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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a bad thing being a flirt I myself flirt with all sorts of people on the forums and I love it but if I tell you privately that 8 realy like you then thats where things are different. So is it bad to flirt so much or is it all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define "really like".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirt with you who you like, OP, it's Fab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flirt with you who you like, OP, it's Fab! "
this is true kat but ilthats all it is half the time on the forums its when I pm people and tell them I like them that's when its serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define "really like"."
want to take it alot further than just flirt possibly more than just fab meet who knows

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Flirting makes every one's day....we all love being the subject of some flirtation behaviour, it's human nature

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here???

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We like a bit of a flirt

D.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? "
the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "really like". want to take it alot further than just flirt possibly more than just fab meet who knows"

Do you not want the possibility of it developing further?

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested "
then I think they should not be on here, maybe they fell out of the PMF site by mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is PMF?

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"What is PMF?"
plenty more fish

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By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

Surely flirting is as much a point of this place as anything? In fact.. preferable to the ubiquitous "wow stunning/cock pic/wanna meet jargon.

Flirt away my friend... flirt away... if its unwanted im sure you will realise or be told

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define "really like". want to take it alot further than just flirt possibly more than just fab meet who knows

Do you not want the possibility of it developing further?"
with someone I did though I think my flirting publicly may have blown it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with flirting... though I’m a rubbish, awkward flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested "

It can be hurtful but you'll have to manage her expectations on it. You know this lady but you haven't started anything yet. It's like the real world. What would you do in the real world?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Nothing wrong with flirting. It's good fun and i'm guilty of being a natural flirt myself. I do far less of it now on here than before though the perception of being a massive one remains.

The secret I feel is in how you engage in it and if it's done selectively. It's your profile and you can conduct yourself however you like, but shameless, indiscriminate flirting wears thin and puts many a person off.

I'll agree with you that anything more than just light banter should be done via pm.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"We like a bit of a flirt

D."

You do?!

OP, if you want to flirt, flirt. I'm a pretty crap flirt truth be told so tend to avoid it else I'll cringe but if it makes you happy, crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flirt with you who you like, OP, it's Fab! this is true kat but ilthats all it is half the time on the forums its when I pm people and tell them I like them that's when its serious "

Could it be not the act (everyone flirts!!) but who with? Who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Flirt with you who you like, OP, it's Fab! this is true kat but ilthats all it is half the time on the forums its when I pm people and tell them I like them that's when its serious

Could it be not the act (everyone flirts!!) but who with? Who knows! "

Get ya coat - you've pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This Forum is a stress relieve for many of us. You must help her understand why you're here and what you get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm partial to a bit of flirty banter. Keep the genuine stuff for pms though.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"The secret I feel is in how you engage in it and if it's done selectively. It's your profile and you can conduct yourself however you like, but shameless, indiscriminate flirting wears thin and puts many a person off.

"

I'm going to flip flop and say Chill is right about this.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We like a bit of a flirt

D.

You do?!

OP, if you want to flirt, flirt. I'm a pretty crap flirt truth be told so tend to avoid it else I'll cringe but if it makes you happy, crack on. "

D.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I flirt with everyone, but that don’t mean a want to hook up with them! Flirting in my eyes is fun banter.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater


"I flirt with everyone, but that don’t mean a want to hook up with them! Flirting in my eyes is fun banter. "

I'm a terrible flirt...as in terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no harm in flirting, it's fun, sexy and makes you feel good about yourself.

Her x

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"I flirt with everyone, but that don’t mean a want to hook up with them! Flirting in my eyes is fun banter. "
exactly, and Banter is 80% of being here.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

There nothing wrong with flirting I do it all the time. I have to stop sometimes think hope this person doesn't think it's come on.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I adore flirting. I can't help myself.

It's fun & harmless. I'll always let someone know via DM if I REALLY like them.

But I don't flirt much unless I know them & they'll take it in the manner it is meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flirt with you who you like, OP, it's Fab! this is true kat but ilthats all it is half the time on the forums its when I pm people and tell them I like them that's when its serious

Could it be not the act (everyone flirts!!) but who with? Who knows! "
no idea I was hoping to ask said person but sadly now I'm blocked

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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

Nothing wrong with flirting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right?"
something like that yes

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I flirt with everyone, but that don’t mean a want to hook up with them! Flirting in my eyes is fun banter.

I'm a terrible flirt...as in terrible "

Now I know you’re lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right? something like that yes"

Then I would say pish posh to "just go ahead and flirt". If you like her, but this is a stress relief and just fun banter here, you have to explain it to her because it can hurt and it's very real pain.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested "

So someone you have connected with has accused you as flirting too much with others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right? something like that yes

Then I would say pish posh to "just go ahead and flirt". If you like her, but this is a stress relief and just fun banter here, you have to explain it to her because it can hurt and it's very real pain."

