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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it about a person that attracts you to them.

Physically and personality wise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make me laugh.

That about does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make me laugh and personally

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Expressive eyes, cheeky smile.

I don't have just one type of personality I am attracted to tbh

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

How someone stands, their voice, their laugh, confidence, smile, physical presence.

For me it’s rare that there isn’t something that turns me off. I’m super picky and get the ick really easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Authenticity, conviction and kindness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I like nice eyes, a good beard and broad shoulders. Personality wise someone who makes me laugh, is honest and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically: a good smile, nice teeth

Personality: Open minded, expressive, niche knowledge, independent, decisive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attraction and down to earth for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Authenticity, conviction and kindness"

Yes this for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant really describe looks wise, but personality side, I enjoy cheeky, kind, funny and intelligent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant really describe looks wise, but personality side, I enjoy cheeky, kind, funny and intelligent

And definitely this

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

Blondes

Have to be down to earth and real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, I like people with a good sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good bank balance.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it’s someone to date then personally wins all day

If it’s for pure fun then looks or in less a witty message catches my eye and we chat and ur personally wins me over

Then there they 3rd cartography witch is ooo I horny any old cock will do

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Need facial attraction, as others difficult to describe. Prefer clean shaven or stubble no beards although wouldn't rule out if personality wins me over xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny fat lads always grab my attention first

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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

No type physically but needs to have a great sense of humour..love to have a laugh and a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no idea what makes someone attractive to me.

I can find someone’s body appealing and like their personality but I’m still not attracted to them sexually.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Physically there's not a particular aesthetic I like. I've been with people of all shapes, sizes and heights.

In terms of personality wise? I like people who are engaging and passionate about something, however random that might be. I quite like a dry sense of humour as well with a touch of self deprecation. And if they can talk as much as me I'll probably fancy them because it makes me less awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s a chance a girl might open her legs for me then I find her very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Facial attraction and down to earth for me. "

And big boobs are a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it about a person that attracts you to them.

Physically and personality wise?

Physically confidence. I have lots of little likes and dislikes on both sexes.

Personality is massively important, intelligence is a big one and making me laugh.

I don’t really have a “type” as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big butts and I cannot lie.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Physically......on first glance, is how a women is dressed, and how she presents herself. Confidence i find attractive.

Personality......bubbly, have banter, strong, knows her worth but doesn't think she's a princess and above everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I couldn't say because there's not one thing that I go for.

Personality wise can I go with a blanket, not being a twat?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Physical...eyes and smile with a genuine hi or hello on first meeting me. I also like a nice bottom on a woman! Personality...sense of humour.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If there’s a chance a girl might open her legs for me then I find her very attractive."

Yeah if it looks like a man will get hard for me he goes straight to the top of my hotlist.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Tall! Dreamy smile, broad shoulders, devastatingly handsome face and a jawline so sharp it could cut glass.

Failing that, someone that can a least make me laugh. I’m easily laughed into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically is difficult. Taller than me and preferably not blonde. Mentally, someone who can entice me with knowledge and can simply cast a spell on me

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A quick witted sense of humour gets me everytime plus lips I want to kiss and a body I want to snuggle up with

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

I strong manly looking man, clean and well presented.... that can hold a conversation and make me laugh.

Guaranteed to make my knees wobble

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Humour, confidence and a cheeky naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like big butts and I cannot lie. "

You other Brothers can't deny...That when a Girl walks in with a itty bitty waist...

And a round thing in your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

Does she also have to be a "Secret" Superhero ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny fat lads always grab my attention first"
hello fat lad wobbles over to tell a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's all in the eyes and smile but the personality is a big big thing to

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

Does she also have to be a "Secret" Superhero ....

Not that picky

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I love Mediterranean men, I’ve had some great experiences with these men, it might be their chocolate brown eyes and dark curly hair, not to mention keeping themselves fit, smell great and dress well, AND know what women like....

It also helps if they pick me and make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

Does she also have to be a "Secret" Superhero ....

Not that picky

Well if she is ... I bet she's not going to tell you either....

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

Does she also have to be a "Secret" Superhero ....

Not that picky

Well if she is ... I bet she's not going to tell you either....

