FabSwingers.com forum: Not meeting at all

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

Exhibitionism? Compliments? A thrill? A chance to show people their pics?

Why worry about their motives? If they like to post pics, it's their profile--they run it as they wish.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm no expert but I think they expect people to respect their decision to not want meets, the sexy naked pics are irrelevant to that decision Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any naked pics, not for public viewing anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't really understand the question. Are they going to be forced to meet because someone enjoys their sexy pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

But you are saying, hey look at my sexy torso that you can't lick and nibble

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Fab is just social, not just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are multiple reasons.

Maybe they like posting pics

Maybe they enjoy the forum.

Maybe they are making connections for when this is over.

Maybe it is about their reasons and not anyone else’s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'm no expert but I think they expect people to respect their decision to not want meets, the sexy naked pics are irrelevant to that decision Imo."

This.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

Well they're obviously not expecting anything other than respect for their decision, the expectation it would seem is yours.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others "

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

Do you recommend I take down my pics until covid allows the clubs to reopen?

This site’s going to be pretty dull without any sexiness.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

Do you recommend I take down my pics until covid allows the clubs to reopen?

This site’s going to be pretty dull without any sexiness.

Don’t you dare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is packed to the rafters with narcissistic women ,many of whom cant cash the cheques they write.

I prefer the oned that say NO DICK PIX then notice on their photos loads of pix with cocks of every colour in every hole.similer to a novelty NHS pin cushion.

Soooooo romantic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it! "
don't worry mate there always someone who gets their knickers in a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it! don't worry mate there always someone who gets their knickers in a twist

You are missing the point though OP.

You have your sexy body on show which is a tease.

So therefore should you not have clothes on?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

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And herein lies the problem...

You’re not entitled to anything from someone just because they post sexy pics. You don’t get to ignore what their profile says just because they flash a bit of tit. It’s not mixed messages. Reading the words they’re written is the only way to determine if they might want to hear from you. A picture is not a green light.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it! don't worry mate there always someone who gets their knickers in a twist

You are missing the point though OP.

You have your sexy body on show which is a tease.

So therefore should you not have clothes on?"
my profile doest state not meeting at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And herein lies the problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it! "

That’s pretty much how I read it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

Do you recommend I take down my pics until covid allows the clubs to reopen?

This site’s going to be pretty dull without any sexiness.

Don’t you dare

I’m afraid I await instructions from the op.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically all women now need to remove the explicit pictures so the guys don't get erections and turned on that way when the guy looks at their profile he won't get a hard-on .

We are all in a pandemic and the ones that are meeting up none of us can stop them.. it's their choice to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"The site is packed to the rafters with narcissistic women ,many of whom cant cash the cheques they write.

I prefer the oned that say NO DICK PIX then notice on their photos loads of pix with cocks of every colour in every hole.similer to a novelty NHS pin cushion.

Soooooo romantic."

What an awful attitude. So someone should have to endure a barrage of dick pics from whoever fancies sending one, just because they post pics showing that they’ve had sex? I don’t think it’s ever the case that someone wants to see all the dicks in the world just because they happen to like having sex with men. 99% of the dick pics I’ve seen are grotesque (to me) and would definitely prefer that they hadn’t been thrust into my inbox uninvited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my profile doest state not meeting at all

Gotcha

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

I think it's upsetting people because women are constantly told they "asked for it" if they dress provocatively. I should be able to walk down the street naked and be safe, we all know this isn't the case. You're words of what do they expect is inflammatory to many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got one of those not meeting profiles. I’ve put my pics to friends only cos I’m not trying to attract anyone to look at my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

I’m only upset because you’ve not given me any guidance even though I’ve asked twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've deliberately worded my profile so it's just a "about me" and I have nothing about what I'm looking for.

Once things allow my profile will be totally different.

But I do like to have sexy pics up, it's not to tease, it's just to show what I look like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

I’m only upset because you’ve not given me any guidance even though I’ve asked twice.

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just do what you feel is necessary don't listen to me I'm a single guy my opinion is irrelevant on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve got one of those not meeting profiles. I’ve put my pics to friends only cos I’m not trying to attract anyone to look at my profile. "
I highly doubt there's any men who are 99 on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

I’m only upset because you’ve not given me any guidance even though I’ve asked twice.

just do what you feel is necessary don't listen to me I'm a single guy my opinion is irrelevant on here

You’re part of my target audience so I, of course, listen to feedback.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"I don't really understand the question. Are they going to be forced to meet because someone enjoys their sexy pictures?

Yes. The pictures of boobies and foofs are what the Pied Piper is to rats......

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I enjoy taking photos.

My mojo has left the building though.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

No one is entitled to anybody in life. No means no.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Can't even have ligh hearted banter on here without upsetting half the forum

My kids should be able to walk down the street without seeing any nakedness thanks very much.

