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Changing your mind...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking, we talk a lot here about preferences and what we like and don't.

But have you ever changed your mind? Was there something you didn't think you were attracted to or didn't think you'd enjoy that you decided to give a chance?

Or, was there something you thought you wanted and it turns out you weren't that into?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Since joining here over a year ago I've tried many things I was unsure about and so far the only thing I definitely don't like Is anal

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Not much has changed recently but there was a time in my twenties I wasn't at all attracted to black women and now I very much am. I have always liked women to be curvy, but nowadays women can be much bigger and I will still find them very attractive compared to 15 years ago. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people ...no never ..... kinks and sexual stuff yeah sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got chatty with a couple in a club a while back.

Both good looking. She was very attractive but after 10 mins of telling us everything she had got up to and the 100's of men and gang bangs etc my husband was not so keen on the idea.

He is never shy but when questioned explained that he prefers hobby swingers rather than premier league professionals.

Seemed a good enough reason

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C never used to meet guys with stubble - was a hard fast rule...

I enjoyed breaking many of her rules

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open minded and with that I’d say I’m always open to people changing my mind

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

I was once having sex with someone when she changed her mind. Does that count?

And obviously therefore, it stopped there and then, before anyone asks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab about 4 years ago, I only wanted to meet guys with smooth chests, but now my absolute preference is for a man with a hairy chest! Funny how my preference changed over that time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined fab about 4 years ago, I only wanted to meet guys with smooth chests, but now my absolute preference is for a man with a hairy chest! Funny how my preference changed over that time!"

I’ve heard similar stories in the past lol

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By *etnetWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I changed my mind because of site of penis! Only like a good looking cock..... lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Lockdown had helped me immensely with changing my mind on quiet a few things

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Was never into foot play, never did anything for me then met someone who had the skills and totally converted me

Anal was something I tried when I was younger just so I could tick it off my to do list. Wasn't hugely overwhelmed. However now, with the right person...well wow

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I used to be not keen on beards and tattoos. Still not a fan of bushy/long beards but well groomed/stubble is ok. I can overlook tattoos although I don't find them especially attractive or not - I'm now more neutral than negative.

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By *SATCMan
over a year ago

Essex

Not yet but I'm sure there will be a time lol

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

I’ve found I like a lot more kinkiness that I did before it’s more fun with the right person so yeah it’s a bit of a surprise x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ve found that I have to been even more open minded since joining and everyone deserve the chance. As I have done Because I did and I’ve spoken to very some nice people that I thought I would never get along with. I haven’t had much luck but I have had some.

just go’s to show you never know until you say hello and of course just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that I had become open to meeting younger women (early 20s) having only ever met older, but that was poor judgement on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have thought that peeing on somebody could be that exciting.

You know who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always open to new ideas .

Though i think we should have a cycling ans out doors prefrence button .

I would love to have a walking / cycling friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to dislike facial hair and loads of chest hair. Now, I love facial hair if it's kept trimmed and neat and can take or leave chest carpets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bearded hairy men and used to think I'd never meet a bald man but now I'm kind of changing my mind. Also a bit curious about bi men but not just yet...

Sexually there's loads I'd never do. But open to give a twist to my favorite practices.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Not so much change my mind but certainly confirm my interests or doubts one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very long story, spent around 30 years cross dressing because I didn't feel like a man, met a lady on here and even as my friend she's given me a new confidence to bring out the real me and shown me it's not wrong to be like this. I'm loving life again as a man!

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