Isn't that what swinging is about. I have ZERO experience of swinging but one thing I do know is that you MUST take your partner's boundaries and expectations onboard.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Now you have me wondering...

I would hate to think that my flirting was taken as something more than it is.

I guess I thought that people on here would accept it for what it is, in the open forum.

If someone doesn't respond positively, I take note and don't do it again. But I've genuinely not considered that someone would get hurt by it.

Am I a bad person??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right? something like that yes"

That's a tough one then. One thing is occasional flirty banter with people who are clearly friends, another is indiscriminate banter with any lady you consider hot and presents an opening to engage in this. You do a lot of the latter Op, so the risk of offending or putting off the other person is much higher.

It all comes down to how she perceives your interest in her. Is it serious or fleeting? If you're all over the place, odds are she'll think you're not that interested and might disengage.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I don't see anything wrong with flirting per se, but I think the type of flirting does make a difference. Gentle flirting and a bit of banter is fine, but some of the blatant following round the forum and literally throwing of oneself at someone at every available opportunity can be a bit eye-rolling to others (in my opinion obviously, and yes, I do scroll past...very quickly). And I don't think it's fair to the OP when it takes over and derails a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now you have me wondering...

I would hate to think that my flirting was taken as something more than it is.

I guess I thought that people on here would accept it for what it is, in the open forum.

If someone doesn't respond positively, I take note and don't do it again. But I've genuinely not considered that someone would get hurt by it.

Am I a bad person?? "

Yes, you're a very bad girl!! What shall I do with you????

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested

So someone you have connected with has accused you as flirting too much with others?"

Jesus I have a sudden craving for a Rum and Coke,,

I wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I really really really like you too...

And I literally Like mean that !

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I like a flirt, and I like to flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Fab

How can flirting be a bad thing here??? the only time I guess it could be a bad thing is if someone you tell you like sees it and gets upset and thinks your not truly interested

So someone you have connected with has accused you as flirting too much with others?

Jesus I have a sudden craving for a Rum and Coke,,

I wonder why "

I detect an inside joke here that has gone over my head.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see."

Was that aimed at me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a flirt, and I like to flirt. "

I love to flirt with you Fiddles... gosh might even be guilty of following you around.... wink wink

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I like a flirt, and I like to flirt.

I love to flirt with you Fiddles... gosh might even be guilty of following you around.... wink wink"

Oh I’ll leave a trail for you x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would not say i flirt alot but i talk and smile alot and love eye contact which sometimes gets misread as flirting.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I would not say i flirt alot but i talk and smile alot and love eye contact which sometimes gets misread as flirting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me? "

No, I think she was talking about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a bit of harmless flirting, especially on a Friday

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Someone who seemingly flirts with loads of people, I just think they come across thirsty.

It can also make me feel uncomfortable at times coz flirting for the sake of it, I dunno, I just don't get it. I do "banter flirt" with those I know, coz I know them, I know my intentions with it and so do they.

Other people it can come across creepy as fuck tho, like you know if great uncle Bert who's not really family but ya call him uncle flirts with ya and it makes your skin crawl.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Anyway op i get the impression that you have a flirty personality anyway! Hopefully you can sort this out as its clearly bothered you .. chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a flirt, and I like to flirt.

I love to flirt with you Fiddles... gosh might even be guilty of following you around.... wink wink

Oh I’ll leave a trail for you x"

I'm already on it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me? "

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reading back through the thread and everyone is saying go ahead, just flirt but if I'm understanding you right, OP, you are asking about whether it's hurting someone in particular that likes you and you like in return, is that right? something like that yes

That's a tough one then. One thing is occasional flirty banter with people who are clearly friends, another is indiscriminate banter with any lady you consider hot and presents an opening to engage in this. You do a lot of the latter Op, so the risk of offending or putting off the other person is much higher.

It all comes down to how she perceives your interest in her. Is it serious or fleeting? If you're all over the place, odds are she'll think you're not that interested and might disengage."

Bravo...well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

No, I think she was talking about me."

RIGHT AGAIN...

OK WELL THERE'S MY ANSWER

Wait this isn't that swipe right or left again game thread....is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ... "

Flirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a bad thing being a flirt I myself flirt with all sorts of people on the forums and I love it but if I tell you privately that 8 realy like you then thats where things are different. So is it bad to flirt so much or is it all good "

I flirt with nearly everyone I speak with in some form or another. It's about finding some sort of common ground to chat about and then the banter flows!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

As far as flirting with others if I'm into someone, or thought someone was into me... that can be a hard call.

I know I used to take it tough when my ex flirted with other people, I just felt like I didn't matter, my feelings didn't matter etc.

