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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

I met my other half on a sister site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard 26 people so far.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met many people in clubs and Fab socials, plus spoken to on here that have met their partners that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

There's been a few documented in forums. I'm not a swinger but would love to be in a relationship.

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Even friendship has evaded us sadly but lots of people do form relationships of all sorts from fab interaction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ there are a couple of people we're message friends with though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll "

Sorry to hear that red

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn


"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll

Sorry to hear that red "

It happens. But thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

I have on every other site and joined this one after a break up specifically not to get involved again.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I found my partner on fab ..and my on off girlfriend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. 6 years ago.

We met on a date, got on well (she’d had a “successful fabs career” after a messy divorce. I was new (to fabs) and unconvinced, it was for me).

Decided after meeting, I liked her a lot, but I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.

We discussed it, she said that she’d grown tired of it, and wasn’t going to continue.

We started dating, she went on a holiday with some girlfriends, told me where it was, and I discovered it was a swingers resort.

She told me that although the girlfriends who went, were swingers she’d met in clubs, she didn’t know it was a swinging holiday.

I was ready to walk away - she asked me to trust her, I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

Told her I wasn’t going to say “don’t go” she was was an adult and should know how to behave in a relationship.

She went on holiday - never disclosed anything other than she saw some swinging going on ...

She liked holidays with the girls ....

She didn’t have a regular job per se, though she worked with property - middle person, finding sourcing, interior design, very good at it.

One large property in Oxfordshire, was being cleared of furniture, so she was often there on long weekends, coincided with catching up with one of her swinger friends.

Subsequently found out she was organising sex parties held there.

Again, she denied it, it was just drinks in local pubs... with a mate,?nothing else. It’s networking ...

Lots of other things occurred, although I loved her, I couldn’t match her financially, and after a few years, I got blown out by text.

She was networking often with her London male friends, she constantly went on about.

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jesus woods, sounds like a rough ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah broke me for a couple of years.

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

Unfortunately seems that east London has absolutely no ladies...at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did. 6 years ago.

We met on a date, got on well (she’d had a “successful fabs career” after a messy divorce. I was new (to fabs) and unconvinced, it was for me).

Decided after meeting, I liked her a lot, but I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.

We discussed it, she said that she’d grown tired of it, and wasn’t going to continue.

We started dating, she went on a holiday with some girlfriends, told me where it was, and I discovered it was a swingers resort.

She told me that although the girlfriends who went, were swingers she’d met in clubs, she didn’t know it was a swinging holiday.

I was ready to walk away - she asked me to trust her, I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

Told her I wasn’t going to say “don’t go” she was was an adult and should know how to behave in a relationship.

She went on holiday - never disclosed anything other than she saw some swinging going on ...

She liked holidays with the girls ....

She didn’t have a regular job per se, though she worked with property - middle person, finding sourcing, interior design, very good at it.

One large property in Oxfordshire, was being cleared of furniture, so she was often there on long weekends, coincided with catching up with one of her swinger friends.

Subsequently found out she was organising sex parties held there.

Again, she denied it, it was just drinks in local pubs... with a mate,?nothing else. It’s networking ...

Lots of other things occurred, although I loved her, I couldn’t match her financially, and after a few years, I got blown out by text.

She was networking often with her London male friends, she constantly went on about.

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

"

She sounds far better off without you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here over 4 years ago and are very much in love and extremely happy.

Her x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I did. 6 years ago.

We met on a date, got on well (she’d had a “successful fabs career” after a messy divorce. I was new (to fabs) and unconvinced, it was for me).

Decided after meeting, I liked her a lot, but I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.

We discussed it, she said that she’d grown tired of it, and wasn’t going to continue.

We started dating, she went on a holiday with some girlfriends, told me where it was, and I discovered it was a swingers resort.

She told me that although the girlfriends who went, were swingers she’d met in clubs, she didn’t know it was a swinging holiday.

I was ready to walk away - she asked me to trust her, I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

Told her I wasn’t going to say “don’t go” she was was an adult and should know how to behave in a relationship.

