with me!! I was surprised how it just came roaring back suddenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it "

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the reverse is happening to me.

With no sex since February I'm like a caged animal ready to be released back into the wild. I'm hornier and sexier than ever.

I feel sorry for the first guy I get with when I get vaccine. "

I'm scared for them all the time!!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think it can be suppressed but when the right partner entices it out of you, its like it never went away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you lose it cause I think it's an inbuilt thing but I know I feel a bit anxious about getting jiggy with someone cause it's been a fair while. I'm guessing /hoping that once the initial self consciousness goes then all will be fine.... Assuming I get to that point with someone

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I think My self confidence has taken a it of a battering of late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...whenever I've had a long break I return with a vengeance

Lu

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve turned mine off as I’m not using it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose it all the time...sex drive/confidence/any faith in my, erm, abilities. Just because I get busy and forget to be in any way sexual. Always comes back when it comes to it though. I'm sure my longterm friends from here must think I'm two people when they get in touch, based on how far I swing between uber sexual and mumsy!

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

I loose mine from time to time stress and other issues just blows it out of the window. It happens to us all at times just as long as it comes back its all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )"

I get insulted on a daily basis for not being a real woman and it does get me down but not for long, Guess you could say I temporarily lose my sexiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever had it. Unless awkward, giggly and a bit clumsy are sexy.. in which case I rock that

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not planning on losing my sexiness or divulging myself of the sheer animal magnetism ladies find in me until around my 85th birthday. Luke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it "

I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago

Are you getting it wrong then?

Well my abilities aren't in question, just my appeal, these days, I think :-/"

I find you very appealing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your mind is back in the zone then I’m pretty sure your body will follow xx"

This is what I'm hoping for. Plus I think it's always a bit new and different with any new partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )

What is sex again? You can do it with another person?

It’s been a while... "

Yeah, do it with me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way.

Yes....that's exactly it. I actually 'forgot' how to even imagine sex."

I had that same problem when Meli mentioned they do white chocolate oranges now. I can't even imagine the taste....

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Isn't it like riding a bike? "

I was about to say that!!! Haha

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
over a year ago

LLandudno

You can definitely lose one's sexiness. It's not an age thing, it's an attitude thing. I used to be much sexier than I am now. I don't even know how I lost it or how to get it back.

Answers on a postcard please. Or a pm!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it like riding a bike?

Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q..."

Instructions shcmucksions...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes you can lose it, it's difficult to maintain alone"

Alone I'm fine lolololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I ever had it to lose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like an outdoor tap

It can be turned on and off...

In winter times it’s get frozen solid "

Solid is good though, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the reverse is happening to me.

With no sex since February I'm like a caged animal ready to be released back into the wild. I'm hornier and sexier than ever.

I feel sorry for the first guy I get with when I get vaccine. "

I'm like that too, I'm just wondering if I'll forget the subtle beautiful tactile aspects in a fluster of horniness....

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Isn't it like riding a bike? "

It is *exactly* like riding a bike.

I can't ride a bike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I’ve ever had it. Unless awkward, giggly and a bit clumsy are sexy.. in which case I rock that "

You most certainly have not lost it

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’m still looking for mine not sure I ever found it lol

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Isn't it like riding a bike?

It is *exactly* like riding a bike.

I can't ride a bike. "

Neither can I!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it can be suppressed but when the right partner entices it out of you, its like it never went away "

Choice of partner is defo critical . Always best to stay fussy imho

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yeah Bump, probably best to write it off as twenty seconds of disappointment. Reassure her the next time will be at least a minute and you'll be fine.