Much of that was insecurity based, and in the end I was right to have those insecurities. It can feel like you're one parcel on a conveyor belt and you're already looking at the other boxes all around ya, realising you're nothing special at all.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

Flirt! "

Stop being jealous, you. Cc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

Flirt!

Stop being jealous, you. Cc"

except with you, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

Flirt!

Stop being jealous, you. Cc"

Oh, but I am!!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden."

No you don't, miles. Don't be worrying. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden."

This post is a perfect example of something I'd jump on.

It's not necessarily a flirt, but more of a sexy joke.

I'd mention something about being stiff and having wood.

It's not necessarily flirting, it's just me joking.

I only do this with those I know I can get away with it.

I don't do it to all.

But I also do this on those random funny threads from OPs who post nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

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Now there's my Girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden.

This post is a perfect example of something I'd jump on.

It's not necessarily a flirt, but more of a sexy joke.

I'd mention something about being stiff and having wood.

It's not necessarily flirting, it's just me joking.

I only do this with those I know I can get away with it.

I don't do it to all.

But I also do this on those random funny threads from OPs who post nonsense.

"

Gang is all here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

Flirt!

Stop being jealous, you. Cc

Oh, but I am!! "

Miles look at you flirting... oh my goodness. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I really really really like you too...

And I literally Like mean that !"
awwww maddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

"

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Wookie, you're very like me. And a good few of others on this thread (Which is probably why we all get on so well!)

We're flirty, jolly & fun loving. And I suppose if someone doesn't know us well, they could become upset. I certainly hope you can sort it out with her.

I've had a little think and I don't think you - or we - should feel bad about it. It's our nature. You can't be expected to change who you are for someone - they need to accept your personality.

You haven't done anything wrong. It's Fab, not a dating site, as has been pointed out. Maybe she just wasn't for you...?

Chin up lovely and carry on lighting up the forum with your silliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden.

No you don't, miles. Don't be worrying. Xx"

Weellll....not with you, of course. You bring out the devil in me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I really really really like you too...

And I literally Like mean that !"
awwww maddie

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over a year ago


"I have a bit of a problem the other way around. I feel a bit awkward flirting here, I must admit. It's not really in my nature and I come across very stiff and wooden.

This post is a perfect example of something I'd jump on.

It's not necessarily a flirt, but more of a sexy joke.

I'd mention something about being stiff and having wood.

It's not necessarily flirting, it's just me joking.

I only do this with those I know I can get away with it.

I don't do it to all.

But I also do this on those random funny threads from OPs who post nonsense.

"

Get away with what...my talking about stiff wood?? Naughty girl!! Twisting my words. Now bend over!!!

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Flirting makes the world go round ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The occasional flirt on the forums is okay, but if it’s constant it’s just embarrassing, take it to PM and stop trying to put on a show for everyone to see.

Was that aimed at me?

Hell Red I'm open about you... It's always you... Geez is this post about me ...

Flirt!

Stop being jealous, you. Cc

Oh, but I am!!

Miles look at you flirting... oh my goodness. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!! "

I am. I've come over all funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway. "

Are you talking about me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come over all funny. "

See

Another example, sometimes posts are crying out for me to jump on.

Another joke about cumming all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come over all funny.

See

Another example, sometimes posts are crying out for me to jump on.

Another joke about cumming all over

"

LESVE ME ALONE, you TART.

I love you Cindi!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is going on!!! I can't stop FLIRTING!!!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m not really a fan of over the top forum flirting. If you were really interested in someone you’d take it to pm and woo them privately, not peacock all over someone else’s thread.

It’s a bit of a turn off if I’m honest, and one of numerous reasons I don’t meet forum men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is going on!!! I can't stop FLIRTING!!!!"

Somebody, find me a corner, please!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come over all funny.

See

Another example, sometimes posts are crying out for me to jump on.

Another joke about cumming all over

you too x

LESVE ME ALONE, you TART.

I love you Cindi!!"

I can't help it, it's who I am.

I'm like this is real life. I make jokes all the time.

Humour is my medicine.

If people see it as flirting they are wrong.

It's me being funny

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Flirting makes the world go round ..."

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not really a fan of over the top forum flirting. If you were really interested in someone you’d take it to pm and woo them privately, not peacock all over someone else’s thread.

It’s a bit of a turn off if I’m honest, and one of numerous reasons I don’t meet forum men.

"

Do you mean me? I was just having a laugh because this lot know me as the stiff wooden plank....and you can SHUT IT CINDI

I love you really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flirting makes the world go round ...

Amen to that! "

You should know all about that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flirting makes the world go round ...

Amen to that!