She went on holiday - never disclosed anything other than she saw some swinging going on ...

She liked holidays with the girls ....

She didn’t have a regular job per se, though she worked with property - middle person, finding sourcing, interior design, very good at it.

One large property in Oxfordshire, was being cleared of furniture, so she was often there on long weekends, coincided with catching up with one of her swinger friends.

Subsequently found out she was organising sex parties held there.

Again, she denied it, it was just drinks in local pubs... with a mate,?nothing else. It’s networking ...

Lots of other things occurred, although I loved her, I couldn’t match her financially, and after a few years, I got blown out by text.

She was networking often with her London male friends, she constantly went on about.

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

She sounds far better off without you."

She lied to him, that's not cool either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girlfriend I met on here, unfortunately it wasn't meant to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, ooh, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here over 4 years ago and are very much in love and extremely happy.

Her x"

Happy for you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lovely lass from Blackpool on here a couple of years ago, we used to meet every weekend and go to clubs together before we decided to become exclusive. The distance got in the way eventually. She's now left the scene and settled down. We still text most days and I'm happy that she's happy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have had a couple but they obviously haven't worked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here 3 years ago and have been together for a little over 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a couple but they obviously haven't worked out "

Hugs xxx

Yeah i got burnt a few times thanks to fab lol.. meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my wife on here 10 years ago - we have a superb relationship.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

"

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here. Let’s see what happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow "

I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.

That to me reads women on Fab are only good for having sex with but not actually dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

she was lovely and i removed myself from the site as i was no longer interested in anyone else or looking.

if you find true happiness nothing else matters

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I had a relationship with someone from here last year for about 6 months. Ultimately we wanted different things from life!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Me and C met on here.

Covid meant we could only meet each other, due to bubbles and despite neither of us not wanting more, we realised we felt more for each other than FWB.

We didn’t want to admit it but after a while it was pretty obvious.

We are still here as we want to tick off a number of situations that we can only do with others but this is just an enhancement to a fantastic sex life. We’ll walk away together when we feel we have done it all or it’s not fun for either one but for now it’s pretty amazing

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow "

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Kinda a longish fwb x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes.

she was lovely and i removed myself from the site as i was no longer interested in anyone else or looking.

if you find true happiness nothing else matters

"

For me, This comment, sums it up.

I found someone I thought was lovely, and I told her so. I didn’t want to consider another partner, she was that nice, so no point looking elsewhere. So I didn’t. She told me, that she felt the same.

So for any other people, deciding that I was incorrect, or “she was better off without me” laugh or scorn, all you like. I fell in love with someone, who’d been on fabs, told me she had left that world, and all as original post.

I’m glad to hear for others, their relationships have succeeded.

I simply replied to the OP - and that’s it.

Happy weekend all.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Me and C met on here.

Covid meant we could only meet each other, due to bubbles and despite neither of us not wanting more, we realised we felt more for each other than FWB.

We didn’t want to admit it but after a while it was pretty obvious.

We are still here as we want to tick off a number of situations that we can only do with others but this is just an enhancement to a fantastic sex life. We’ll walk away together when we feel we have done it all or it’s not fun for either one but for now it’s pretty amazing

K"

Wow ...good luck to you both x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.

That to me reads women on Fab are only good for having sex with but not actually dating.

"

Which is what we’ve said for years. It’s not very nice but unless someone specifically wants a swinging relationship and to stay on the scene or have an open relationship, most guys wouldn’t consider a monogamous relationship with a woman from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

"

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made some life long friends on here and still looking for mr right, but I am 100% in swinging for life and need someone on the same page.

Sharing is caring after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them. "

Are you trustworthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them. "

You could meet someone not from here who is still a cheat.

Happened to me, and many others I know.

Unfortunately this is life these days. Cheating is easier than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.

Are you trustworthy?"

Depends on the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would add that if you are lucky enough to meet someone from here or any other site and she makes it clear that she wants things to be serious between you.

then discuss it with her so you are both clear on expectation.

and if it feels right go for it. dont keep her waiting.

she needs to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.