Being slightly more serious, I think that skills in sex only go so far - it's more about the ability to listen to the other, read their reactions and take on anything they say (if they do). So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you lose it cause I think it's an inbuilt thing but I know I feel a bit anxious about getting jiggy with someone cause it's been a fair while. I'm guessing /hoping that once the initial self consciousness goes then all will be fine.... Assuming I get to that point with someone "

I reckon it'll be the same for both parties in most cases. Hopefully it's all gonna just fit into place so to speak....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it

I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do "

Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Kinda feel like mine wandered off a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think My self confidence has taken a it of a battering of late "

Hopefully when things are normal and you have a beautiful person begging you to stick it inside them that'll have the complete reverse affect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah...whenever I've had a long break I return with a vengeance

Lu "

Faf yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve turned mine off as I’m not using it anymore "

Can I borrow a cup of sexiness please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lose it all the time...sex drive/confidence/any faith in my, erm, abilities. Just because I get busy and forget to be in any way sexual. Always comes back when it comes to it though. I'm sure my longterm friends from here must think I'm two people when they get in touch, based on how far I swing between uber sexual and mumsy! "

I think mumsy and normal can often be sexier than sexy, especially on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I loose mine from time to time stress and other issues just blows it out of the window. It happens to us all at times just as long as it comes back its all good. "

Your boobs are helping with mine...

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By *usiclover84Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally I think sexiness is more your state of mind. It's all relative to your confidence, self esteem etc which fluctuates wildly depending on what's going on around you. I'd never class myself as sexy but don't consider myself unattractive but other times I don't feel attractive at all yet still look exactly the same both times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )

I get insulted on a daily basis for not being a real woman and it does get me down but not for long, Guess you could say I temporarily lose my sexiness "

Fuck 'em, just be you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think I’ve ever had it. Unless awkward, giggly and a bit clumsy are sexy.. in which case I rock that "

Your faded boob art was sexy af!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not planning on losing my sexiness or divulging myself of the sheer animal magnetism ladies find in me until around my 85th birthday. Luke "

I get that. I honestly feel sexier with age. I think it comes with confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can definitely lose one's sexiness. It's not an age thing, it's an attitude thing. I used to be much sexier than I am now. I don't even know how I lost it or how to get it back.

Answers on a postcard please. Or a pm! "

Awwww no fella. We need to find you a nice girl to send you boobs

Btw, nobody has sent me boobs yet (do people even read the full thread blurb? )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure I ever had it to lose"

We're all sexy to someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it like riding a bike?

It is *exactly* like riding a bike.

I can't ride a bike. "

I could teach you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m still looking for mine not sure I ever found it lol"

I think maybe it's for other people to find in you and I'm sure they have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah Bump, probably best to write it off as twenty seconds of disappointment. Reassure her the next time will be at least a minute and you'll be fine.

Being slightly more serious, I think that skills in sex only go so far - it's more about the ability to listen to the other, read their reactions and take on anything they say (if they do). So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt."

Hi Meli,

The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals....

Also, please send boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it

I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do

Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on? "

Stop being so wise and sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )"

Afraid you've lost your Midas touch Op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kinda feel like mine wandered off a few years ago. "

Run forest run! Catch it up....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think sexiness is more your state of mind. It's all relative to your confidence, self esteem etc which fluctuates wildly depending on what's going on around you. I'd never class myself as sexy but don't consider myself unattractive but other times I don't feel attractive at all yet still look exactly the same both times. "

I think personally I'm kinda coming to the conclusion that sexiness is inbuilt. It's the thing that defies mood, luck, confidence or external influences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday. "

Faf yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

Faf yet? "

Fine, but only because no one else wants to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday. "

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "

Really hard then.

I know they meant it nicely though which makes it worse haha.

I might take some more pics this weekend see if I can filter the sexy back in

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "

Finding a what ??

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.

Finding a what ?? "

Just a random part of the body that doesn't do much, don't worry about Slim.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )

Afraid you've lost your Midas touch Op? "

Nope, never lol. I was just wondering if I'd be able to connect in the same way. But I guess that has quite a bit to do with the person I'm with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines been missing this year

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it

I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do

Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on?

Stop being so wise and sexy...."

When you stop asking long winded questions, I'll think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

Faf yet?

Fine, but only because no one else wants to "

That made ME feel so sexy!!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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*it. Ffs. Honestly. Why can I not type today? I've spent a good hour on a fricking stupid report and that had no errors and now it's like I'm typing utter gobbledegook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "

A what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head "

Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.

Finding a what ?? "

Lol beat me too it, I'm playing catch up

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch?

I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill?