You should know all about that xxx"

Quite right, the saucy minx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’m not really a fan of over the top forum flirting. If you were really interested in someone you’d take it to pm and woo them privately, not peacock all over someone else’s thread.

It’s a bit of a turn off if I’m honest, and one of numerous reasons I don’t meet forum men.

Do you mean me? I was just having a laugh because this lot know me as the stiff wooden plank....and you can SHUT IT CINDI

I love you really. "

No not you

Although having said what I’ve said the forums haven’t been over the top flirty for ages now as they’re a lot quieter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right..I'm off to a 4.00pm call. I hope I don't forget myself and carry on flirting to the chaps on the call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not really a fan of over the top forum flirting. If you were really interested in someone you’d take it to pm and woo them privately, not peacock all over someone else’s thread.

It’s a bit of a turn off if I’m honest, and one of numerous reasons I don’t meet forum men.

Do you mean me? I was just having a laugh because this lot know me as the stiff wooden plank....and you can SHUT IT CINDI

I love you really.

No not you

Although having said what I’ve said the forums haven’t been over the top flirty for ages now as they’re a lot quieter."

It's because I've killed the mood here!! Btw, I was just joking on my post abpve to your comment as well. I need to de-stress!! Thanks for taking it with some humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right..I'm off to a 4.00pm call. I hope I don't forget myself and carry on flirting to the chaps on the call."

I hope you have the lube ready, I've got a good call planned for you this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so jealous of all those who can flirt so naturally. I’m absolutely terrible at it, both giving and receiving.

I have no idea how to flirt with someone else and chances are I won’t spot it if you are flirting with me.

If I ever do spot it, I’m just a complete wreck and don’t know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and flirt but it ends up as pisstaking from my end .

Some get offended

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I try and flirt but it ends up as pisstaking from my end .

Some get offended "

Yes, bit it's still flirting. And even if they were offended, the rest of us will have got the joke. X

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I’m always full of compliments which is taken as flirting

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I’m so jealous of all those who can flirt so naturally. I’m absolutely terrible at it, both giving and receiving.

I have no idea how to flirt with someone else and chances are I won’t spot it if you are flirting with me.

If I ever do spot it, I’m just a complete wreck and don’t know what to do "

Oh, you'd spot it if it was us, lovely.

Flirting makes you feel good. Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I try and flirt but it ends up as pisstaking from my end .

Some get offended "

You look to nice to be offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find flirting a bit pointless to be honest. I’m quite direct. If I want someone or someone to know I’m interested in them I’ll let them know.

I don’t tend to take part in threads that encourage you to say what you’d like to do to the person above or below you, think it’s . If I was interested in someone but saw they publicly flirted and said flirty comments to loads of people I’d remove my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, you'd spot it if it was us, lovely.

Flirting makes you feel good. Xx"

I hope I would but I’d still wouldn’t be able to flirt back lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I find flirting a bit pointless to be honest. I’m quite direct. If I want someone or someone to know I’m interested in them I’ll let them know.

I don’t tend to take part in threads that encourage you to say what you’d like to do to the person above or below you, think it’s . If I was interested in someone but saw they publicly flirted and said flirty comments to loads of people I’d remove my interest. "

Your last statement kind of proved the point I made earlier.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Oh, you'd spot it if it was us, lovely.

Flirting makes you feel good. Xx

I hope I would but I’d still wouldn’t be able to flirt back lol"

I'll teach you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oh, you'd spot it if it was us, lovely.

Flirting makes you feel good. Xx

I hope I would but I’d still wouldn’t be able to flirt back lol"

Sometimes - just a smile is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm always a flirt.

Nikki x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I find flirting a bit pointless to be honest. I’m quite direct. If I want someone or someone to know I’m interested in them I’ll let them know.

I don’t tend to take part in threads that encourage you to say what you’d like to do to the person above or below you, think it’s . If I was interested in someone but saw they publicly flirted and said flirty comments to loads of people I’d remove my interest. "

I get you Annie. But lots of us, including the OP, do flirt. That's why there are so many of those threads. And you know what to avoid, so everyone is happy.

Natural flirters usually gravitate towards the same. It's when people send mixed messages that there's an issue. Hopefully OP can sort things out.

I think some people on this thread (not you - you are very clear) have used it to denigrate a behaviour they see as a character flaw, rather than help the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooooo....OP.....did we answer your question???

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over a year ago


"Sooooo....OP.....did we answer your question??? "
eeerrrm I think the person knows but yes

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

I think some people on this thread (not you - you are very clear) have used it to denigrate a behaviour they see as a character flaw, rather than help the OP. "

Red, you have hit the nail on the head with that statement.

I'm a flirt. I don't hide it and I'm not ashamed of it. Anyone who messages me knows it and knows I'm not going to change. And if they can't take me for what I am then they aren't right for me, as I'm not right for them.

