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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, does anybody have any advice for a single man on this site ? all advice is a help :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pornhub . Com???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, does anybody have any advice for a single man on this site ? all advice is a help :D"

Keep it in your pants until we’re out of this pandemic, unless you have one support bubble?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it "

True story.

We love a good knob pic.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at some profiles, would you say yours stands out in any way? Would you say that you'd stop and say, I'd like to have a chat with him because he sounds like an interesting fellow.

I'm not being facetious or sarcastic. I really mean have have a look around at some profiles and ask yourself those questions. Just pretend you're at a party where the men outnumber the women 10-1. What would you say is the best way to be noticed?

Definitely wit. Be active in the Forum with wit and humour. You'll soon find your legs. Patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add some public photos and be patient you only joined 9 weeks ago in a time when clubs aren’t open and majority of people aren’t meeting

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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During a global pandemic keep any expectations of meeting very low. Use the time to make friends and connections

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it "

winner every time haha

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it

True story.

We love a good knob pic.

E"

How about pics of naughty knobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste and be thirstier than every other guy send women like 10 messages even if they don’t reply keep going persistence is the key.

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it

True story.

We love a good knob pic.

E

How about pics of naughty knobs. "

Thing is fiddles, your knob is already so shiny you can see a reflection in it, so it doesn't need polished. You might be missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send multiple messages, copy and paste,make sure to include dick pictures in first message, message deleted just means send another message....good luck lol

Yes im joking

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it

True story.

We love a good knob pic.

E

How about pics of naughty knobs.

Thing is fiddles, your knob is already so shiny you can see a reflection in it, so it doesn't need polished. You might be missing out"

How does he get it so shining, is it polished regularly?

E

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I hope you're well and finding your way around the site.

I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.

How did you hear about the site?

What do you want from it?

What are your actual expectations?

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Once you've answered those I'll have a better idea of how to answer your question

Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try to be yourself. Be kind and polite to people and understand that just because this is a site to meet ppl and hook up with doesn't mean everyone wants to be with you nor does everyone has to like you. You may or may not be someone's cup of tea tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been trying to rewrite my bio so it reads a bit better as I’m not getting many replies from sent messages or even seeing if who I messaged have even bothered to look at my profile.

I try to tailor each message sent to the profile and not be lazy with generic cut and pasted blurbs or send explicit dick photos but even then I get very few replies and when I do, most are polite “thanks, not my type” turndowns.

I understand that it’s very very hard to connect on here at the moment, but I don’t expect it to be easy to get a meet but sometimes it just seems so unattainable when constantly getting nothing back for the effort I’m putting in.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Hello, does anybody have any advice for a single man on this site ? all advice is a help :D"

Chat with people purely because you like them, not because you have an agenda. Most guys on here want to get the end away, we get that, but if somebody feels the only reason you are bothering talking to them is for what you can get out of them then they are almost certainly going to have no interest in you.

If you can form friendships here, the world is your lobster. If you can't, you're sunk. Friendships first, sex later.

And don't talk to them about sexual stuff until you get to know them or they bring it up. Just be calm and be cool. Good things come to those who wait.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Now *should* in essence be a time for making new connections, however it really isn't.

People are bored, bereaved, lost jobs and lost hope, or the other end of the scale working flat out to keep people alive.

Your profile is your shop window so to speak and peoples first point of call. It's their introduction to you kinda thing.

Mine is hidden but that's coz I'm sick to death of the meet now requests and people who lack respect.

So many women are feeling like they're being viewed as free prostitutes or pieces of meat at the moment.

My main advice is to expect nothing.

Sorry I couldn't be more positive

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hug everyone

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OK I'll bite being as everyone seems to be ignoring your questions...


"How did you hear about the site?"

An article in Crochet Weekly magazine next to the Xmas Table Cloth pattern


"What do you want from it?"

Four candles and some O's


"What are your actual expectations?"

Oh I have great expectations...and the old curiosity shop, little dorritt and bleak house


"Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?"

Webbed feet, an interest in carburettors and tangerines


"If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?"

Right now my toes are freezing so I'll gladly dip them anywhere warm

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"OK I'll bite being as everyone seems to be ignoring your questions...

How did you hear about the site?

