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Hotels meets or a host at someone home

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Hello Folk so what would you rather have?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've had both and enjoyed both , depends on circumstances I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel. Its neutral ground then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I wouldn't host at mine, I think hotel, as it's more neutral,. I wouldn't expect someone to host at theirs if I won't host.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel is the way to go for us! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel for us from now on x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Only hotels or air B&B with hot tubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer to accomodate

I never feel fully secure in someone elses space

I am not keen on hotel meets - they always seem somewhat prescribed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would prefer to host but hotel would be fine for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with theirs or mines, but hotels are my favourite

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

For fun meets, I like the hotel. Neutral venue, puts everyone at ease.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hotel, my home is for me and my partner

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I accommodate if local to me, but as I live in the back of beyond I also happily host at a hotel when I’m meeting further afield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do accommodate but prefer hotels

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

we host or travel and do whatever is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels...but only nice hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel.

I'm scared of others bed linen hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to host at mine, but hotels, even the cheap ones are sexy. I don't know why tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I wouldn't host at mine, I think hotel, as it's more neutral,. I wouldn't expect someone to host at theirs if I won't host. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a meet at someone's home as yet, so I can't really compare tbh

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By *alerieCouple
over a year ago

Close by

Preferably mine , definitely no hotel for me unless it's a party .

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hotels, rented apartments and my favourite penthouses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan of hotel meets, I prefer at theirs. I won’t host unless it’s someone trusted.

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

A nice hotel if we're visiting another area and arranged to meet, failing that we meet locally on mutual ground for a social and drinks and if there's a spark and we're comfortable with who we're meeting then we will invite them back to ours if they want to continue to evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels for definet neutral ground and not personal so its juat more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single female = I host

Couple = hotel

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I've had some hotel meets but the majority have been where I have hosted at my home

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Hotels for me.

Hosting I’d only ever do with someone I’d known a long time and trust

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

As above! Prefer hotel meets with new fab friends! But have hosted at my home for a very trusted and select few!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Hotel meets for anyone new that I woulf meet. But I have brought people to my home but only after I know them pretty well and trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel is so clinical. Hate it. Prefer to host at mine or theirs. More intimate and not so 'mechanical'

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Currently, hotel meets and with our good friends a room with two king size beds for us all to crash out in.

In our new house will be a playroom though, so we’ll be hosting then.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We have done both, with single guys or group of guys definitely hotels far more exciting and naughty!

For first play meets with couples mainly hotels.

With establish friends or groups at home with our cellar boudior mmmmm.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Hotels are preferable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If hotel is it fair to split 50 / 50 or does host pay?

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

Neither for now but in the past both though its usually a hotel unless I feel really relaxed with someone.

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"If hotel is it fair to split 50 / 50 or does host pay?"

I’d always pay as the single male!

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Costs are normally divided up equally, but when we are staying there anyways and just do a random invite hey that wouldn't be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always met in peoples homes.

I can't afford hotels and I don't meet people that can't accommodate.

Once trust is established I will host at mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel is so clinical. Hate it. Prefer to host at mine or theirs. More intimate and not so 'mechanical' "

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We prefer hotel meets. Would go to guys home if invited tho. Think easier as a couple but as kids we don't accommodate at ours x

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By *inabedMFMCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We book hotel & invite a male of our choice, always meet for a beer first to relax all 3 of us , hotels all the time for us , the family home is for us

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

First meet hotel for sure,

Check in, go check out the local city, then back to freshen up, then meet at the bar, chats and a drink or 2, banter, flirts

And if all goes well play upstairs, top floor room with a view, curtains stay open,,

Then if there is a 2nd meet back at the house would be OK then.

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By *ipin CiderMan
over a year ago

Warick & London

I always prefer to opt for hotels and don’t accommodate for a couple of reasons;

1. My home is an area with nosey neighbours and I like to keep my private life quiet.

2. Security for me and the things in my house.

I’m happy to pay for a hotel and don’t expect the other person/couple to pay anything for it.

I have met at peoples homes but only when invited and try to respect people’s privacy in doing so

If people don’t like that I won’t accommodate then everyone has their choices and I respect them for it as they should respect my reasons not to accommodate.

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