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By *rinked69 OP   Man
over a year ago

naughty

What do people think of this subject and what does it bring to your relationship if you are a couple or just looking for that ultimate pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love BDSM.

It's a side of me I've always been fascinated with and I've always been experimenting with it.

Once restrictions allow and when the dungeons open its the very first thing I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect the new toy will be a xmas tree wrapper lol just seen a gf been put through one hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BDSM is a bit of an umbrella term and can mean different things to different people.

For me, it allows us to play. We both switch and so depending on what we're up to, we have an opportunity to give up control.

The level of trust and faith in each other is huge...can lead to some mind blowing moments

Lu

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Not something you do with a random, but a trusted partner.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It means so many different things to different people. And you don't necessarily be in a relationship to play.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"BDSM is a bit of an umbrella term and can mean different things to different people.

For me, it allows us to play. We both switch and so depending on what we're up to, we have an opportunity to give up control.

The level of trust and faith in each other is huge...can lead to some mind blowing moments

Lu "

Fully agree, mr H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above, umbrella term for so much.

There's lots I love, dungeon is a great place to be but I've had lots of enjoyable moments in just play too.

I miss it!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've been into BDSM for quite some time.its as much about the phycological effect as the physical if not more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BDSM.

It's a side of me I've always been fascinated with and I've always been experimenting with it.

Once restrictions allow and when the dungeons open its the very first thing I'm doing "

Oh, what a surprise!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We like a bit of BDSM as it helps give us a more fulfilling relationship.

But has been said, BDSM is an umbrella term and each dynamic is different and unique to the people within it.

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By *aster C the kinksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington

TRUST. Handing over control and power to someone you trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a small community of experienced, enthusiasts here; I am one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BDSM.

It's a side of me I've always been fascinated with and I've always been experimenting with it.

Once restrictions allow and when the dungeons open its the very first thing I'm doing

Oh, what a surprise!! "

Will you be joining me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I discovered this side to my sexuality and play. I can be sure I will always want to incorporate it in certain ways throughout my sexlife for the rest of my life!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said it can mean different things to different people it covers such a broad spectrum, from the occasional bit of kink to spice up a sex life, through to quite extreme and 24/7 experiences - it's down to the individuals concerned to define what it means to them as there is no single catch all definition.

For me, my submissive side was something I uncovered during a chance conversation in my early/mid 30s and one which, the more the conversation continued, the more things that had always been there started to make sense - it's quite an innate thing for me, but it's also not all consuming and something I *have* to explore - in fact my "hands on" experience of D/s is very limited - I have however been lucky enough that I am able to indulge various facets of it without the D/s element of it being either prominent or there at all.

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