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Veri's, Seems a bit unfair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what peoples thoughts are on losing verifications from someone who leaves the site? We still know people who have stopped swinging, (or use alternatives other than sites to play) and that we have played with, but lost the verifications when they no longer use Fab. Looking at our profile we haven't met for over a year, although we actually have. ???

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

The summary remains though even if the veri doesnt, so it would still show that youve met more recently

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It’s fine OP. It happens to us all. I’d rather the site operated this way so that if I ever delete my account I’d only leave old faceless forum posts.

I wouldn’t worry about it. You can replenish them when we can meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't showing your veris or verification status bar so not really sure how it makes a difference to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications don't prove anything. There's a real world outside Fab. People don't just fuck people they meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry at all OP I agree with the posts above

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Doesn't bother me in the slightest as I don't measure my worth in terms of the number of veris, and I have the memories of the time spent which is more important to me.

For those wanting to know, or placing importance on, when I was last verified my summary shows that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 meet, 1 veri, 1 woman left site.

100% success rate in repelling Fab women. Form an orderly queue ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this also but it's not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 meet, 1 veri, 1 woman left site.

100% success rate in repelling Fab women. Form an orderly queue ladies. "

Made me laugh

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Does seem unfair we have lost plenty of verifications,and verifications do matter to us proves if people will actually meet rather than just talk

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Is it going to sound weird if I say I screenshot mine? Not to show anyone, just for my own reference. A lot of mine have gone because of people leaving, and some aren’t visible because I’ve since blocked the person. But I like to have a record for myself.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Does seem unfair we have lost plenty of verifications,and verifications do matter to us proves if people will actually meet rather than just talk "

But your summary shows that and isn't affected by the specific veri being deleted as a result of someone leaving - the count in your summary can only go up or stay the same, not down.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Does seem unfair we have lost plenty of verifications,and verifications do matter to us proves if people will actually meet rather than just talk

But your summary shows that and isn't affected by the specific veri being deleted as a result of someone leaving - the count in your summary can only go up or stay the same, not down."
That is true but people can’t read what they have said on the verifications we have lost

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Does seem unfair we have lost plenty of verifications,and verifications do matter to us proves if people will actually meet rather than just talk

But your summary shows that and isn't affected by the specific veri being deleted as a result of someone leaving - the count in your summary can only go up or stay the same, not down.

That is true but people can’t read what they have said on the verifications we have lost "

True, but does that really matter that much? Especially when you have a number of them? I don't think I've ever seen a truly bad veri - couple of joke bad ones, but never an actual bad one so the words tend to have little significance for me unless they're overly graphic (but that's another debate )

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I lost a veri too after a lovely social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it going to sound weird if I say I screenshot mine? Not to show anyone, just for my own reference. A lot of mine have gone because of people leaving, and some aren’t visible because I’ve since blocked the person. But I like to have a record for myself."

I think it's nice. It's something I do like about verifications. It's a reminder of happy times and also a kind of ego boost to read something nice from people you've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does seem unfair we have lost plenty of verifications,and verifications do matter to us proves if people will actually meet rather than just talk

But your summary shows that and isn't affected by the specific veri being deleted as a result of someone leaving - the count in your summary can only go up or stay the same, not down. That is true but people can’t read what they have said on the verifications we have lost "

That's a good thing for me. Multiple veris all saying "shit shag, no personality, don't meet!!" don't really entice people.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why not take a screenshot of the verification, that way if anyone does ask you can explain the profile left but this was what they said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at 99% of the appalling cliche ridden veries on here you should be thankful you dont have them.

"Oral skills/what can I say/ if you're lucky enough/treat with respect/ til next time"

Reconfigure the above to make your own genuinely lamentable attempt at feigning interest in someone you've just shagged and wont see again but dont want to hurt her feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at 99% of the appalling cliche ridden veries on here you should be thankful you dont have them.

"Oral skills/what can I say/ if you're lucky enough/treat with respect/ til next time"

Reconfigure the above to make your own genuinely lamentable attempt at feigning interest in someone you've just shagged and wont see again but dont want to hurt her feelings."

Haha spot on. TBH, if I ever get another meet I'd just ask them to verify I'm not a twat (so in essence they'd need to lie ). I do find most of the veris on here massively cringeworthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at 99% of the appalling cliche ridden veries on here you should be thankful you dont have them.

"Oral skills/what can I say/ if you're lucky enough/treat with respect/ til next time"

Reconfigure the above to make your own genuinely lamentable attempt at feigning interest in someone you've just shagged and wont see again but dont want to hurt her feelings."

I write my own on my profile. It amazes me how many people think they are real.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


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I write my own on my profile. It amazes me how many people think they are real. "

Just read them and they are Hilarious

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