FabSwingers.com forum: Be honest what really makes you sad ???

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Cruelty to animals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait is this a joke and I've missed the punchline? I've never seen you do a serious thread.....?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Finishing a bottle of nice whisky.

I’ll tell you what makes me sick.

Drinking a gallon of salt water and sticking my fingers down my throat, that makes me sick.

You can have that one on me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cruelty to animals

Agreed and cruelty to people

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By *akjourneyMan
over a year ago

Weston

Taking my kids back to the ex wife.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sad things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People struggling with mental help only so much you can do to help them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead goldfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The impending death of the art of conversation.

The cruelty that humans inflict on fellow humans, animals and our planet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Taking my kids back to the ex wife."

Yes sad.... always two sides mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister lives in Canada, my 2yr old niece has a brain tumor that's grown the last 6 months.

They need to operate and she may lose mobility.

Myself, Mam + Dad can't go over there as all 3 of us are vulnerable to Covid and the travel restrictions and quarantine rules would make it really difficult to do.

I often cry about this also.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What made me really, really sad was seeing those two priests in tears on Monday because of the poverty they were seeing day to day.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Seeing kids hurt - i can't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any cruelty to animals breaks my heart no place for it in this world.

On a lighter note, when the chinese is closed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My sister lives in Canada, my 2yr old niece has a brain tumor that's grown the last 6 months.

They need to operate and she may lose mobility.

Myself, Mam + Dad can't go over there as all 3 of us are vulnerable to Covid and the travel restrictions and quarantine rules would make it really difficult to do.

I often cry about this also."

That's dreadful, no kid should experience anything like that. Thoughts are with you and your family x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my kids are sad

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Having a great conversation on here and then getting blocked and not knowing what I’d said or down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cruelty to animals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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That we are not a third world country and there are homeless people on the streets. Also war and how it fucks people’s lives up.

And on top of that pollution and how we as humans generally don’t give a fuck about anyone but ourselves. I say this generally, as it’s not always the case. But all industry seems to do is pollute for profit and ra pe the planets resources without giving back. And poverty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it."

Aww I am so sorry to hear that. We are going through the same thing. Our boy is in the early stages of heart failure.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Animal and child cruelty.

This could easily be shortened to people instead as its only ever perpetrated by bloody people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it."

I lost my boy last week. Has broke my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being made redundant, the current job market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it."

Hugs to you

I also am dreading the day I have to say goodbye to my dog, they make your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it.

I lost my boy last week. Has broke my heart. "

Hugs and love to you. Hope your okay

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm struggling with massive loss at the moment.

I even find it hard to talk about.

Im sure it's happened to lots of others, but when it happens to you - it always seems worse.

I lost a tenner. Hi could've sworn it was,in my wallet, but........

Sad days.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Im caring for my mum... she's 85 and still trundling around with her walker..she fell the other day so I'm staying 24/7 at the moment.shes not been able to leave the house for ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm struggling with massive loss at the moment.

I even find it hard to talk about.

Im sure it's happened to lots of others, but when it happens to you - it always seems worse.

I lost a tenner. Hi could've sworn it was,in my wallet, but........

Sad days.

Have a look in your jacket inside pocket in about 2 weeks time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it.

I lost my boy last week. Has broke my heart.

Hugs and love to you. Hope your okay

Thank you. It’s appreciated. I’m getting there. Just fighting the urge to give another dog a home too soon.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I'm struggling with massive loss at the moment.

I even find it hard to talk about.

Im sure it's happened to lots of others, but when it happens to you - it always seems worse.

I lost a tenner. Hi could've sworn it was,in my wallet, but........

Sad days.

Have a look in your jacket inside pocket in about 2 weeks time

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it's down the back of the sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my closest friends and colleagues took his own life last week. That makes sadder than words can describe.

In general, people- their actions and words make me sad.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Currently, I think the current Covid situation is quite depressing. The combination of isolation and the 'unknown' about what our futures will be like does make me quite sad.

It possibly doesn't help that we are just about to go into what I consider to be the saddest holiday season of the year too!

I must be truthful and say I am not at all optimistic for the new ' normal' everyone else appears to be.

Unlike some others, I just can't simply laugh it off and it is not doing my mental health much good either. I think that applies to quite a lot of people now.

Having said that I can see why we are in this situation and very much against the people who keep flouting the rules. All that does is make the whole thing longer for us all and means we stay sadder for longer :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People being cruel to animals

People too afraid to be who they are

Old people, when they are proud but struggling (I could cry every time I see my parents)

People without a voice

Seeing how divisive this country has become

I could go on for hours

There's a lot that makes me sad these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing scared or worried kids/teenagers

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"One of my closest friends and colleagues took his own life last week. That makes sadder than words can describe.

In general, people- their actions and words make me sad."

Oh dear.. that is sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my closest friends and colleagues took his own life last week. That makes sadder than words can describe.

In general, people- their actions and words make me sad."

I had a good friend at school who did that, no note, no explaination. I spoke to him a few hours before, not even the slightest indication that something was wrong. 30 years later I still feel hollow. I hope you can move on, and if they offer you counselling - honestly just try it x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Some people's actions make me sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it.