Waddaya think?

Much love

Bump x

(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )

Afraid you've lost your Midas touch Op?

Nope, never lol. I was just wondering if I'd be able to connect in the same way. But I guess that has quite a bit to do with the person I'm with? "

Exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch.

Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.

That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.

Finding a what ??

Just a random part of the body that doesn't do much, don't worry about Slim. "

I find me women much prefer vigorous stimulation deep inside the bumhole....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"lok

So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt.

Hi Meli,

The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals....

Also, please send boobs "

I think the great mental sex comes from the dreaded connection and compatibility in all honesty. You want someone you can spark off of, that stimulates you on a particular level. That, for me anyway, is what makes great sex well, great.

You have reminded me to send boobs to someone though, what's a good angle for a boob shot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mines been missing this year "

Boobs in my box plz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No you can't lose it.

I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off.

Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back.

Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good.

Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it

I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do

Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on?

Stop being so wise and sexy....

When you stop asking long winded questions, I'll think about it "

My questions are genius and you love me. I have it in text and that's like a contract...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*it. Ffs. Honestly. Why can I not type today? I've spent a good hour on a fricking stupid report and that had no errors and now it's like I'm typing utter gobbledegook. "

Too much practice can be a bad thing then?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest


"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head

Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... "

not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch.

Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X"

Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lok

So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt.

Hi Meli,

The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals....

Also, please send boobs

I think the great mental sex comes from the dreaded connection and compatibility in all honesty. You want someone you can spark off of, that stimulates you on a particular level. That, for me anyway, is what makes great sex well, great.

You have reminded me to send boobs to someone though, what's a good angle for a boob shot? "

Stick the camera between your thighs and shoot it upwards. Send them to ME plz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head

Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple "

Yes, just like that! When neither of you care about appearance but you just need to get further inside each others bodies and minds....

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Isn't it like riding a bike?

Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q...

Instructions shcmucksions... "

The bloody instruction sheet is going to be written in Swedish, and I'm not going to be able to find half the bits...

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest


"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head

Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple

Yes, just like that! When neither of you care about appearance but you just need to get further inside each others bodies and minds.... "

don't know about that, I'm more of a feed me and leave me kind of girl if hungover at least for a few hours anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Bump "

You are naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way.

Awww that's cool, and good to hear "

And he changed my view on men. I wasted so much of my life on the wrong men. Wish id met john 30yrs ago. I have never felt so full filled in my life. Jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bump

You are naughty. "

You like it though Fiddles...don’t you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it like riding a bike?

Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q...

Instructions shcmucksions...

The bloody instruction sheet is going to be written in Swedish, and I'm not going to be able to find half the bits..."

I could quite fancy being instructed by a Swede....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bump "

Cheeky my love?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bump

You are naughty. "

She's FILTHY with a bottle of talc....

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By *xxsomonMan
over a year ago

rugeley

After a few years of very little sex, when i do it I don’t feel comfortable saying things during sex or letting myself go,i put it down to lost confidence as I would of previously considered myself to be a responsive lover

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After a few years of very little sex, when i do it I don’t feel comfortable saying things during sex or letting myself go,i put it down to lost confidence as I would of previously considered myself to be a responsive lover "

This doesn't surprise me given the content in your profile. I hope things get better for you. What brought you to fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In other news, one pair of boobs has been received, and a very nice pair they are too! Thank you my love...

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By *xxsomonMan
over a year ago

rugeley


"After a few years of very little sex, when i do it I don’t feel comfortable saying things during sex or letting myself go,i put it down to lost confidence as I would of previously considered myself to be a responsive lover

This doesn't surprise me given the content in your profile. I hope things get better for you. What brought you to fab? "

I know a couple of friends who are openly on here and ive heard the stories and I thought I could get an insight into women who need more sex and partners and I suppose a little bit of me thought id get clues as to why they do it.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Like an outdoor tap

It can be turned on and off...

In winter times it’s get frozen solid

Solid is good though, right? "

If I find someone brave or foolish enough to play ice dildos with... I’ll let you know

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Maybe.

