FabSwingers.com forum: Love or Money......

By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

So if you could only have one in your life,which would you choose?

If you choose money,it will be in abundance, you will never want for anything again and can have whatever you desire that money can buy....but,you will never have love.

However,if you choose love,it will be forever and 100% true....but,you will forever struggle to make ends meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money.

Love just complicates things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are we struggling to make ends meet or living in poverty where we are hungry most days and cold in the winter. because love doesn't keep you warm and fed on its own

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By *usiclover84Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love.

I could quite happily live in a cardboard box with the right person

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Love

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By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"Are we struggling to make ends meet or living in poverty where we are hungry most days and cold in the winter. because love doesn't keep you warm and fed on its own"

You have the absolute bare minimum to survive but not hungry and cold....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% money.

I’ve gone without love for years and struggled financially and I know exactly which makes my life easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love? Nah never again so be the cash for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are we struggling to make ends meet or living in poverty where we are hungry most days and cold in the winter. because love doesn't keep you warm and fed on its own

You have the absolute bare minimum to survive but not hungry and cold...."

Probably love then but it's not easy to live part of your life with the bare minimum let alone all of it so I'm glad it's not a choice I have to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to be all romantic and say Love. We can live on the beach and make jewellery from sea shells to get by and eat seaw*eed and crabs

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends. Would it be true true?

Would it be faithful?

Would it moan about the financial struggle and blame me?

If we're talking guarantee of a "perfect" relationship with no insecurity, cheating and all the other stuff that's seemingly fucking "normal" then yeah, I'd head there.

Other than that, fuck it. I'll take the money and vanish with my besties to an island with just us, all we need and wildlife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my looks, I'd have more chance of shacking up with beautiful women if I had millions of pounds in my bank account.

Money for me please!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Money as I feel I can help close family who need it the most. Also build tech for charities. I'd love to do that.

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By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"Depends. Would it be true true?

Would it be faithful?

Would it moan about the financial struggle and blame me?

If we're talking guarantee of a "perfect" relationship with no insecurity, cheating and all the other stuff that's seemingly fucking "normal" then yeah, I'd head there.

Other than that, fuck it. I'll take the money and vanish with my besties to an island with just us, all we need and wildlife."

True love,no cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take the money, thanks.

My belongingness needs could be fulfilled with intimate friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Money please, yes money.

It may not buy me love, but I'll settle for the Lamborghini at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money please, the trick is even if you have love, how long will this love last then?

And this year has already been tough so I don't want any more of this tbh

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Money for sure I'm done with love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money please, yes money.

It may not buy me love, but I'll settle for the Lamborghini at the moment.

Money may not buy love but it buys passion and that is a lot of fun!!

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Love, That one person can make your world but can you truly be happy with material things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money and the love follows

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Definitely love when me and my husband first started out we didn’t have much as we were in college but we had each other ..Couldn’t really imagine being without him..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"100% money.

I’ve gone without love for years and struggled financially and I know exactly which makes my life easier."

Wow.. I’d say the opposite. Had more than we need for most our lives, but when love isn’t right, nothing else has any real value

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Money. I can live without love quite easily. Money would enable me to travel and retire early and buy myself some nice things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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It's not only material things. It's experiences that lack of money cannot buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No love at all or just no being "in love"?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"No love at all or just no being "in love"? "

Awwww. spoiler..... love is a verb not a noun , there’s no being in love , it’s just a fuzzy feeling in the first few weeks when you don’t notice they fart...

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll have the money. I can buy someone to love me long time........ for an hr at least

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By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"No love at all or just no being "in love"? "

You can have love from family and friends but no love for or from a partner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Money.

Love is beautiful but is hard to maintain when you're grindingly poor. Having been there I can tell you the "we was poor but we was 'appy" trope is horseshit.

With money but without love I can still have passion, respect, amity, fellowship - if I need more I'll buy myself a puppy.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Love.

There are always ways to gain money.

Love isn't guarenteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love - because I will be rich in what truly matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No love at all or just no being "in love"?

You can have love from family and friends but no love for or from a partner...."

Money then... I am not wanting a partner again so that's an easy one

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Money.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Money

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Love!

No question, For me.

Jo.Xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Both

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

How about peace and love

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The love of a rich man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well just as iv all ways thought lol

Lady’s love money more than the person psml

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well just as iv all ways thought lol

Lady’s love money more than the person psml

Please, not this tired old statement!

No, they do not love a man any less than his money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No love at all or just no being "in love"?

You can have love from family and friends but no love for or from a partner...."

As I'm already there and surviving, I'll take the money..

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"The love of a rich man

I like this

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Hmmmm tricky. I’m assuming you mean partner rather than kids/siblings/parents.

I think money. If I can have sex and friends then I’m good.

Where do I sign?

V x

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By *ottoncandy42Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Love.

I could quite happily live in a cardboard box with the right person "

I totally agree with this..

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Love every time

Whereas my sister would say money and never find contentment

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By *lanor the FairWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Definitely money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an attitude where nothing is unattainable, so I wouldn't be bothered by either choice tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love every time

Whereas my sister would say money and never find contentment"

You'll be surprised how contented money can make some people feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you xx for your time

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'd want to be middle of the road with both. Happy to work for both, else how would you appreciate either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is cheese an option?