Flirting with a person or persons at any given opportunity, as long as that person is enjoying it as well, is not a character flaw. And if others find it cringeworthy or embarrassing then that's their issue. No one should be made to feel bad because of how they choose to conduct themselves unless it is hurting others.

WD, it is a shame that you have ended up no longer in contact with the person you mention. And if she is upset then that's sad as well.

But, like me and others, you are a massive flirt and that should come as no surprise to anyone you talk to privately (assuming they are a forum person), so expecting a change in your public flirting just because you are having private conversation with them isn't really sensible of whomever you are having that conversation with.

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over a year ago


"Wookie, you're very like me. And a good few of others on this thread (Which is probably why we all get on so well!)

We're flirty, jolly & fun loving. And I suppose if someone doesn't know us well, they could become upset. I certainly hope you can sort it out with her.

I've had a little think and I don't think you - or we - should feel bad about it. It's our nature. You can't be expected to change who you are for someone - they need to accept your personality.

You haven't done anything wrong. It's Fab, not a dating site, as has been pointed out. Maybe she just wasn't for you...?

Chin up lovely and carry on lighting up the forum with your silliness "

This is why I just adore you Red. I will foreve be a part of this crowd. It is me and my nature . To make people smile and happy and laugh. And I will never be one of the ones sitting there judging the ones who can ...will and do spread that happy go lucky spirit. Anyone who knows the real me knows that. Our Thread has made alot of people smile and laugh and join In and other than a few (and a small few )... less than one hand for me it was all for the fun and because of the thread . All 22 of them . It brought some fun into a really depressing sucky Lockdown, which was my only intentions for those friends of mine and everyone else who needed it on the site!!

THE WORLD IS FULL OF PEOPLE JUDGING OTHERS FROM THE SIDELINE AND THEN THERES THOSE OF US OUT THERE LIVING IT AND MAYBE JUST MAKING SOMEONES DAY BRIGHTER. SO PERSONALLY I WILL STAY RIGHT HERE WHERE I AM AT .

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its not a bad or a good thing its a personal thing. Keep doing what you want to do, there is no need to conform to another's standards as are you really being true to yourself if you do?

Keep being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all FLIRTS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been able to flirt.

Need to learn ASAP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been able to flirt.

Need to learn ASAP "

Really? I'm the same. Shall we have a little discussion about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit, I'm a terrible flirt in the real world. There are enough constraints out there, I don't want to face them in here as well, within reason. Flirt, don't flirt, it's like every relationship, you two need to talk and understand each other's needs. Isn't that what swinging is about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me I know I’d only flirt with someone if there was intent there, like only if I was attracted to them and wanted something to come from it. So I suppose I feel like if I flirted with everyone then no one would feel special. If someone I was interested in flirted with lots of people I would struggle to see the sincerity with regards to how they felt towards me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good flirt

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By *oee25Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I love a good flirt "

me and you both, can’t go wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me I know I’d only flirt with someone if there was intent there, like only if I was attracted to them and wanted something to come from it. So I suppose I feel like if I flirted with everyone then no one would feel special. If someone I was interested in flirted with lots of people I would struggle to see the sincerity with regards to how they felt towards me. "

I'd say for me, I love social butterflies that flirt. I love watching them and when they choose to be yours, I do feel special. It's precisely because they can be everybody's but they choose you. It's different when you're alone.

It's like a mini-me version of swinging as a couple. She comes home with me at night. That's powerful.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway. "

Same here beaut

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over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut "

I love you crazy ladies.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We can both flirt easily but the intent has to be there...we both couldn’t/wouldn’t flirt for flirting sakes.

You see some people flirting with everyone and to me that seems flat....you aren’t making anyone feel special if they can see that you are flirting with 10 other people on a thread

I think C needs to work on her female flirting techniques though

K

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"

I think some people on this thread (not you - you are very clear) have used it to denigrate a behaviour they see as a character flaw, rather than help the OP.

Red, you have hit the nail on the head with that statement.

I'm a flirt. I don't hide it and I'm not ashamed of it. Anyone who messages me knows it and knows I'm not going to change. And if they can't take me for what I am then they aren't right for me, as I'm not right for them.

Flirting with a person or persons at any given opportunity, as long as that person is enjoying it as well, is not a character flaw. And if others find it cringeworthy or embarrassing then that's their issue. No one should be made to feel bad because of how they choose to conduct themselves unless it is hurting others.

WD, it is a shame that you have ended up no longer in contact with the person you mention. And if she is upset then that's sad as well.

But, like me and others, you are a massive flirt and that should come as no surprise to anyone you talk to privately (assuming they are a forum person), so expecting a change in your public flirting just because you are having private conversation with them isn't really sensible of whomever you are having that conversation with."