Are you trustworthy?

Depends on the context."

The same context in which your basing that you wouldn’t trust anyone on here

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Me and I couldn’t be happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and it's going so well. Can't believe the negativity of some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

Yep and wasted 2 years of my life. What a mistake that was lol.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it.

"

I know a few who are going string years after meeting on here.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We're over 10 years in, married and still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship.

What did I learn?

Loads !

The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship??

Wow

No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.

It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.

My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.

In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.

It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.

Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.

I agree with all this.

I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.

Are you trustworthy?

Depends on the context.

The same context in which your basing that you wouldn’t trust anyone on here "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it.

"

Loads of people have met on here and got married and are still together years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll "

The same for me, it is hard work!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No but we met on a kink dating app

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn


"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll

The same for me, it is hard work! "

It is.... but the rewards when its going great are (cough) fab.

I'm confident I will find another here.... I just can't do vanilla dating sites... the guys are all after a leg over anyway lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Yep, one has been going on for a good few years now. The other is less than a year old. Both make me very happy and I'm happy I met them and we have the relationship we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

I bet a lot

Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe'

Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I had a brief romantic interlude with someone.

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?

I bet a lot

Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe'

Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site? "

No... we think its a swingers social site.... and sometimes swingers are single.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it.

"

I disagree.

Well I suppose I should seeing as we met on here and it's been 5 years since the wedding.......

Even had a couple of fabbers attend.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my life partner on here and also my wife

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?

I bet a lot

Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe'

Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site?

No... we think its a swingers social site.... and sometimes swingers are single.

"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I met my life partner on here and also my wife"

That is really great!

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?"

Yep met him just over two years ago and we're still besties!


"Me and I couldn’t be happier "

Yep Cookie! Me too! Yay!


"We met on here and it's going so well. Can't believe the negativity of some people"

Yeah but you know... I guess we must be the few lucky ones!?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it.

I disagree.

Well I suppose I should seeing as we met on here and it's been 5 years since the wedding.......

Even had a couple of fabbers attend.

A"

There's hope for me then...not that I'm looking but never say never!

May you have a long and happy marriage.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I did , met a woman a year older than me 18 months

Ago on here as she wanted a loyal bf but also wanted her freedom on fab , luckily for me She didn’t make me delete my profile as it only lasted 3 months as her fuckbuddy became jealous despite me wearing a chastity lock .

She got back in touch last December wanting to give it another try but I decided not .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not on here but i did meet my partner in a sex cinema

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Met someone of here. Lived together for 10 year's. He cheated, I found out because the couple he cheated with uploaded photos on here. Safe to say end of the relationship. And we were still swinger's, go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a fab type relationship on certain levels but not for it to be based on swinging full stop, love and trust first and a good tight relationship first then whatever you both agree on when the mood takes... yes I am dreaming

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I'd love a fab type relationship on certain levels but not for it to be based on swinging full stop, love and trust first and a good tight relationship first then whatever you both agree on when the mood takes... yes I am dreaming "

You know there is truth in what you say...

Fab... Like lots of "shop window" on the internet is nothing more, nothing less...

The rest you've got to work out...!?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

As most know mine went tits up.

Were together almost 2 years, anyone who ever saw us could feel the affection oozing out of us. I thought I was gonna end up getting married etc. I was very wrong indeed.

I still don't think he was an arsehole as in he meant to fuck me over, I think he was a cheating husband who got more than he bargained for when me met me, and that included the feelings on both sides.

I had been assured he had been separated for 18 months before we met. Turned out they weren't and I'm glad the first lockdown happened coz if not I'd probably still be non the wiser and wasting my time and emotion on someone who wasn't able to be honest with themselves, me or their wife.

I won't allow myself to enter into another relationship for the foreseeable. I got burned too bad, my heart got too broken.

I know me and I know I'd be like a one woman FBI and that wouldn't be fair on them or me. Just don't think I have it in me to trust completely in a relationship capacity.