I have no luck with the other two. But cheese is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money wins, hands down! As long as I'm allowed to pump all those gorgeous women with all the money I've got!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True love is worth more than money

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Money, obviously.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True love is worth more than money "

".....aaaannnnddddd CUT. Print it. Excellent. Get those to editing. Well done ladies and gentleman, great day's filming...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True love is worth more than money

".....aaaannnnddddd CUT. Print it. Excellent. Get those to editing. Well done ladies and gentleman, great day's filming....""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money every time ! Love just hurts , I always fall in love with unobtainable married women, and I’ve done it again !!

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By *roggrt1919Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love as money can’t fix the mistake you made in the past

No matter how much money you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end. "

As I've said before, possessions are meaningless but money has bought an awful lot of fun, given charities funds that do good for others, helped friends, given experiences that money CAN buy......there are different types of love and money DOES 'buy' (but its generosity, not 'buying') love of other sorts that can be just as fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lived on the bare minimum a few times and survived. So; given that, send me love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day "

Not based on circumstance. Based on experience of both, which would you rather have.

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By *ustforfun49Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

Love it's always nice to feel loved.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Money.....love has left me high and dry at times where I've given my all and they gave it all to someone else instead and im quite happy with my lot right now as it is.

Plus its far more comfortable to have no love sitting in a big posh house being pawed over by gorgeous gold diggers and with a garage full of exotica than it is to be loved hiding from the rain in a cardboard box wondering where your next bin meal is coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have money. I have enough to live on and that's all I need. I have love of family and friends, but not 'the one'. I'd like to find someone, if they're out there.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd choose love over money any day because it's actually more valuable than money itself and feeling secure within the relationship

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By *roggrt1919Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Not based on circumstance. Based on experience of both, which would you rather have."

Love

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By *roggrt1919Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I don't have money. I have enough to live on and that's all I need. I have love of family and friends, but not 'the one'. I'd like to find someone, if they're out there."

Me too I hope there is someone for both of us

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

C.R.E.A.M.

cash rules everything around me.

Money for the experience and the doors it open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love... always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've always wanted love but still I just scraped through every month paying the bills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money.....love has left me high and dry at times where I've given my all and they gave it all to someone else instead and im quite happy with my lot right now as it is.

Bravo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until someone can show me love is trustworthy, it's money.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've neither money nor love (aside from friends, my son and my dad)

Yes money makes things more comfortable of course, however it can leave you empty without any love.

I've been on my knees financially (I'm talking food bank and no electricity on my knees) and the love of friends and my doggo got me through.

If the question had doubts that the love of a partner would be the loyal, non cheaty kind then I'd have defo gone for money tho, but not if it meant losing my friends.

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By *yd Charisse 10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

No job so money

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Rather make love with multiple in a mansion pool than just one on the side of a city pavement lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather make love with multiple in a mansion pool than just one on the side of a city pavement lol "

YESS. We are such shallow people but I don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bitter and twisted. In money, I trust.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end. "

Money pays for a lot more than just physical stuff.

Having been without both, I know from experience which one I missed, and it was money.

Love doesn't stop you starving. Love doesn't stop you being homeless. Love doesn't stop you dying from exposure in a shop doorway because you can't afford to participate in society.

All of my problems can be fixed with money. All of my desires can be fulfilled with money. Money can help people in a way that my love can't.

As I say whenever anyone brings up the noxious "Money can't buy you happiness" rubbish: Give me all of your money and prove it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money.

My mum used to tell me as a child 'money can't buy you happiness'....however if I have the money I can sort out my own happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love.

I'm a resourceful girl, so I can build a house, grow food, raise animals and do it with what the land has to offer.

What I can't grow or raise on the land, is love. That happens once or twice in a lifetime, so I'd rather nurture it and keep love close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if you could only have one in your life,which would you choose?

If you choose money,it will be in abundance, you will never want for anything again and can have whatever you desire that money can buy....but,you will never have love.

However,if you choose love,it will be forever and 100% true....but,you will forever struggle to make ends meet...."

I have already made that choice you describe above

sacrificed love for a very comfortable living, complicated situation but your statement above describes my situation exactly.

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Money.

Love just complicates things."

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

You could have lots of money but still love yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end. "

Try that when the 15" dildo comes out of the bedside draw..

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love!

When you have love you are the richest people in the world and want for nothing.

Without love nothing has a value and you have nothing, which can be good as you don't realise how poor your life is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money.

My mum used to tell me as a child 'money can't buy you happiness'....however if I have the money I can sort out my own happiness.

Hear, hear!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love.

I'm a resourceful girl, so I can build a house, grow food, raise animals and do it with what the land has to offer.

What I can't grow or raise on the land, is love. That happens once or twice in a lifetime, so I'd rather nurture it and keep love close to me. "

I'm too lazy to do all that. I'd rather pay someone else to do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when you give everything to love and it betrays you, it's very hard to not see the loyalty of money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money can't buy you love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money.

I've been in love and been really poor and know which one is painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money can't buy you love!

No, but if you don't want love, money is great

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Love because with it you can move mountains

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Money every time

Its a lot easier to be on your own in a roller than on a push bike

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

full love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought....

Definitely love....

Who's to say that love couldn't be with multi-millionaire,??!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither and then I can have some of each

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

As love is only a chemical reaction, show me the money!

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

They say money cant buy you happiness but when you are with someone you truly love,I wouldn't give that up for anything. Love for me.

Coming from someone who is permanently in his overdraft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought....

Definitely love....

Who's to say that love couldn't be with multi-millionaire,??!!!!

because he chose money??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love x "

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