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By *uysx2 OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different.

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By *ugget O CassMan
over a year ago

Salt lake

Dealing? Yes and no I treat them the same but talk more frankly with swinging.

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By *uysx2 OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Dealing? Yes and no I treat them the same but talk more frankly with swinging."

Yes dealing isn't the best word but I was struggling to find a better word when typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mention anal a lot sooner.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I wouldn't want a vanilla girl..too boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I had more luck so far with vanilla chicks than here so far. Providing there is a spark, sex comes quickly usually after the 2nd date. It's not like you gave to court for 6 months. And you even meet NSA chicks.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I wouldn't want a vanilla girl..too boring "
vanilla doesnt mean boring

Just cause you dont bring others into your sex life doesnt mean your not kinky fuckers

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I treat them all the same.. wether a was a swinger or not a would still put out on the 1st date if theres an attraction connection x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a vanilla girl..too boring "

That sounds like kink elitism at its worst, there’s nothing wrong with vanilla, even seasoned kinksters have plenty of vanilla sex to mix things up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different."

Just a tiny question

Why do so many men on here refer to women as girls?

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By *uysx2 OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different.

Just a tiny question

Why do so many men on here refer to women as girls?"

Girls, women same difference. I did wonder which term to use and went with girls but could quite easily have used women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different.

Just a tiny question

Why do so many men on here refer to women as girls?

Girls, women same difference. I did wonder which term to use and went with girls but could quite easily have used women."

So you'd be ok with me calling you a boy?

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By *uysx2 OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different.

Just a tiny question

Why do so many men on here refer to women as girls?

Girls, women same difference. I did wonder which term to use and went with girls but could quite easily have used women.

So you'd be ok with me calling you a boy?

"

I love being called a naughty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt the hard way that they are different worlds and don't always mix, and so I have to treat dates/meets differently My broken heart reminds me daily.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I wouldn't want a vanilla girl..too boring

That sounds like kink elitism at its worst, there’s nothing wrong with vanilla, even seasoned kinksters have plenty of vanilla sex to mix things up. "
like naughty girls...end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I've always been sexually adventurous,I don't draw a distinction although my kinks are probably considered tame compared to some of the preferences on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the guys.

Guys do you do anything different when dealing with girls in the swinging world than you do in the vanilla world of dating? We all know there are certain things you have to do when dating but do you relax certain rules of dating or behave in a different way when talking to or approaching girls in the swinging world?

I find that I do behave differently when swinging and I have to reconcile this by telling myself that the two worlds are very different.

Just a tiny question

Why do so many men on here refer to women as girls?

Girls, women same difference. I did wonder which term to use and went with girls but could quite easily have used women."

It makes absolutely no difference to me whether you use girls or women

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