FabSwingers.com forum: What compliment/insult has stuck with you?

By *edheadj OP Man
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Inspired by a post in another thread.

Compliment - a guy at college said I had nice legs after he saw me playing hockey. That was over 20 years ago now and I still think about it now and then

Insult - a girl that I worked with around ten years ago said that I'm too timid and would never amount to anything. Always think about that when I'm working on a new project at my current job.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Someone in a shop told me how much a particular colour suited me. I gravitate to it now.

Insults... Ooh we could be here awhile and I don't want to. They tend to light a fire under me, though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Positive im told how kind i am.

Negative Ive been told hiw blunt i come across on the forum otherwise not really any negatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive - I am someone people come to if they need a shoulder or hug.

Insult - I try to let insults go over me because they're just one person's opinion of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my 20s a friend's sister told me i looked much better in the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complements not shour as I get a lot maybe wow can’t believe ur ass is on a mans body

Insults got to be the who want to shag you any way after turning someone down well clearly you did ha ha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm told I've got got a lot of pace for a fat bloke.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Years ago someone told me I looked like an Inca goddess.

. Lord knows what he was on.

I can't recall ever being insulted and taking it seriously. Someone called me a ginger pensioner once,that made me laugh as much as the Inca goddess.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Compliment - a guy at college said I had nice legs after he saw me playing hockey. That was over 20 years ago now and I still think about it now and then

I constantly get complimented on my legs.

But it would be nice if it was the norm that I could wear the clothes that get those compliments.

I'd just like to be a guy, that wears skirts and hosiery.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Compliment - a guy at college said I had nice legs after he saw me playing hockey. That was over 20 years ago now and I still think about it now and then

I constantly get complimented on my legs.

But it would be nice if it was the norm that I could wear the clothes that get those compliments.

I'd just like to be a guy, that wears skirts and hosiery.

It would be great wouldn't it. There was a guy used to walk around in Tunbridge Wells in quite classic, country style skirt and jacket. He had a beard. People would stare and pass comment. I always thought it was a shame he couldn't just go about dressed how he wanted, it's only clothes after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get compliments on my eye colour a lot but no insults, well not to my face...

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Compliment - a guy at college said I had nice legs after he saw me playing hockey. That was over 20 years ago now and I still think about it now and then

I constantly get complimented on my legs.

But it would be nice if it was the norm that I could wear the clothes that get those compliments.

I'd just like to be a guy, that wears skirts and hosiery.

I have a thing for cheongsam's.

I've been out in town in a few and the response from random girls has been 'OMG you look fabulous, I wish I would wear that.', To which I generally reply... 'Why don't you then?'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually the best (and most ridiculous) comment i ever had was that i was the most beautiful woman on the internet

worst was my french teacher saying i would be a dead beat. Hes now serving 8.years for historic crimes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Compliment - a guy at college said I had nice legs after he saw me playing hockey. That was over 20 years ago now and I still think about it now and then

I constantly get complimented on my legs.

But it would be nice if it was the norm that I could wear the clothes that get those compliments.

I'd just like to be a guy, that wears skirts and hosiery.

I have a thing for cheongsam's.

I've been out in town in a few and the response from random girls has been 'OMG you look fabulous, I wish I would wear that.', To which I generally reply... 'Why don't you then?'

I had 2 cheongsam made for me in Malaysia. They're beautiful but I no longer have the 23 inch waist I had when they were made

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I can't really think of 1 positive comment that sticks with me more than anything else. The unfaltering belief of a friend that I was capable of doing the half ironman that I had signed up for and trained for, but was about to pull out of.

Negative comment: a d*unk ex-colleague telling me "if it wasn't for your tits you would have nothing going for you"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Compliment u are crazy in a good way

Insult to many to name ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone tried to insult me by calling me "fat jessica rabbit" however I quite liked it, so a compliment and insult in 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positives don't really stick.

But my first boyfriend told me he didn't like the way I looked, wished I was thinner, more like the girls he saw in porn.

That was the start of a 16 year battle with bulimia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its not easy and i try to focus on the kind complements and forget the negative ones .

Some people will always be ignorent of others feelings. Which is a shame , but it reflects on more the person they are than the wonderful people we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone tried to insult me by calling me "fat jessica rabbit" however I quite liked it, so a compliment and insult in 1

Ha I'd love that too.

My best compliment was in school. A teacher got us all to stand up and say something nice about someone and a boy, who I didn't really know except that he'd had a hellish time with bullies, picked me and said I was never mean to anyone. One of my sisters was bullied terribly and it still affects her now, so I will never get involved in it and that comment has always stuck with me and been my reminder to think of the impact of what you say/do on people you don't even know it matters to.