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Wookie, you're very like me. And a good few of others on this thread (Which is probably why we all get on so well!)

We're flirty, jolly & fun loving. And I suppose if someone doesn't know us well, they could become upset. I certainly hope you can sort it out with her.

I've had a little think and I don't think you - or we - should feel bad about it. It's our nature. You can't be expected to change who you are for someone - they need to accept your personality.

You haven't done anything wrong. It's Fab, not a dating site, as has been pointed out. Maybe she just wasn't for you...?

Chin up lovely and carry on lighting up the forum with your silliness

This is why I just adore you Red. I will foreve be a part of this crowd. It is me and my nature . To make people smile and happy and laugh. And I will never be one of the ones sitting there judging the ones who can ...will and do spread that happy go lucky spirit. Anyone who knows the real me knows that. Our Thread has made alot of people smile and laugh and join In and other than a few (and a small few )... less than one hand for me it was all for the fun and because of the thread . All 22 of them . It brought some fun into a really depressing sucky Lockdown, which was my only intentions for those friends of mine and everyone else who needed it on the site!!

THE WORLD IS FULL OF PEOPLE JUDGING OTHERS FROM THE SIDELINE AND THEN THERES THOSE OF US OUT THERE LIVING IT AND MAYBE JUST MAKING SOMEONES DAY BRIGHTER. SO PERSONALLY I WILL STAY RIGHT HERE WHERE I AM AT . "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Never been able to flirt.

Need to learn ASAP

Really? I'm the same. Shall we have a little discussion about that? "

You're becoming quite the flirt now, Miles

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"With me I know I’d only flirt with someone if there was intent there, like only if I was attracted to them and wanted something to come from it. So I suppose I feel like if I flirted with everyone then no one would feel special. If someone I was interested in flirted with lots of people I would struggle to see the sincerity with regards to how they felt towards me. "

Good point, Annie!

It's something I'll pay a little bit more heed to. But I can't stop altogether. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been able to flirt.

Need to learn ASAP

Really? I'm the same. Shall we have a little discussion about that?

You're becoming quite the flirt now, Miles "

I have been apprenticing with the masters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a bad thing being a flirt I myself flirt with all sorts of people on the forums and I love it but if I tell you privately that 8 realy like you then thats where things are different. So is it bad to flirt so much or is it all good "

Flirt flirt and flirt again

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"With me I know I’d only flirt with someone if there was intent there, like only if I was attracted to them and wanted something to come from it. So I suppose I feel like if I flirted with everyone then no one would feel special. If someone I was interested in flirted with lots of people I would struggle to see the sincerity with regards to how they felt towards me.

Good point, Annie!

It's something I'll pay a little bit more heed to. But I can't stop altogether. X"

That's kinda what I was trying to say earlier.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut

I love you crazy ladies. "

aww thank you lovely x we are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut

I love you crazy ladies.

aww thank you lovely x we are the best "

Indeed.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"We can both flirt easily but the intent has to be there...we both couldn’t/wouldn’t flirt for flirting sakes.

You see some people flirting with everyone and to me that seems flat....you aren’t making anyone feel special if they can see that you are flirting with 10 other people on a thread

I think C needs to work on her female flirting techniques though

K

"

Yes, I see your point. And I certainly couldn't flirt with someone I didn't like. But when it's a flirty thread, it's good to make everyone feel included, isn't it? And it's a great way of getting to know people on the forum - it's how I started off on here.

And C is bloody stunning! Flirting or no flirting! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"With me I know I’d only flirt with someone if there was intent there, like only if I was attracted to them and wanted something to come from it. So I suppose I feel like if I flirted with everyone then no one would feel special. If someone I was interested in flirted with lots of people I would struggle to see the sincerity with regards to how they felt towards me.

Good point, Annie!

It's something I'll pay a little bit more heed to. But I can't stop altogether. X

That's kinda what I was trying to say earlier. "

I know Peach. You gave a good explanation of your thinking and I can clearly see who your mates are, cos you're proper funny with them!

And no, to flirt with someone in front of your partner when they know how it makes you feel is just cruel. I would never do that.

And he clearly did not deserve you xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Is it a bad thing being a flirt I myself flirt with all sorts of people on the forums and I love it but if I tell you privately that 8 realy like you then thats where things are different. So is it bad to flirt so much or is it all good

Flirt flirt and flirt again"

Ooh, hello Henry

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

I love a good flirt

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut

I love you crazy ladies.

aww thank you lovely x we are the best "

Esmerelda, we all love you! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told off once for trying to take a flirt private from the forums so wouldn’t bother again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a huge flirt and if I fancy someone then he will know about it,I do know when to give up though

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ... "

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I'm a huge flirt and if I fancy someone then he will know about it,I do know when to give up though"

Yes. Me too. If there's no response or a downright negative feel, I'm outta there. We don't wanna make people awkward

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"We can both flirt easily but the intent has to be there...we both couldn’t/wouldn’t flirt for flirting sakes.