It’s a bit like dancing. When you’re young and you hit the dance floor you feel like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever or Beyoncé in the Crazy in love vid. Then you reach a certain age and the hips don’t gyrate as well as they used to and you feel self conscious and a bit wooden. Sex after a big gap can feel like that.

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By *xxsomonMan
over a year ago

rugeley


"Maybe.

It’s a bit like dancing. When you’re young and you hit the dance floor you feel like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever or Beyoncé in the Crazy in love vid. Then you reach a certain age and the hips don’t gyrate as well as they used to and you feel self conscious and a bit wooden. Sex after a big gap can feel like that.

"

Wooden is a great comparison thats how I feel sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost pretty much all my feelings of being 'sexy'

It's very rare I have sexual feelings these days, let alone sex, despite having a partner

I'd say I'm averaging about one cum a month at the minute

Go back 7 or 8 years and rarely a week went by that I didn't have a meet, sometimes 2 or 3 in a day when I was home based.

So, yes, you can lose it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can really see the bike analogy. Getting back in the saddle after some time and I'm fucked within 10mins!

Remember to breathe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like an outdoor tap

It can be turned on and off...

In winter times it’s get frozen solid

Solid is good though, right?

If I find someone brave or foolish enough to play ice dildos with... I’ll let you know "

Twisted my arm....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe.

It’s a bit like dancing. When you’re young and you hit the dance floor you feel like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever or Beyoncé in the Crazy in love vid. Then you reach a certain age and the hips don’t gyrate as well as they used to and you feel self conscious and a bit wooden. Sex after a big gap can feel like that.

"

Wood is good though, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it."

I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost pretty much all my feelings of being 'sexy'

It's very rare I have sexual feelings these days, let alone sex, despite having a partner

I'd say I'm averaging about one cum a month at the minute

Go back 7 or 8 years and rarely a week went by that I didn't have a meet, sometimes 2 or 3 in a day when I was home based.

So, yes, you can lose it "

Hope it picks up soon fella

I'm still a daily wanker....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can really see the bike analogy. Getting back in the saddle after some time and I'm fucked within 10mins!

Remember to breathe "

Seriously though, sometimes I can get so into sex that I forget to breathe. You get all shared breathing pacey to begin with and then occasionally further down the path when I'm about to cum I'm like "best take a breath now lad before you cumfaint!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost all my sexiness.

Its been a very tough year, a lot more than this crappy virus.

Will rebuild me, fall back in love with me and get my sexiness back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lost all my sexiness.

Its been a very tough year, a lot more than this crappy virus.

Will rebuild me, fall back in love with me and get my sexiness back.

"

I'm sorry to hear that and I hope it all comes flooding back soon. Sending you some bump love in the meantime....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost all my sexiness.

Its been a very tough year, a lot more than this crappy virus.

Will rebuild me, fall back in love with me and get my sexiness back.

I'm sorry to hear that and I hope it all comes flooding back soon. Sending you some bump love in the meantime....x"

Thanks Bump xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch.

Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X

Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js.... "

They’re right there on my profile

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Like an outdoor tap

It can be turned on and off...

In winter times it’s get frozen solid

Solid is good though, right?

If I find someone brave or foolish enough to play ice dildos with... I’ll let you know

Twisted my arm.... "

I’ve twisted my ankle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it.

I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom "

Thank you. I think I’m respected more than desired, and to be honest that suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it.

I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom

Thank you. I think I’m respected more than desired, and to be honest that suits me."

Take the compliment man, you're sexy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch.

Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X

Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js....

They’re right there on my profile "

I'll go look now. I might be busy for a little while....

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Definitely!!

Sexiness and feeling sexy is so closely linked to self confidence that if you don’t feel good about yourself or have not had it in a long time I can tell you it’s a scary not sexy place you can get too

Getting it back is fun though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely!!

Sexiness and feeling sexy is so closely linked to self confidence that if you don’t feel good about yourself or have not had it in a long time I can tell you it’s a scary not sexy place you can get too

Getting it back is fun though"

Do to think some people are born with sexy though? Or is it just they're wired slightly differently and more self confident?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, definitely. I feel like I have been enveloped in a middle-aged cloak of invisibility since Covid. I haven't even let myself go (much).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, definitely. I feel like I have been enveloped in a middle-aged cloak of invisibility since Covid. I haven't even let myself go (much)."