My annoying, lingering bad ones are all 'jokes' of my exes at my expense. I'm trying not to dwell on them anymore though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a complement years ago somebody said to me I will find that one person to spend the rest of my life with..

Insult the person who told me that I would find somebody to spend the rest of my life with basically told me the other day I deserve to be single because I'm fat..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My first girlfriend broke up with me by saying I was " too nice".

So complimentary on one hand but insulting also as she saw it as a weakness.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Compliment...

When I was single, I'd pulled this lass at the pub. In the pub carpark after closing we snagged on a picnic bench

.... but when she pulled my boxers down she just said "oh wow"

Insult, a guy on Facebook one called me a pheasant... which always tickles me. He obviously meant "peasant" (which is still amusing) .

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can't think of a compliment that's stuck with me. I tend to dismiss positive things people say about me, they don't sit comfortably with me. When I was a kid almost all the other kids parents told there kids they didn't want them playing with me. One mum even said it to my face, I found out later in life that her son went to prison for dealing heroin.

I'll just add most kids ignored their parents and some are still my closest friends and their parents think I'm actually a goodun.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Plenty of insults which have made me stronger

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You've got a big cock for a white guy

and

You're very flexible for someone so unfit

Both from the same person

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"You've got a big cock for a white guy

and

You're very flexible for someone so unfit

Both from the same person"

A keeper

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Guy at work talking about me to a colleague: she'd be absolutely stunning...if she were slim.

Mrs Hughes, primary school head teacher telling my parents not to bother with grammar school for me as it wasn't needed for the jobs I'd get.

I'm in my 60s and recalled her dismissal over the years when I've gone "above my station". Saddest moment was when my dad visited me in my home, the first one I'd bought on my own following my divorce. He looked around and said I never expected coloured to live in a house like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago when i was mid teens i had to start wearing glasses which upset me. My uncle kindly said to me "they make a pretty girl look a beautiful woman" ... he was such a kind man

Im very fat but i used to hate people mentioning it. I worked in a care home and was taking round the cups of tea and i heard one of the old ladies say "she's a big girl". It really upset me and started me on my life long battle with weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A teacher in my senior school said "you aren't as clever as your brother"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum told me they wished i had been a boy !!

I need to stop or I'll be crying all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have thighs like tree trunks. (From my old auntie when I was about 14) that really stuck with me.

You have a very pretty pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliment. When someone always mentions my eyes and how "amazing" they are

Insult. When I was was like 16 some girl at school mentioned the scars on my arms and said I should of cut deeper and to this day I don't like showing my arms off

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

My mates used to call me Rain Man a lot

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Compliment - meeting someone I'd admired for ages and he said I was incredibly erudite and had a beautiful voice he could listen to for hours. Lots of compliments stick with me to be honest, mainly the unexpected, off the cuff ones.

Insult - I try, on the whole, not to dwell on them. There was one the day after my dad died that upset me for a bit but I now can see it for what it was and not get upset by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tend to stick with you if you don't agree with them.

If it's something you already know or think then they fade quite quickly....

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Compliment - meeting someone I'd admired for ages and he said I was incredibly erudite and had a beautiful voice he could listen to for hours. Lots of compliments stick with me to be honest, mainly the unexpected, off the cuff ones.

Insult - I try, on the whole, not to dwell on them. There was one the day after my dad died that upset me for a bit but I now can see it for what it was and not get upset by it."

Oh your voice though Meli

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Was told i had a great bum years ago by a female friend always remember that on the insult i was told that i would amount to nothing from a teacher, i then went on to serve a full 24 years in the Army and achirved quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insult - I try, on the whole, not to dwell on them. There was one the day after my dad died that upset me for a bit but I now can see it for what it was and not get upset by it.

Oh your voice though Meli

She does have one of the sexiest voices I’ve ever heard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insult and compliment combined in a way! College friend often commented to people that I seemed abrupt and unyielding but was all the better for knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone once said 'there's nothing I would change about you'.

Insults 'my last boyfriend was bigger' ouchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliment... I'm often told I'm easy to be with and you can talk to me about anything and people feel more comfortable with me than they do most people.

Insult... That I'm useless, incapable, irresponsible, good for nothing, half a job, thick and ugly. (who needs parents?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Compliment... I'm often told I'm easy to be with and you can talk to me about anything and people feel more comfortable with me than they do most people.

Insult... That I'm useless, incapable, irresponsible, good for nothing, half a job, thick and ugly. (who needs parents?) "

They don't deserve the title of parents if they did that. I hope you've managed to heal. The true ugliness is inside those that inflict their failures on children. It's usually a power thing because they are weak.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm rubbish at remembering compliments, insults though stick like glue. The last one that hurt me badly was someone saying I was an attention seeking bullshitter, that's controlling and manipulative.

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