You see some people flirting with everyone and to me that seems flat....you aren’t making anyone feel special if they can see that you are flirting with 10 other people on a thread

I think C needs to work on her female flirting techniques though

K

Yes, I see your point. And I certainly couldn't flirt with someone I didn't like. But when it's a flirty thread, it's good to make everyone feel included, isn't it? And it's a great way of getting to know people on the forum - it's how I started off on here.

And C is bloody stunning! Flirting or no flirting! X"

I agree it’s good to make everyone feel included but if I seen someone flirt with me and then down the page they flirted with 6 others, I’d feel that flirt wasn’t really fully justified or intended.

And yes C is stunning...I had to have my flirting game on point to capture her

That is many begging letters too

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??"

What a shame because you, Maddie, Esmeralda....together....oooof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold on, are we talking about flirting in the Forum specifically??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

Me too! "

What does it entail, flirting with a woman when you're straight? Why would you flirt with her?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"We can both flirt easily but the intent has to be there...we both couldn’t/wouldn’t flirt for flirting sakes.

You see some people flirting with everyone and to me that seems flat....you aren’t making anyone feel special if they can see that you are flirting with 10 other people on a thread

I think C needs to work on her female flirting techniques though

K

Yes, I see your point. And I certainly couldn't flirt with someone I didn't like. But when it's a flirty thread, it's good to make everyone feel included, isn't it? And it's a great way of getting to know people on the forum - it's how I started off on here.

And C is bloody stunning! Flirting or no flirting! X

I agree it’s good to make everyone feel included but if I seen someone flirt with me and then down the page they flirted with 6 others, I’d feel that flirt wasn’t really fully justified or intended.

And yes C is stunning...I had to have my flirting game on point to capture her

That is many begging letters too

K "

Aw, that's so sweet She's a lucky lady!

But yes, fine balance of flirting is the way to go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm missing something here. Is all the flirting online not just playing? Is it real flirting?? I don't understand.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

Me too!

What does it entail, flirting with a woman when you're straight? Why would you flirt with her?"

Aw, miles. It's just nice to make gals feel better. If I see a gorgeous woman, I'll tell her. If she's uncomfortable, I'll leave it at that.

But if she open to banter, it just makes you feel good. Woman can be a bit bitchy, sometimes, it nice to be nice. And hopefully, you've made her day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

Me too!

What does it entail, flirting with a woman when you're straight? Why would you flirt with her?"

Because I'm a natural flirt! There's just flirting which I do with everyone equally ... then there is sexual flirting which is just the bees knees!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The haters will always hate OP

Flirt away is what I say

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

I (f) love a flirt.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Hold on, are we talking about flirting in the Forum specifically??"

For me, flirting in the forum and flirting in private mean two very different things. Forum flirting is very much like when I was running a pub. You flirt with people to make them smile, to brighten their day a little.

If they then decide to message me, I will be polite and kind but not flirty if I'm not interested. If I am, I continue with the flirting and possibly ramp it up a little.

If I message them, unless I'm just making conversation, it means I found my nerve and I'm interested. And I doubt I leave anyone that I message first in any doubt that I'm interested.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"The haters will always hate OP

Flirt away is what I say "

Aw, Wookie is ok. Normal service will resume soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

Me too!

What does it entail, flirting with a woman when you're straight? Why would you flirt with her?

Aw, miles. It's just nice to make gals feel better. If I see a gorgeous woman, I'll tell her. If she's uncomfortable, I'll leave it at that.

But if she open to banter, it just makes you feel good. Woman can be a bit bitchy, sometimes, it nice to be nice. And hopefully, you've made her day x"

Is that flirting? I consider that to be paying a compliment and being friendly.

If that's flirting then I am a MASSIVE flirt, apparently.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Hold on, are we talking about flirting in the Forum specifically??

For me, flirting in the forum and flirting in private mean two very different things. Forum flirting is very much like when I was running a pub. You flirt with people to make them smile, to brighten their day a little.

If they then decide to message me, I will be polite and kind but not flirty if I'm not interested. If I am, I continue with the flirting and possibly ramp it up a little.

If I message them, unless I'm just making conversation, it means I found my nerve and I'm interested. And I doubt I leave anyone that I message first in any doubt that I'm interested."

Couldn't have put it better myself, PoshPants!