Friends who've nothing to gain from me other than my friendship, yeah I trust totally. But new people..... I'm unwilling to put myself in a position where I could get stung again, or put an innocent person in a position where I question them and their motives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? "

Absolutely not

We're all perverts

How can you trust us with anything?

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I got burned too bad, my heart got too broken.

Just don't think I have it in me to trust completely in a relationship capacity.

I'm unwilling to put myself in a position where I could get stung again"

This is sad my darling, but you need to remember who you are before the hurt.

You know they say "dance like no one is watching. Sing like no one is listening...".

When you recover from the hurt, you can grow but not bent and twisted but true to yourself!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? "

Yes I think so. If you have that level of honesty with each other and you find someone who is honest. It might not be easy - people lie and you can't be sure of their motives etc. I do think that on fab there are some gems though and I know/hope they'd be as honest as I believe them to be. Hopefully you find your gem.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Met someone of here. Lived together for 10 year's. He cheated, I found out because the couple he cheated with uploaded photos on here. Safe to say end of the relationship. And we were still swinger's, go figure. "

Oh this happened to me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab?

Absolutely not

We're all perverts

How can you trust us with anything? "

Being a pervert isn’t being deceitful though is it? Being openly honest and gaining each other’s trust is more important, well I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab?

Yes I think so. If you have that level of honesty with each other and you find someone who is honest. It might not be easy - people lie and you can't be sure of their motives etc. I do think that on fab there are some gems though and I know/hope they'd be as honest as I believe them to be. Hopefully you find your gem."

Ah thank you. Who knows whatever happens we can all have fun finding that gem. A diamond comes out of the rough and we’ve all had our fair share of that one way or another

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Us!

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By *allmeDavidMan
over a year ago

london

Oh East London does have women Zook. But fortunately the best one is already taken and only plays in clubs. Together with me. Be a while then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope to find a relationship possibly from here ... or a friends with benefits. Only time will tell aha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a chart on this at the PM's covid briefing.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We did.

We were both singles and enjoying Fab in our own ways.

We met, met again and then the gaps between meets got less and the meets got longer.

We live together and are totally loved up.

We use fab differently now, as a couple, but it’s still a part of our lives.

The total honesty on both sides is refreshing compared to other relationships.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had the pleasure to as yet, but I'm open to it, on a more casual basis though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many

So many want one too

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"The total honesty on both sides is refreshing compared to other relationships."

This is what my bf and I have worked towards and we won't have it any other way...

An awkward situation arose the other week with a couple contacting me.

We exchanged numbers and I had been messaging the wife (on WhatsApp) and we were getting along great.

Her husband then messages me and suggests a 121 meet without letting her know. I was quite taken aback and told him I get plenty of solo guys offers so won't meet him solo.

A few days later she messages me to ask why I suddenly disappeared... I said that her husband messaged me and I found him to be "a bit of a cock" - no other details.

She scolded me and said... "Remember that is my husband you are talking about".

Wow talk about a lil-awk...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The total honesty on both sides is refreshing compared to other relationships.

This is what my bf and I have worked towards and we won't have it any other way...

An awkward situation arose the other week with a couple contacting me.

We exchanged numbers and I had been messaging the wife (on WhatsApp) and we were getting along great.

Her husband then messages me and suggests a 121 meet without letting her know. I was quite taken aback and told him I get plenty of solo guys offers so won't meet him solo.

A few days later she messages me to ask why I suddenly disappeared... I said that her husband messaged me and I found him to be "a bit of a cock" - no other details.

She scolded me and said... "Remember that is my husband you are talking about".

Wow talk about a lil-awk...!"

Did you tell her that he'd been trying to arrange a meeting behind her back?

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Did you tell her that he'd been trying to arrange a meeting behind her back?"

Noooooo!

Aside from not knowing how to do it diplomatically, I really didn't think it was my baggage!

Besides I was glad I didn't... She would have cut me to shreds!

Eeek!

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