I lost my boy last week. Has broke my heart.

Hugs and love to you. Hope your okay

Thank you. It’s appreciated. I’m getting there. Just fighting the urge to give another dog a home too soon. "

I feel for you. Sending

It's breaking my heart and I'm trying to mentally prepare for it. Im dreading it. She's my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Stories like these put everything into perspective doesn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading threads like this which remind me of my dog I held whilst the vet had to give a mercy fatal injection. Then the shit of a narcissist who is using his kids in a bad way to get at my daughter. Then my son who has ptsd after his mate was killed in the green zone in Afghan.. mans inhumanity to man sucks. Mmmmm makes me sad.

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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago

dunstable

Being cruel to animals, yes but also the homelessness around the country, not always through any sort of addiction either, oh and mans inhumanity to man, why would you hate someone so much that you would snuff out their life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's inability to pull themselves out of darkness. I can't relate, or understand it. It makes me sad for them though.

And people who are never happy with what they have but always want more. They will just never have enough. This was my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My sister lives in Canada, my 2yr old niece has a brain tumor that's grown the last 6 months.

They need to operate and she may lose mobility.

Myself, Mam + Dad can't go over there as all 3 of us are vulnerable to Covid and the travel restrictions and quarantine rules would make it really difficult to do.

I often cry about this also.

That's dreadful, no kid should experience anything like that. Thoughts are with you and your family x"

Thank you, it means a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of my dog dying.

She's 15 and I see her deteriorate day on day.

I often cry about it.

I lost my boy last week. Has broke my heart.

Hugs and love to you. Hope your okay

Thank you. It’s appreciated. I’m getting there. Just fighting the urge to give another dog a home too soon.

I feel for you. Sending

It's breaking my heart and I'm trying to mentally prepare for it. Im dreading it. She's my life."

Thinking about you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I act the fool on here and joke all the time.

Laughter is my medicine

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being ignored by the woman I love....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People's inability to pull themselves out of darkness. I can't relate, or understand it. It makes me sad for them though.

And people who are never happy with what they have but always want more. They will just never have enough. This was my ex

Peoples brains are all connected differently. Some people can cope and others can’t.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"What made me really, really sad was seeing those two priests in tears on Monday because of the poverty they were seeing day to day."

I happen to see that, too, and found it really sad. They were not making a show of it, they came across as so genuinely upset with the situation - I thought they were lovely.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Kids being bullied

Children witnessing Domestic Abuse.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Cruelty to animals

The song Puff the magic dragon.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Being cruel to animals, yes but also the homelessness around the country, not always through any sort of addiction either, oh and mans inhumanity to man, why would you hate someone so much that you would snuff out their life? "

Totally agree. Most of us are literally a couple of months away from being homeless if we lose our jobs and have a family to look after. Homelessness just like Covid does not distinguish between status, age etc. even though apparently people who live on or below the poverty line, are more susceptible. Nobody, especially children and elderly people should have to live below the poverty line in this country.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Lots of things! Been crying alot lately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from all the usual things mentioned above and fears of something happening to my boys. It is the 3am sleepless nights when I feel so lonely. When as good as I am at being single I really don't want to be. The fact there's no one for me to face the world with and I shoulder everything alone. The fear that I'm probably never going to find the person that loves me as much as I love them, a soul mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what kind of a man we are talking about. A pedo, murdered someone, rap, abuses men,women then I’d gladly hate them.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Dead goldfish

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what about breakdancing GoldFish?

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Depends what kind of a man we are talking about. A pedo, murdered someone, rap, abuses men,women then I’d gladly hate them. "

I think she was generally talking about how people can be so cruel to another human?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

It makes me sad to see couples and females who are unable to have children then look at the lowlife who pop them out and do not care for or feed them properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what kind of a man we are talking about. A pedo, murdered someone, rap, abuses men,women then I’d gladly hate them.

I think she was generally talking about how people can be so cruel to another human?"

It was a he. And fair enough. But some people deserve the hate they get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurting children makes me devastated

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Not being able to say sorry to someone I loved dearly, who’s life I made a real mess of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my closest friends and colleagues took his own life last week. That makes sadder than words can describe.

In general, people- their actions and words make me sad."

I’m so sorry to hear that.

Suicide is the thing that makes me sadder than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything at the moment, I’ve been watching The Crown and cried when Churchill retired !!!!

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

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Killing a kitten, no option but I wish there had been. Poor mite

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"My sister lives in Canada, my 2yr old niece has a brain tumor that's grown the last 6 months.

They need to operate and she may lose mobility.

Myself, Mam + Dad can't go over there as all 3 of us are vulnerable to Covid and the travel restrictions and quarantine rules would make it really difficult to do.

I often cry about this also."

Oh, Cindi. Much love. Lost a good friend this year to something similar. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much love. Lost a good friend this year to something similar. Xx"

Thank you, so sorry for your loss.

Hugs x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Much love. Lost a good friend this year to something similar. Xx

Thank you, so sorry for your loss.

Hugs x

Right back at ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being with my kids all the time

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

People lying about me.

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