An article in Crochet Weekly magazine next to the Xmas Table Cloth pattern

What do you want from it?

Four candles and some O's

What are your actual expectations?

Oh I have great expectations...and the old curiosity shop, little dorritt and bleak house

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

Webbed feet, an interest in carburettors and tangerines

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Right now my toes are freezing so I'll gladly dip them anywhere warm "

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"OK I'll bite being as everyone seems to be ignoring your questions...

How did you hear about the site?

An article in Crochet Weekly magazine next to the Xmas Table Cloth pattern

What do you want from it?

Four candles and some O's

What are your actual expectations?

Oh I have great expectations...and the old curiosity shop, little dorritt and bleak house

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

Webbed feet, an interest in carburettors and tangerines

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Right now my toes are freezing so I'll gladly dip them anywhere warm "

Twin ch0ke Webbers?

E

*A bit moist right now

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"OK I'll bite being as everyone seems to be ignoring your questions...

How did you hear about the site?

An article in Crochet Weekly magazine next to the Xmas Table Cloth pattern

What do you want from it?

Four candles and some O's

What are your actual expectations?

Oh I have great expectations...and the old curiosity shop, little dorritt and bleak house

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

Webbed feet, an interest in carburettors and tangerines

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Right now my toes are freezing so I'll gladly dip them anywhere warm

Twin ch0ke Webbers?

E

*A bit moist right now"

*rubs legs*...even though I have no clue

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it "

Make it a picture of someone else’s dick too

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hello, does anybody have any advice for a single man on this site ? all advice is a help :D"

A lot of women view your profile in stealth, so they won’t show on your views.

A decent profile always helps, pictures and especially face pictures really help.

Use the forums, chat rooms or cam to try to make connections on the site.

And lastly go to socials or clubs if you can, as that’s where you can meet more people and actually participate fully on the scene.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you're well and finding your way around the site.

I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.

___________________________________

I'm fairly new here. I'll answer your questions.

How did you hear about the site?

I overheard someone talk about it who had been keeping it a secret.

What do you want from it?

I came to see what it was. I didn't know what I wanted. Now, just companionship and a distraction.

What are your actual expectations?

I'm not here to seek meetings, contrary to it's purpose perhaps.

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

I expected people to be open and more accepting of other's peculiarities and characteristics.

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Yes, but my reason for coming was not the standard reason for everyone else, nor any of my answers, I suspect. Having said that, free is better as I suspect it helps people get a feel for it who then decide to join. I did and all I meant to do was come and see what it is.

It's just one person's experience that says this site is not only about wanting to meet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Send a dick pic with every random faf message, the ladies love it

Make it a picture of someone else’s dick too"

Wanna swap dick pics then?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I hope you're well and finding your way around the site.

I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.

___________________________________

I'm fairly new here. I'll answer your questions.

How did you hear about the site?

I overheard someone talk about it who had been keeping it a secret.

What do you want from it?

I came to see what it was. I didn't know what I wanted. Now, just companionship and a distraction.

What are your actual expectations?

I'm not here to seek meetings, contrary to it's purpose perhaps.

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

I expected people to be open and more accepting of other's peculiarities and characteristics.

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Yes, but my reason for coming was not the standard reason for everyone else, nor any of my answers, I suspect. Having said that, free is better as I suspect it helps people get a feel for it who then decide to join. I did and all I meant to do was come and see what it is.

It's just one person's experience that says this site is not only about wanting to meet."

Thank you.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"OK I'll bite being as everyone seems to be ignoring your questions...

How did you hear about the site?

An article in Crochet Weekly magazine next to the Xmas Table Cloth pattern

What do you want from it?

Four candles and some O's

What are your actual expectations?

Oh I have great expectations...and the old curiosity shop, little dorritt and bleak house

Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?

Webbed feet, an interest in carburettors and tangerines

If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?

Right now my toes are freezing so I'll gladly dip them anywhere warm

Twin ch0ke Webbers?

E

*A bit moist right now

*rubs legs*...even though I have no clue "

Carburettors.

E

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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Twin ch0ke Webbers?

E

*A bit moist right now

*rubs legs*...even though I have no clue

Carburettors.

E"

I'd guessed as much

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Knob pictures

Body pictures

Face pictures

Sincere thoughtful messages

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