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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been messages by a couple for ages and were given a weeks notice to arrange a sitter and they have just let us down. We appreciate that family commitments come first and there are unexpected events but it would be nice to have a little notice and why does it always seem to be the people that message you most that let you down? Sure everyone has had it what was your worst let down excuse we need cheering up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos that's life.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once had the it's not you it's us speech!!! Lol and it most definately was them, some people need to think about swinging before they jump in...

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Life's a bitch, these things happen, it's never pleasant arseholes exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hard to give prior notice of an unexpected event!

shit happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad its not just us. Thing was they messaged us 3 times this evening to make sure we had a sitter arranged so we could go to them and then suddenly said can we make it another night ( 1 hour before we were due to leave). Its hard enough to arrange a sitter so to be let down last minute is soooo annoying

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

had the same bloke do it to us 3 times .. think some people just like chatting about it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well they wont get another chance to mess us around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had the same bloke do it to us 3 times .. think some people just like chatting about it ! "

3 times? How did he persuade you to give him a third chance?

2nd chance maybe - but 3rd - must have come up with two pretty good excuses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had the same bloke do it to us 3 times .. think some people just like chatting about it !

3 times? How did he persuade you to give him a third chance?

2nd chance maybe - but 3rd - must have come up with two pretty good excuses! "

That's just what I was thinking!?...

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

had a couple ring us when they were due to leave, to confirm with us we full swap.......

now, i have been accuse dof being too subtle, but i didnt think our profile was that ambiguous.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

It happens to everyone. Including me. It hurts...but you have to bounce back because we are all looking for some fun here... And when you do get a good meet - all the agony of the past is forgotten.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

We have just had this ourselves we arranged a meet in a club that was local to all of us and messaged day of meet to confirm everything then 2 hours after we were due to meet had a message saying they weren't coming (in case we hadn't guessed by then) could we do the next night instead we agreed then they cancelled the afternoon of the meet telling us how genuine they were and sorry for messing us about. We gave them a final chance on Monday and they did it again 2 hours after due time. We reported them and moved on

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"had the same bloke do it to us 3 times .. think some people just like chatting about it !

3 times? How did he persuade you to give him a third chance?

2nd chance maybe - but 3rd - must have come up with two pretty good excuses! "

Don't understand why people do it.

I always meet socially first, if they cancel a social meet I cut all tired no second chances. If they can't spare an hour for a coffee can't see how they'll cope with half a day.

No good deed goes unpunished...as giving someone the benefit if the doubt THRICE shows.

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