I'm not sure I've seen any she asked for it comments in forums but I bow to your better opinion. I thought it was a bit of light hearted and complimentary commentary I'm sure no offence was intended. I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really ARE men who still think like this

Sad

Really sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis the season to be jolly, tra la la la laaaah, le la la lahhhh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the forums are the perfect place to lose any feelings of horny you may have

See some pics you like?

Feeling a bit frisky?

Don't message anyone

Come here instead

We'll knock the frisky right out of ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn at the ready.

I'm not meeting.. umm pandemic

I can add change my photos.. as I'm a big grown up girl and dont need your permission..

I see a Maserati for sale dont mean I'm gonna have it.. nice things to look at put a smile on my face.

Oh yes I chat to friends..cos I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exhibitionism? Compliments? A thrill? A chance to show people their pics?

Why worry about their motives? If they like to post pics, it's their profile--they run it as they wish."

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the forums are the perfect place to lose any feelings of horny you may have

See some pics you like?

Feeling a bit frisky?

Don't message anyone

Come here instead

We'll knock the frisky right out of ya

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some right miserable gits on here today

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some right miserable gits on here today

I wouldn't say that, we are in difficult times and all feeling it.

Stress, loneliness, anxiety, sexual frustration etc

Life isn't easy right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guyzzz....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

May be they want you to click “I think it’s fab” and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing."
keep at it its working

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some right miserable gits on here today

I wouldn't say that, we are in difficult times and all feeling it.

Stress, loneliness, anxiety, sexual frustration etc

Life isn't easy right now

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its all about perception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

BIG* even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

BIG* even

Means try harder not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was under the impression you could Fab sexy pics on Fab.

Some females love a Fabbed pic nothing wrong with feeling appreciated and lusted after.

Keep teasing the males who couldn't get a shag in a free brothel I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

BIG* even

Means try harder not enough

Omg, that means my pics are shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So because I show of my pics I have to fuck Tom, dick and Harry?

I’m not meeting (although most aren’t because of covid) but I have partners so I don’t need others

I don't think the op has said that. Or anything like it. Simply that there's some amazing profiles and pics in the "shop window" and it's a bit of a tease saying you can look but you can't touch..

. Rather like taking a kid into a sweetshop and saying... "All these sweeties taste amazing... Go and have a look at all the pretty sweetie jars....now let's go because you can't have any"

At least that's how I read it! don't worry mate there always someone who gets their knickers in a twist

No knickers in the twist here

. It just gets on my tits the amount of messages I get saying you shouldn’t be here if your not meeting, why post pics if your not meeting etc etc maybe spend a day reading the shit I get then you will realise why your post made me roll my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like hey look at all this sexiness you can't have

This definitely! I do it on purpose

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"And herein lies the problem...

There are lots that do see it that way though unfortunately. And for those on the frustrating receiving end, it’s not all that funny

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

Don't bring bugs into the argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

BIG* even

I fabbed it, what more do you need! You can retire- happy now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

BIG* even

Means try harder not enough

Omg, that means my pics are shit

that’s what they want u to feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

Don't bring bugs into the argument

Bug is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And just to point out here I'm not angry or moaning. Just making conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added pics yesterday and NOBODY has offered to shag me...

It's all a bug fat lie!

Don't bring bugs into the argument

What makes you off from bugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing."

I made and posted my videos to provide people something to visually stimulate them to aid self gratification.

I hope that works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing.

I made and posted my videos to provide people something to visually stimulate them to aid self gratification.

I hope that works

Absolutely so much heartily thanks

. Might see them once again if I may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw imagine you logged in tomorrow and there were no pics though! It would be boring AF. Even in normal times I'm unlikely to ever meet 99.9999% of folk on here but I still want to perv their photos

, let us have one concession in 2020 man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing.

I made and posted my videos to provide people something to visually stimulate them to aid self gratification.

I hope that works

Absolutely so much heartily thanks

. Might see them once again if I may

Feel free to watch on repeat x

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing."

And you do and it is. In my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of profiles saying this and stuff like only here to catch up with old friends or use the forums. Then they have loads of sexy naked pics.

what do they expect really

I post pics to hopefully cheer folk up in these dismal times. If i can make a few people smile than that surely can only be a good thing.

I made and posted my videos to provide people something to visually stimulate them to aid self gratification.

I hope that works

Absolutely so much heartily thanks

. Might see them once again if I may

Feel free to watch on repeat x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy lurking their pics for them!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I haven’t met off here for years, not sure my pics are sexy or alluring tho

I just like hanging around

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My pictures since March have been mainly for forum challenges.

Unfortunately many many many people have the attitude of "why are you here if you ain't here to fuck?" hence my profile now hidden and me not taking part in any more picture challenges. It's a shame as it was a way of expressing myself and getting creative, but right now it feels like even that is getting me classed as a time-wasting prick tease who has no right to be here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm a show off. It's that simple

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"I'm a show off. It's that simple"

Nice, very nice.......

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not meeting til I feel safe to do so, but I am still chatting to people that I may click with and meet after this.

People can run their profile how they want, they are frustrated too I imagine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm a show off. It's that simple

Nice, very nice.......

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