#freethrflirt

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I can't flirt online because it just seems fake to me ... but in life! Omg I'm a massive natural nonsexual flirt with everyone male/female young/old and it's awesome fun! But sexual flirting is just on a different level! Love it ...

Me too. I flirt with women and I'm totally straight ??

Me too!

What does it entail, flirting with a woman when you're straight? Why would you flirt with her?

Aw, miles. It's just nice to make gals feel better. If I see a gorgeous woman, I'll tell her. If she's uncomfortable, I'll leave it at that.

But if she open to banter, it just makes you feel good. Woman can be a bit bitchy, sometimes, it nice to be nice. And hopefully, you've made her day x

Is that flirting? I consider that to be paying a compliment and being friendly.

If that's flirting then I am a MASSIVE flirt, apparently."

Of course you are Miles! And that's why we love you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see anything wrong with flirting per se, but I think the type of flirting does make a difference. Gentle flirting and a bit of banter is fine, but some of the blatant following round the forum and literally throwing of oneself at someone at every available opportunity can be a bit eye-rolling to others (in my opinion obviously, and yes, I do scroll past...very quickly). And I don't think it's fair to the OP when it takes over and derails a thread. "

Sometimes the stench of piss is too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on, are we talking about flirting in the Forum specifically??

For me, flirting in the forum and flirting in private mean two very different things. Forum flirting is very much like when I was running a pub. You flirt with people to make them smile, to brighten their day a little.

"

Yups, although I am told I can inadvertantly come across flirty IRL...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got told off once for trying to take a flirt private from the forums so wouldn’t bother again "

Sounds like they were just flirting in public with you to make someone else jealous. That's mean.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Hold on, are we talking about flirting in the Forum specifically??

For me, flirting in the forum and flirting in private mean two very different things. Forum flirting is very much like when I was running a pub. You flirt with people to make them smile, to brighten their day a little.

Yups, although I am told I can inadvertantly come across flirty IRL..."

As long as you're not hurting anyone, it's ok.x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I don't see anything wrong with flirting per se, but I think the type of flirting does make a difference. Gentle flirting and a bit of banter is fine, but some of the blatant following round the forum and literally throwing of oneself at someone at every available opportunity can be a bit eye-rolling to others (in my opinion obviously, and yes, I do scroll past...very quickly). And I don't think it's fair to the OP when it takes over and derails a thread.

Sometimes the stench of piss is too much "

Are you referring to lamppost pissing? I've only recently discovered what that means from a recent thread. Total new one on me. Can't say I notice that type of thing. Is it really that bad? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got told off once for trying to take a flirt private from the forums so wouldn’t bother again

Sounds like they were just flirting in public with you to make someone else jealous. That's mean.

"

I forgot to read there profile. I’m a short arse and not there preference. I learnt the hard way on that rule

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I got told off once for trying to take a flirt private from the forums so wouldn’t bother again

Sounds like they were just flirting in public with you to make someone else jealous. That's mean.

I forgot to read there profile. I’m a short arse and not there preference. I learnt the hard way on that rule "

Also, a lot of women get loads of messages, so prefer some things to stay on the thread. Xx

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I have always been flirty too. If I really like someone though I find it very difficult to flirt without getting tongue tied and embarrassed around them. It's a bit of a giveaway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see anything wrong with flirting per se, but I think the type of flirting does make a difference. Gentle flirting and a bit of banter is fine, but some of the blatant following round the forum and literally throwing of oneself at someone at every available opportunity can be a bit eye-rolling to others (in my opinion obviously, and yes, I do scroll past...very quickly). And I don't think it's fair to the OP when it takes over and derails a thread.

Sometimes the stench of piss is too much

Are you referring to lamppost pissing? I've only recently discovered what that means from a recent thread. Total new one on me. Can't say I notice that type of thing. Is it really that bad? X"

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got told off once for trying to take a flirt private from the forums so wouldn’t bother again

Sounds like they were just flirting in public with you to make someone else jealous. That's mean.

I forgot to read there profile. I’m a short arse and not there preference. I learnt the hard way on that rule "

You're not short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut "

aww!! That's why you and I instantly clicked Goregous. You have a beautiful heart and just simply shine by being you. No one else I'd rather be two peas in a pod with!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a massive flirt, even away from fab

Me too... but I'm just outgoing and bubbly. But if I truly want someone and am interested they are going to know. No matter how shy I am with them, I'd rather feel stupid then have lost the chance to tell them . My Facial expressions and Eyes can never hide it anyway.

Same here beaut

I love you crazy ladies. "

Same my sweet Friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I really really really like you too...

And I literally Like mean that ! awwww maddie "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right update I'm.all good if people cant see I'm a flirt and I am who I am if.they dont.like that then maybe it's their loss I'm not a had person just a flirt if I like you I will tell you if I dont I wont

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