FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me ? I send a chat to someone. I only want to be friendly. Then Im blocked. Is it me ? Im not a bad person, I dont steal, I love children old ladies dogs and cats. I find this most hurtful. Im lonely .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't tell you why but you're not alone in this it happens to a lot of single men.

I'm sorry you're lonely, have you tried the chat rooms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A block is better than an abusive message. A block is better than them leading you on pretending they want to meet.

See it as a good thing. It's not personal because they don't know you. You're just not compatible.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

No one knows only the blocker , i block people for multiple reasons

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I know it feels bad but there are some arsholes on here who don't know how to say no thank you. Your going to have to grow a thicker skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't feel lonely, online dating can be hard at times.

You have a specific sexual area of interest that unfortunately won't appeal to some on here.

But it will appeal to others.

You just have to persist at it.

Things will pick up once this Covid crap is sorted out.

Cindi x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Sorry that you're lonely OP, do you not have any mates in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I feel that Im on the outside looking in. Theres a warm fire, a welcome . But not for me. Going to be lonely this Christmas. I may go and work for Crisis in London over the holiday period. It pushes me into depression again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel that Im on the outside looking in. Theres a warm fire, a welcome . But not for me. Going to be lonely this Christmas. I may go and work for Crisis in London over the holiday period. It pushes me into depression again and again."

Do you have anyone you can talk to, any family or friends?

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

"Is it me ? I send a chat to someone. I only want to be friendly. Then Im blocked. Is it me ? Im not a bad person, I dont steal, I love children old ladies dogs and cats. I find this most hurtful. Im lonely . "

I have chatted to couples before who do this, they use it as their way of filtering people they don’t wish to meet , I don’t think it’s personal x hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to be lonely this Christmas. "

Xmas is the one time of the year where the western world actively persecutes you if you're alone. I've been on my own at Xmas for some years, but I don't mind it. I can get up when I want, eat what I like, watch what I want, have a real break. I see friends and family other days. Of course, I know I'm out of step on this. One piece of advice: don't watch TV in the days leading up to Xmas - the relentless ads for presents does tend to depress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think feeling a little depressed might be the lot of many subs. After all, you're setting yourself up to be used sexually, and you enjoy that. But now and then you don't want to be used - everyone needs a hug from time to time and be told they're precious, particularly at times when everyone seems to be having that such as Xmas.

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