It's why it's secret

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By *ommy75Man
over a year ago

Bristol

its has to be a sense of humour for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She answers my message on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny fat lads always grab my attention first hello fat lad wobbles over to tell a joke

So long as there's plenty of wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A combination of both. Physically attractive with a lovely smile, and captivating personality. Someone positive who is also strong willed and assertive. In a sense, a female version of me

Does she also have to be a "Secret" Superhero ....

Not that picky

Well if she is ... I bet she's not going to tell you either....

It's why it's secret

I know ... its better if you leave at least one thing secret isn't it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it about a person that attracts you to them.

Physically and personality wise?

I don't really have a 'look' that I go for - I know it when I see it

Personality wise, I like the ability to demonstrate vulnerability and a little self derision

I have a disdain for people who think they are King or Queen

You can be confident in yourself without bigging yourself up or being cocky

That said, having a constant downer on yourself can be draining for others as much as you

The ability to have a laugh and take the mickey outta me also works

I don't match with people that are always dissecting situations and see the serious side of everything

I love people with good hearts, strong ethics and morals and those who have the backs of others

Comfortable but not material finances wise

That look after themselves and their own

If they need pandering to to feel loved, they aren't for me

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Physically I generally prefer tall and toned/muscular. Facially it's all about their smile and eyes...the smile has to reach all the way to their eyes.

Personality wise, I like optimistic and cheerful people with a good sense of humour...but they need to also be confident and strong willed enough to match me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Physically I generally prefer tall and toned/muscular. Facially it's all about their smile and eyes...the smile has to reach all the way to their eyes.

Personality wise, I like optimistic and cheerful people with a good sense of humour...but they need to also be confident and strong willed enough to match me. "

Oh hello

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Physically I generally prefer tall and toned/muscular. Facially it's all about their smile and eyes...the smile has to reach all the way to their eyes.

Personality wise, I like optimistic and cheerful people with a good sense of humour...but they need to also be confident and strong willed enough to match me.

Oh hello

Well hello there handsome...how's that lovely smile of yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She must like close slow dancing together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed height is no issue to guys here.

I need to change sex

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By *lasterman2000Man
over a year ago

Skipton

Smile, eyes and attitude, I like being in the company of a woman who is confident

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Physically I generally prefer tall and toned/muscular. Facially it's all about their smile and eyes...the smile has to reach all the way to their eyes.

Personality wise, I like optimistic and cheerful people with a good sense of humour...but they need to also be confident and strong willed enough to match me.

Oh hello

Well hello there handsome...how's that lovely smile of yours?

Beaming

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"What is it about a person that attracts you to them.

Physically and personality wise?

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A nice smile and kindness.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good question, Poppins.

I like a twinkle, and a daft sense of humour.

Height, shoulders and forearms can all make me quiver too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm not sure I can define it - it just is.

Certainly physically I don't have a "type" and can appreciate and be attracted to various different physicalities - I just *know* when I'm attracted to someone and have had times in the past where there's not been an immediate physical attraction but over time that has grown as a result of the attraction to a personality.

Personality-wise it's just as difficult to define but very much comes down to a subconscious connection and chemistry and being on the same wavelength. The kind of thing where conversation just flows easily and naturally and you lose all sense of time, where there's a sense of comfort in each others presence and laughter comes easily.

Not really an answer I know, and there are probably snippets of both I could use to give examples, but they're just a part of a bigger picture that is what I've tried to convey above.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I find a persons witty funny charm attractive, with a little naughtiness for added fun.

I also know opposites can attract just as much.

Not in the scale where you hate each other though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His smile, eyes, humour is important, kindness and the ability to hold a conversation. Mental connection is just as important as the physical.

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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago

Away with the faeries

It can vary from person to person, depending upon which part of them shines brightest when they're with me.

But in general I'm always attracted to relaxed, clever and wickedly funny people.

If you've got eyes and a smile to melt me...on top of all of that, then I probably won't be able to resist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A quick witted sense of humour gets me everytime plus lips I want to kiss and a body I want to snuggle up with

I'm totally with you on that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Personality? easy going, upbeat, kind, dry humoured. Preferably outdoorsy.

Looks - I don’t have a type really but I like smiley twinkly eyes, broad shoulders and quick to smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know really you cant always define attraction, its the thing that makes then special so might be different for everyone. In here it has been written personality and their humour coming across well in messages that has done it for me even before seeing them sometimes.

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