I felt a bit like that around the time I had my daughter - everything went family oriented and I lost a litte of identity I think, or perhaps rather donated it. But then the last maybe 7 or 8 years I've clawed it back and feel sexier and more confident in general than ever

Covid I guess limits our direct communication with others which is never good for mental well-being...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another pair of amazing boobies now gratefully received and keeping me warm on a miserable winters evening. Thank you beautiful....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another pair of amazing boobies now gratefully received and keeping me warm on a miserable winters evening. Thank you beautiful.... "

And another - you're really spoiling me, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have concerns over the tightness of my vagina, she hasnt had much work these last few months and may have gotten lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t sexy to start with - too gormless and clumsy to be sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have concerns over the tightness of my vagina, she hasnt had much work these last few months and may have gotten lazy "

Have you seen the size of my cock? It's not gonna be an issue.....

(I'm kitten, it's teeny wieney)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn’t sexy to start with - too gormless and clumsy to be sexy "

Oh behave, you've been sexy since I first saw you on fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines well and truly done one!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mines well and truly done one!!!!

"

Well, I don't believe you. Your pics are gorgeous and you're also in the next two along from me. Definitely some post covid potential! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Pretty sure I remember how. Not sure about my vagina though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back"

Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty sure I remember how. Not sure about my vagina though. "

So anal is ok then....?

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Have I lost my sexy? I’m sure it’s around somewhere I just can’t be bothered to look for it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have I lost my sexy? I’m sure it’s around somewhere I just can’t be bothered to look for it. "

I fabbed it the other day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep."

You're making up for it now!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep.

You're making up for it now! "

God loves a trier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apparently ooze sex appeal but it take me being all dressed up sexy to feel sexy.

I have it in me when I want to unleash it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep.

You're making up for it now!

God loves a trier "

Always!

(send boobs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it.

I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom

Thank you. I think I’m respected more than desired, and to be honest that suits me.

Take the compliment man, you're sexy! "

That’s me told

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I apparently ooze sex appeal but it take me being all dressed up sexy to feel sexy.

I have it in me when I want to unleash it. "

Does your sexy come from you or others or a combination? x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Pretty sure I remember how. Not sure about my vagina though.

So anal is ok then....? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back

Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet..... "

I will be one of those that erupts once a century then

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Absolutely

I lost it a couple of yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back

Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet.....

I will be one of those that erupts once a century then "

Like Vesuvius, burying loads of randy Romans in a huge cloud of dust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely

I lost it a couple of yrs ago"

Is there a sexy graveyard or something? Where's does all this lost sexy go....? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence"

When you're up, send boobs....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty sure I remember how. Not sure about my vagina though.

So anal is ok then....?

No "

Gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs.... "

Thats NSP's job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job "

Tell her to get on it then. And send back up boobs anyway just in case....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job "

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!"

Nothing, that's the problem....

(send boobs )

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!

Nothing, that's the problem....

(send boobs )"

More boobs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!

Nothing, that's the problem....

(send boobs )

More boobs? "

It's been a long while....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!

Nothing, that's the problem....

(send boobs )

More boobs?

It's been a long while...."

But I've already sent boobs today!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence

When you're up, send boobs....

Thats NSP's job

Eh? Me? What did I do this time?!

Nothing, that's the problem....

(send boobs )

More boobs?

It's been a long while....

But I've already sent boobs today!"

Well whoever you sent them to is a lucky fella/girl...

Send boobs to ME plz, thx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexiness has hailed a cab and got the hell out of Dodge this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, you can lose it. I don’t feel I’m sexy at all and half the time when I think about sex it just feels like I’d rather not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My sexiness has hailed a cab and got the hell out of Dodge this year "

Not judging from yesterday's pic....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine is down the back of the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think mine is down the back of the sofa.

"

So whoever next sits on your sofa might get possessed by your sexy.... ....like a sexy trap!

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